MaryB2 Member

Stage 4a cervical cancer, spread to bladder. Currently in treatment.

How tall are you and what is your current and goal weight?

You actually had 1 piece of gum for breakfast and 443 calories that day?? If that's true you really need to eat more.

Thank you! I was hoping for a good update. :-)

That seems low, my husband is 5'4" and weighs that. It is a really healthy weight for him, no fat and lots of muscle.

Honest, especially if I ask.

Not selfish at all! I've known my dad my whole life and won't let him borrow my car, I know he drinks and drives. I let siblings and friends but not my dad.

Nobody was being a smartass, they were offering you advice (which is what you asked for)!

Exactly! Our bodies are not trash cans!

I'm not talking about slim, but in shape and healthy. My husband eats what he wants, not necessarily "heart attack foods" all the time but whatever he wants. He has a very physical job and is in great shape. His blood pressure, heart rate, sugar and everything else is good. Even if her boyfriend isn't healthy it's not up…

Why does he have to eat the same foods if he's in shape?

Awesome job! You look very young in your after photos.

It's possible she's had an ED in the past. Right now with her weight she's at low end of normal BMI. I know there's better ways of measuring but since we don't see her that's all I have. He did get her a gym membership. Maybe don't encourage her not to listen to him so fast when it sounds like he's doing what's best for…

Thank you so much everyone! My doctor just told me to try and regain my strength before treatment. My best bet is probably making sure I eat healthy and don't lay around like before the diagnosis.

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In Houston there are A LOT of places public transportation doesn't go. Sounds like she is doing fine with her budget if she paying rent, her car and food.

That sounds good

Best answer yet!!

I was thinking that, I have exercise induced asthma and it makes being active uncomfortable.

Maybe you should take her to the doctor to make sure there are no health reasons why she would be hurting with being active.

I couldn't post new pictures from iPad but this is the body I'd prefer to Yo's. No offense to her, just my preference.

I didn't see where anyone was mean to you, they were only trying to get their point across. You can quit and lose nothing, possibly gain or you can keep going and lose, even if it is slower than you'd like. ETA: you could also open your food diary which may give people a better idea of how to help you.

I had a Kindle Fire and didn't like it at all. I love my iPad.

Do you not realize your OP was against the rules? You can't specify who replies to your thread. #15 in the link you posted above.

Why do people assume that the way someone is online is not the way they are face-to-face? I'm me regardless. I've always been opinionated, especially if someone asks a question.

The jeans look really cute with that shirt! :smile:

That's awesome!

I've wondered for a long time. What is that in your profile picture? ????

@ hyperfang 7th picture

@ raider Cap, sunglasses and pretzel necklace