Not so new, but new to this.
So i am Kalan. Been dieting towards my goal since may2015. So about 5 months. For the most part i have been doing well (down 55lbs), but i am having a hard time staying motivated and also my self esteem is taking a BIG hit. I was married May 30th. My wife loved me big, but i got smaller. She loves me now just as much, but…