kiss and poof

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  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    Maybe the person just didn't feel anything after the kiss or the kiss was a turn off. I have kissed a guy that kissed like a fish and was a total turn off, if it was a date situation I would have poofed on him after.

    I have the unfortunate habit of finding the guys who use far too much tongue and just get plain sloppy. I don't want to have to use a towel after I kiss you. When this happens, it will absolutely be the last time.

    LOL!! Yeah, I'm a 'less tongue is more' kinda gal too!!

    I tend to come across the opposite, one guy insisted on only using the VERY TIPS of our tongues for kissing and it just creeped me out. It struck me as prudish and made me more uncomfortable. I'd prefer too much tongue to too little.

    lol one of my friends said the same thing about a guy she hooked up with. she said he kissed like a lizard only sticking out his tongue very quickly and for short periods of time LOL. I have never been able to look at the guy and keep a straight face after that. hehe.

    Oh my gosh that is exactly the description I needed.
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    Maybe the person just didn't feel anything after the kiss or the kiss was a turn off. I have kissed a guy that kissed like a fish and was a total turn off, if it was a date situation I would have poofed on him after.

    I have the unfortunate habit of finding the guys who use far too much tongue and just get plain sloppy. I don't want to have to use a towel after I kiss you. When this happens, it will absolutely be the last time.

    LOL!! Yeah, I'm a 'less tongue is more' kinda gal too!!

    I tend to come across the opposite, one guy insisted on only using the VERY TIPS of our tongues for kissing and it just creeped me out. It struck me as prudish and made me more uncomfortable. I'd prefer too much tongue to too little.

    lol one of my friends said the same thing about a guy she hooked up with. she said he kissed like a lizard only sticking out his tongue very quickly and for short periods of time LOL. I have never been able to look at the guy and keep a straight face after that. hehe.

    Oh my gosh that is exactly the description I needed.

    I just like a guy that can control his tongue.
  • dbrightwell1270
    dbrightwell1270 Posts: 1,732 Member
    Maybe the person just didn't feel anything after the kiss or the kiss was a turn off. I have kissed a guy that kissed like a fish and was a total turn off, if it was a date situation I would have poofed on him after.

    I have the unfortunate habit of finding the guys who use far too much tongue and just get plain sloppy. I don't want to have to use a towel after I kiss you. When this happens, it will absolutely be the last time.

    LOL!! Yeah, I'm a 'less tongue is more' kinda gal too!!

    I tend to come across the opposite, one guy insisted on only using the VERY TIPS of our tongues for kissing and it just creeped me out. It struck me as prudish and made me more uncomfortable. I'd prefer too much tongue to too little.

    lol one of my friends said the same thing about a guy she hooked up with. she said he kissed like a lizard only sticking out his tongue very quickly and for short periods of time LOL. I have never been able to look at the guy and keep a straight face after that. hehe.

    Oh my gosh that is exactly the description I needed.

    I just like a guy that can control his tongue.

    You're talking about kissing right?
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
    Maybe the person just didn't feel anything after the kiss or the kiss was a turn off. I have kissed a guy that kissed like a fish and was a total turn off, if it was a date situation I would have poofed on him after.

    I have the unfortunate habit of finding the guys who use far too much tongue and just get plain sloppy. I don't want to have to use a towel after I kiss you. When this happens, it will absolutely be the last time.

    LOL!! Yeah, I'm a 'less tongue is more' kinda gal too!!

    I tend to come across the opposite, one guy insisted on only using the VERY TIPS of our tongues for kissing and it just creeped me out. It struck me as prudish and made me more uncomfortable. I'd prefer too much tongue to too little.

    lol one of my friends said the same thing about a guy she hooked up with. she said he kissed like a lizard only sticking out his tongue very quickly and for short periods of time LOL. I have never been able to look at the guy and keep a straight face after that. hehe.

    Oh my gosh that is exactly the description I needed.

    I just like a guy that can control his tongue.

    You're talking about kissing right?

    errr... sure.
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    Maybe the person just didn't feel anything after the kiss or the kiss was a turn off. I have kissed a guy that kissed like a fish and was a total turn off, if it was a date situation I would have poofed on him after.

    I have the unfortunate habit of finding the guys who use far too much tongue and just get plain sloppy. I don't want to have to use a towel after I kiss you. When this happens, it will absolutely be the last time.

    LOL!! Yeah, I'm a 'less tongue is more' kinda gal too!!

