The NYT asks: "Why Do Obese Patients Get Worse Care?" I too would like to know the answer!

KetoGirl_ZC
KetoGirl_ZC Posts: 48 Member
edited December 4 in Social Groups
A very interesting article, part of "The Science of Fat" series.

I once had a doctor that said to me: "There were no fat people in Auschwitz."

I was in my twenties, I'll never forget how inadequate I felt. I tried starving myself for a while (wasn't that what the doctor was recommending?), I ate a very strict diet of brown rice and little else. I did lose weight, together with my energy and sunny disposition. Guess what happened when I couldn't starve any longer? Yes, that was the beginning of the ballooning that brought me to T2D two years ago. Big surprise, I'm sure. That was the first time I stepped in a scale in a decade and I was 315lbs. And I had been low carb for a few weeks already, so I'll never know my real max.

I would like to punch the idiot doctor and all the others through the years. Ignorant and disrespectful.

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Full article here:
nytimes.com/2016/09/26/health/obese-patients-health-care.html?_r=0

::flowerforyou::

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  • tcunbeliever
    tcunbeliever Posts: 8,219 Member
    There's a reason they call what they do "practice"...
  • moonlights
    moonlights Posts: 141 Member
    Because doctors are taught to be fatphobic. I have a number of friends whose doctors have missed serious medical issues - and when I say serious as a tumor I mean that literally - because every single symptom is put down to weight. There are a few good doctors out there but the statistics show fat people get worse care, poorer pain management and slower diagnoses. Doctors are under pressure and blaming fat is a simple option. This is why terrible advice is given on things like diabetes too - they just tell you to lose weight and not that eating a ton of low fat junk might make things worse.

    There is also almost never any consideration given to a) physiological medical issues that may be causing the person to be overweight or to struggle losing b) mental issues such as depression which are causal or influential in a lot of people's weight gain.

    Idk seeing the Doctor is never going to be the funnest thing but when you're fat it can be a nightmare.
  • KnitOrMiss
    KnitOrMiss Posts: 10,103 Member
    I've seen both sides of this, but yes, my obesity is ALWAYS noted in the chart as the primary issue, no matter if it is directly related or not. I kind of felt like a I had a breakthrough with my PCP. My previous visit, she kind of chided me a bit for reading too much into blood labs and such... Then the next visit, she started out with saying something to the effect of, "Before we go into why you're here today, I just really want to say how proud I am of you and your weight loss. You may not have lost as much as you need to long term or for your whole health, but you've lost a good bit (over 60 pounds), and you've kept it off over 4 years so far. That's really rare and nearly every patient I've had who's lost a good bit of weight, they've gained it all back in less time and gained more than their original. Even if you've had a bit of a blip since the holidays, you've stopped it cold, in it's tracks, and I don't know many people who could do that, myself included."

    It was a shock, because I'd been feeling horrible and backsliding some at that time. It still resonates with me, and that was what, 6 months ago or longer? I don't consider myself a success, and quite often consider myself a failure. But luckily, I've become enough of an advocate for myself that I address my obesity (still in the morbidly obese category despite my losses) as an ongoing project, and acknowledge that it still impacts my daily life, but I force them to take it off the table as their only concern. If they won't, that doctor(s) will NOT stay my doctor, at least not for long. Even specialists. I've gained the confidence in myself, at least partially due to my age (40), that I will fire anyone who doesn't take me seriously and address me as an educated and knowledgeable person. I don't claim to know everything, by any stretch, but any doctor who treats me as stupid and refuses to explain things? Nope! Not my doc anymore...

    In fact, despite having moved 40 miles away now, I'm debating keeping her as my doctor because we have 10 years of history, and she knows what's been going on with me, how far I've come, the struggles I've made. But, I could find someone even better for me here, but there's no way to know...
  • KetoGirl_ZC
    KetoGirl_ZC Posts: 48 Member
    @MyriiStorm thank you so much for sharing! I love Peter Attia and had never seen this talk.

    So inspiring. I kept thinking of my grandmother who died after losing first a foot and then a leg, due to diabetic complications. She followed her doctor's recommendations religiously. That's one of the main reasons I don't. I wish there was a Peter Attia around here!

    ::flowerforyou::
  • KnitOrMiss
    KnitOrMiss Posts: 10,103 Member
    MyriiStorm wrote: »
    This is one of my favorite videos about a doctor changing his view of obese patients and T2D: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UMhLBPPtlrY

    I wish more doctors had his current attitude.

    @MyrilStorm - I have never watched any talks from Peter Attia before, and this literally brought me to tears. What if my getting to the point of being Severely Morbidly Obese by the age of 33, at just under 5'4", and 319 pounds as the highest recorded weight...what if that horror I lived through actually protected me so far? I have insulin resistance, but I hadn't yet tipped the balance over to have problems in my glucose levels. This makes me wonder how much of that weight is my body being protective and trying to save me from that underlying metabolic issue. Goodness, I think this might be the feather in my cap I needed to finally be more motivated to fight back against my IR...


    Thank you. I've no other words.
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