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RedSassyPants
RedSassyPants Posts: 412 Member
edited November 14 in Social Groups
This time around I am not weighing myself. I akways get scale obsessed and I just can't do it again. I have a size goal this time... as in my goal is to fit into a size ---- comfortably. I have to drop 5 sizes. I am officially down 1.
Feeling great!

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  • Al_Howard
    Al_Howard Posts: 8,713 Member
    Nice! :)
  • beachwoman2006
    beachwoman2006 Posts: 1,214 Member
    edited January 2017
    I'm just the opposite. My goal for this year was/is to weigh every morning. I did that in previous years and it seemed to keep me on track. The difference is that I am not going to stress out when I see a gain on the scale. I know...easier said than done, huh? LOL

    But as I posted sometime last week, I also have a pair of jeans that I am determined to be able to zip and button and still be able to breathe! They fit fine two years ago :(

    Congrats on dropping a size!
  • TimDumez
    TimDumez Posts: 1,161 Member
    I am a daily weigher. That seems to work best for me. I have no idea what size I'm aiming for. I just know it will be a heck of a lot smaller than a 56 inch waist... lol
  • 88olds
    88olds Posts: 4,534 Member
    Interesting. Don't recall ever seeing this done quite like this on GOAD. Keep us posted.
  • myallforjcbill
    myallforjcbill Posts: 5,729 Member
    Wow, so you have moved Beyond The Scale. :smiley:

    Congratulations on your success and creativity. Well done. I just started daily weighing last week
  • imastar2
    imastar2 Posts: 6,244 Member
    @RedSassyPants....WTG! losing a size. I'm a daily weigher and going to keep this going. It really keeps me humble a lot of days.
  • Jimb376mfp
    Jimb376mfp Posts: 6,236 Member
    Sassy,
    That seems like a lot but I'm a guy and don't know much about ladies clothes/sizes. Sounds like lots of new clothes are in your future as you work your way down. Good luck!

    At my biggest I was 3X or even 4X! My son sent me a real nice 5X golf shirt once. I told him I was ONLY a 3X!
    Last summer I bought one size Large shirt, it was a snug so my goals include fitting into it comfortably this summer.

    My pant waist size has gone from 50+ to current 40. I swore off sweat pants! To get to 38 I have to destroy my spare tire of belly fat, a difficult opponent.
  • linmueller
    linmueller Posts: 1,354 Member
    Wow Sassy! That is some serious discipline. I thought I was doing great when I dealt with scale obsession by only weighing once a week. I can't imagine only being concretely affirmed when I fit in a smaller size. I really admire your perseverance. Congrats on your smaller pants! ... And this is from a daily weigher who is considering daily weighing on my upcoming cruise
  • RedSassyPants
    RedSassyPants Posts: 412 Member
    I have an obsessive personality
    I can't allow myself to weigh myself daily
    Because it would turn into multiple times a day. I can't own a scale
    I have my boss and trainer helping me
  • beachwoman2006
    beachwoman2006 Posts: 1,214 Member
    linmueller wrote: »
    And this is from a daily weigher who is considering daily weighing on my upcoming cruise

    I took a scale with me on a cruise once :)

  • gadgetgirlIL
    gadgetgirlIL Posts: 1,381 Member
    edited January 2017
    linmueller wrote: »
    \And this is from a daily weigher who is considering daily weighing on my upcoming cruise

    I bought a travel scale and have taken it with me on extended trips. It is small enough that it can go in my luggage for an airplane trip. I don't bother for a trip where I'm only gone a night, but longer trips, the scale goes with.
  • GavinFlynn1
    GavinFlynn1 Posts: 1,664 Member
    Good for you to find a way to make this work for you. Humans aren't cookie cutter shaped.
  • podkey
    podkey Posts: 5,170 Member
    Yeah maybe sad but a daily weigher here too who looks at average weights for at least 4-6 days to see the trends. I always believe in doing what works for oneself for sure.

  • Rachel0778
    Rachel0778 Posts: 1,701 Member
    That's fantastic! I also stay away from the scale except to check in a few times a year. It's helped leaps and bounds with my mental health
  • cakeman21k
    cakeman21k Posts: 6,430 Member
    weighing myself is an ocd subject for me. I weigh myself every morning when I wake up and every evening before bed. It has not made me either a better or worse person, and it does work for me without hurting any one else so what the h#ll. (PS I weigh myself while naked any one else do that?)
  • minimyzeme
    minimyzeme Posts: 2,708 Member
    That is fantastic, @RedSassyPants ! I like your approach! I think fitting into certain size clothes is a great way to keep tabs on the trend of your loss, especially since you know your personality enough to know you're scale-obcessed.

