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Why do some people find love so effortlessly while others struggle?
Why do you think some people find true love and their partners so easily while others wait years to find it and endure so much heartbreak? Is it pure dumb luck? I’ve (30F) always found relationships/hook-ups somewhat easily but that’s probably because I’m outgoing and conventionally attractive. I found true love and a…
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Who has been the most influential person in your life and why?
For me, it’s my mom because she’s the most loving, selfless and classy woman I know. What about y’all?
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Has anyone done a cross country move solo?
Hi all! I (30F) currently live in the NYC metro area. The summers are humid and the winters are long! This really seems to wreck havoc on my anxiety and depression, which I’ve struggled with my whole life. I am getting it properly treated but it still pops up now and then. This is where my question comes in. I’m a HUGE…
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Can anyone recommend a good hotline for anxiety and depression support?
I struggle with pretty bad depression and anxiety that sometimes affects my ability to work, sleep and eat. I am seeing a therapist and on medication but it still overwhelms me at times. Sometimes I just need to talk and vent, especially since I don’t want to always burden my friends and family. To clarify, I am NOT and…
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Anyone find true love and a partner after 30 or a long period of singledom?
Any ladies find true love and a partner after 30 or a long period of singledom? I’m 30 and haven't had a serious boyfriend in 2 years. My love life has been pretty rocky. My college love/soulmate unexpectedly passed away when I was 23 after 4 years together. A few months after he died, I fell in love again. What started…
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Anyone have an autoimmune disease? What are your symptoms and how do you manage your illness?
Hi all! I (30F) will try to keep this short & sweet. I am overall in very good health physically but have struggled with terrible depression and anxiety nearly my whole life. It started to get really bad at 18 when I first left my small hometown for a huge state party school where I knew not one soul. I have tried…
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Does anyone have an unconventional love story?
I know true love and a partnership isn’t always boy meets girl, they fall in love, get married, have babies and live happily ever after. Lots of couples meet, break up, remain friends and reunite as a couple many years later. Some people marry their childhood sweetheart while others meet their soulmate in an assisted…
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How do you effectively manage your depression & anxiety?
Since I (30F) was in my teens, I have struggled with terrible anxiety and depression. It started in high school, got much worse in college and carried through into my young adulthood. It is particularly bad in the hottest months of summer (like right now) and around the holidays. Something about humidity and extreme cold…
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How to get out of feeling like you’re in a rut?
Hi ladies! I’m a 29 (almost 30) year old professional lady who has been feeling very restless and blah a majority of the past two years. On paper, my life looks great! I have tons of friendships that are exciting and fulfilling, an active social life, busy workout schedule, good job and awesome coworkers. I worked really…
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Anyone find true love & a partner after 30?
I’m about to turn 30 in a month and am single af. Last relationship ended 7 months ago. My love life has been pretty rocky. My college love/soulmate unexpectedly passed away when I was 23 after 4 years together and I’ve never really found anyone who quite compares in terms of kindness, intelligence and overall awesomeness.…
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Any ladies or gentleman find true love and a partner after age 30?
I’m about to turn 30 in a month and am single af. Last relationship ended 7 months ago. My love life has been pretty rocky. My college love/soulmate unexpectedly passed away when I was 23 after 4 years together and I’ve never really found anyone who quite compares in terms of kindness, intelligence and overall awesomeness.…
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Where is my happy ending?
I’m a 30 year old woman who has been very lucky in life - I have an amazing & supportive family, career, financial freedom, plenty of friends, beauty and an education. However, besides being fortunate enough to be born into a financially stable and loving family, I have always struggled... a LOT. Nothing has ever come easy…
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Friday motivation :)
I ended an extremely emotionally & sometimes physically abusive relationship in July 2017. I could go on & on & on about all the horrible & cruel things my ex did to me and how much pain and anguish I felt during the relationship and after I finally walked away for good. But I’d rather focus on the present and how well I…
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Fellow members, help me with my online dating profile!?
Hi! Hope everyone is well. I am wondering if any guys on this sub would be willing to assist me? I am 29 years old and online dating the past few months after getting out of an LTR. I get a fair amount of responses to my online profiles but the guys I seem to attract are either 1) creeps or 2) can't carry a conversation. I…
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I feel like I will never move on from this toxic relationship
Hi all, I was wondering if any of you can provide some moral support or advice. I am 29 years old and ended a 4 year long toxic relationship back in July 2017. I am 99.9% sure my ex-boyfriend Mark* suffers from narcissistic personality disorder (if you ever read a book or article about NPD, he is a textbook case) and our…
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Advice on finding happiness after a toxic breakup
I am 28 years old and ended an extremely toxic 4-year long relationship back in July 2017. While our breakup provided me a lot of relief emotionally, I really struggled in the aftermath. On top of the breakup, I have always struggled with really bad anxiety and depression. My struggles in the past have been so difficult…
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Advice on surviving a toxic relationship and finding happiness again
I am 28 years old and ended an extremely toxic 4-year long relationship back in July 2017. While our breakup provided me a lot of relief emotionally, I really struggled in the aftermath. On top of the breakup, I have always struggled with really bad anxiety and depression. My struggles in the past have been so difficult…