    I tend to come across the opposite, one guy insisted on only using the VERY TIPS of our tongues for kissing and it just creeped me out. It struck me as prudish and made me more uncomfortable. I'd prefer too much tongue to too little.

    lol one of my friends said the same thing about a guy she hooked up with. she said he kissed like a lizard only sticking out his tongue very quickly and for short periods of time LOL. I have never been able to look at the guy and keep a straight face after that. hehe.

    Oh my gosh that is exactly the description I needed.

    I just like a guy that can control his tongue.

    You're talking about kissing right?

    errr... sure.

    Absolutely! We are ladies, not sluts. HARRUMPH
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
    Hahaha omg you guys... These last few posts have me chuckling really hard :P
  • atjays
    atjays Posts: 797 Member
    You've never been the lucky victim of pure unadulterated lust? That feeling or action of making out with or having sex with someone for that reason alone? I think sometimes it is just pure curiosity as well as the ability to separate emotion from physical action.

    This pretty much nails it. I had the hard time explaining a recent transgression of mine to a friend the other day. Really could only break it down to I wanted this chick badly for a length of time and the chance came to satisfy that curiosity and that was really all it was, just primal lust for both parties involved and we went on our marry way afterwards. Another friend of mine can't wrap their head around having sex with someone you're not in love with... I think most of us can agree that sex is not dependent on love but they didn't understand (they had zero dating experience and married their first BF).
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    A kiss is just a kiss.... unless it's awesome and it leads to more. If the timing is right, there's nothing wrong with a kiss or a good makeout session. I won't kiss every date, but I won't turn it down if it's been a great night.

    ETA - Back to the original topic.... I've gone on dates that were "good", not "great". The guy was nice, conversation flowed (not necessarily instant sparks), but I let him go in for the kiss to see if there was chemistry. If there was, we had a second date. If there wasn't, usually I'd decline the second date.
  • Cameron_1969
    Cameron_1969 Posts: 2,855 Member
    Maybe the person just didn't feel anything after the kiss or the kiss was a turn off. I have kissed a guy that kissed like a fish and was a total turn off, if it was a date situation I would have poofed on him after.

    I have the unfortunate habit of finding the guys who use far too much tongue and just get plain sloppy. I don't want to have to use a towel after I kiss you. When this happens, it will absolutely be the last time.

    LOL!! Yeah, I'm a 'less tongue is more' kinda gal too!!

    I tend to come across the opposite, one guy insisted on only using the VERY TIPS of our tongues for kissing and it just creeped me out. It struck me as prudish and made me more uncomfortable. I'd prefer too much tongue to too little.

    lol one of my friends said the same thing about a guy she hooked up with. she said he kissed like a lizard only sticking out his tongue very quickly and for short periods of time LOL. I have never been able to look at the guy and keep a straight face after that. hehe.

    It happens to guys too. I dated a girl for awhile that just could NOT kiss!. Imagine a dental patient with her mouth wide open. .Now imagine kissing that. . It was pretty terrible. . I didn't poof, though. . I told her I was still too messed up from my divorce (which was actually true, so it wasn't really a lie). .
  • jkandktmom
    jkandktmom Posts: 1,010 Member
    Maybe the person just didn't feel anything after the kiss or the kiss was a turn off. I have kissed a guy that kissed like a fish and was a total turn off, if it was a date situation I would have poofed on him after.

    I have the unfortunate habit of finding the guys who use far too much tongue and just get plain sloppy. I don't want to have to use a towel after I kiss you. When this happens, it will absolutely be the last time.

    LOL!! Yeah, I'm a 'less tongue is more' kinda gal too!!

    I tend to come across the opposite, one guy insisted on only using the VERY TIPS of our tongues for kissing and it just creeped me out. It struck me as prudish and made me more uncomfortable. I'd prefer too much tongue to too little.

    lol one of my friends said the same thing about a guy she hooked up with. she said he kissed like a lizard only sticking out his tongue very quickly and for short periods of time LOL. I have never been able to look at the guy and keep a straight face after that. hehe.

    It happens to guys too. I dated a girl for awhile that just could NOT kiss!. Imagine a dental patient with her mouth wide open. .Now imagine kissing that. . It was pretty terrible. . I didn't poof, though. . I told her I was still too messed up from my divorce (which was actually true, so it wasn't really a lie). .

    I had the whole dental patient thing with an addition of a clock- the tongue just went back and forth, back and forth, back and forth at a very rhythmic pace. I tried to move my tongue to derail this pace but it didn't work. I actually told the guy we weren't compatible especially on the kissing front.

    Ps Nice to see you back Cam