    I realized my first week on WW that weighing every day was not for me (when I thought I had lost close to 10 pounds according to the home scale, only to find I had gained 4 when I weighed in at WW). That I week I decided I would only weigh in at meetings while I was in losing mode. I learned from GOAD to focus on the behavior around food. I knew the scale would eventually follow if I made mindful choices consistent with my goal.

    Good job on your part. I am absolutely convinced weight loss is more mental than physical. Seems like you've found a great strategy to tackle the mental aspect while reaching your weight loss objective. Awesome; keep at it!
  • gadgetgirlIL
    gadgetgirlIL Posts: 1,381 Member
    @cakeman21k - yes, I always weigh first thing in the morning while only in my "birthday suit". That is the only weight that I truly consider valid and is the one that goes into my Happy Scale app.
  • Al_Howard
    Al_Howard Posts: 8,713 Member
    And, in the words of a doctor of "yesteryear" " after a complete evacuation".
  • countcurt
    countcurt Posts: 593 Member
    Whatever works. I find that I can too easily convince myself that something 'fits' or go shopping at stores that do more vanity sizing.

    But, if you trust the process (and follow it) you'll get where you want to be. With or without a scale.
  • linmueller
    linmueller Posts: 1,354 Member
    linmueller wrote: »
    And this is from a daily weigher who is considering daily weighing on my upcoming cruise

    I took a scale with me on a cruise once :)

    And I plan to find one at the gym this trip. Determined, for once, to NOT gain 1# for every day of vacation!
  • linmueller
    linmueller Posts: 1,354 Member
    cakeman21k wrote: »
    weighing myself is an ocd subject for me. I weigh myself every morning when I wake up and every evening before bed. It has not made me either a better or worse person, and it does work for me without hurting any one else so what the h#ll. (PS I weigh myself while naked any one else do that?)

    I weigh first thing in the a.m., naked for sure!!!, then often hop on again after a shower, 'just to see'.

    The difference from early WW days is it doesn't drive me crazy now. Instead it keeps me mindful and makes me happy (I like seeing that I'm on track, even with some expected fluctuations). I can too easily be swayed to stick my head in the sand. Unfortunately, while it's there, my butt grows!
  • linmueller
    linmueller Posts: 1,354 Member
    edited January 2017
    minimyzeme wrote: »

    I realized my first week on WW that weighing every day was not for me (when I thought I had lost close to 10 pounds according to the home scale, only to find I had gained 4 when I weighed in at WW).

    Wow Kim @minimyzeme ! It's amazing that you stuck with WW! A 14# discrepancy would have put me in a tail spin! That really says a lot for you, and explains your direct path to goal. I'm amazed! Ya, just WOW!
  • podkey
    podkey Posts: 5,170 Member
    Simple. I fired my craaaapy home scale which wasn't working and bought the same pro scale our meetings use (on sale). We always agree now.
  • Jimb376mfp
    Jimb376mfp Posts: 6,236 Member
    I never weigh naked...at my WW meeting,
    But I always take off my pants! I wear my lucky summer shorts.
  • TimDumez
    TimDumez Posts: 1,161 Member
    I weigh myself at home and at the doctors office fully clothed with 2 sets of keys, 3 or 4 bucks worth of change in my pocket, a stuffed wallet, shoes on, and big cellphone in my pocket. I use that as my official weight... YMMV!!!
  • minimyzeme
    minimyzeme Posts: 2,708 Member
    linmueller wrote: »
    Wow Kim @minimyzeme ! It's amazing that you stuck with WW! A 14# discrepancy would have put me in a tail spin! That really says a lot for you, and explains your direct path to goal. I'm amazed! Ya, just WOW!

    Not to hijack this thread, but @linmueller , it was actually a really great lesson for me in a very condensed timeframe. When I joined WW, I was very motivated. Truthfully, that first WI was really tough, for the reasons you noted. In the course of a couple hours, I went from thinking I had to buy the super-bestest scale to reconciling that I didn't need one.

    Really, the change in perspective had come from reflecting on the many archived GOAD posts I had read. I counted on the belief that I had to do something (or many things) different with my eating behavior and THAT would change the number on the scale. So I just made my mind up to focus on that instead of the scale. That decision was reinforced weekly when I saw people live and die by the scale number. I guess it worked for them but that approach did not and would not have worked for me.
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