Being 'the best friend' aka 'turns out I am superficial'
Warning - this is a long one, I'm sorry! I've just joined MFP yesterday...been heavy all my life, it's created some pretty nasty demons inside, always wanted to change, but never felt motivated enough, blah blah blah. For the last year I have been 'seeing' this man. He is a single father with two kids (7 and 8) and I am in…