May chit-chat

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  • jltheis7
    jltheis7 Posts: 496 Member
    HLaR79, hope this means you are not in as much pain...good for you! And to respond to an earlier post, it was judgmental. They all eat basically what they want; there are chips, cookies, baked goods, etc in the break room. They don't understand what it is like to have circumstances like we do. So me eating a whole bag of green beans rather th a n the pizza and pasta and Chinese they eat plus all the sweets puts the spotlight on me. They will talk about it when I leave the room, not realizing I can hear them from the other room. "Who is she trying to fool eating that when it's obvious she doesn't eat healthy since she's so fat" was a recent comment. I don't take it personally as I am only accountable to myself and they can think what they want.

    I'll post the mango chicken recipe tomorrow.

    Happy Memorial Day tomorrow here in the States; I have the day off so I'm gonna sleep in!
  • Italian_Buju
    Italian_Buju Posts: 8,030 Member
    HLaR79 wrote: »
    I will be back in April italian_buju :smile:

    I tried out exercise and my shoulder held up and i finally used my march gift card for pants and got my self a really nice pair of capris style pants in a size 22 and they fit. I am exciting and cannot wait for June!!!

    Um, did you mean April?

    Nice that you got yourself some capris!
  • HLaR79
    HLaR79 Posts: 1,519 Member
    I totally mean June... :smile:
    Thanks jltheis i am in less pain though i have 2 fingers i cant feel at all so good or bad i dont know but i certainly took advantage of it.
    People are so rude... Good for you for walking away. I would do things like leave articles laying around with skinny people health problems from eating crappy foods lol. Chinese is terrible for anyone (so tasty though)
  • pnece
    pnece Posts: 179 Member
    jltheis7 wrote: »
    HLaR79, hope this means you are not in as much pain...good for you! And to respond to an earlier post, it was judgmental. They all eat basically what they want; there are chips, cookies, baked goods, etc in the break room. They don't understand what it is like to have circumstances like we do. So me eating a whole bag of green beans rather th a n the pizza and pasta and Chinese they eat plus all the sweets puts the spotlight on me. They will talk about it when I leave the room, not realizing I can hear them from the other room. "Who is she trying to fool eating that when it's obvious she doesn't eat healthy since she's so fat" was a recent comment. I don't take it personally as I am only accountable to myself and they can think what they want.

    I'll post the mango chicken recipe tomorrow.

    Happy Memorial Day tomorrow here in the States; I have the day off so I'm gonna sleep in!

    Wow! Congrats to you for not taking it personally! I'm so sorry they're being judgmental. I work with the Obesity Action Coalition's Weight Bias Task Force. There's sooooooooo much education that needs to be done. These people are, at a minimum, talking out of ignorance. At worst, they hold with society's conventional "wisdom": blame the person with obesity for their disease. I've lived that my entire life -- and now I'm working to change the narrative.
  • Italian_Buju
    Italian_Buju Posts: 8,030 Member
    jltheis7 wrote: »
    HLaR79, hope this means you are not in as much pain...good for you! And to respond to an earlier post, it was judgmental. They all eat basically what they want; there are chips, cookies, baked goods, etc in the break room. They don't understand what it is like to have circumstances like we do. So me eating a whole bag of green beans rather th a n the pizza and pasta and Chinese they eat plus all the sweets puts the spotlight on me. They will talk about it when I leave the room, not realizing I can hear them from the other room. "Who is she trying to fool eating that when it's obvious she doesn't eat healthy since she's so fat" was a recent comment. I don't take it personally as I am only accountable to myself and they can think what they want.

    I'll post the mango chicken recipe tomorrow.

    Happy Memorial Day tomorrow here in the States; I have the day off so I'm gonna sleep in!

    I do not know how you can keep your mouth shut in such a situation. I would have ended up beaking off at them for sure! Sorry that happened!
  • Italian_Buju
    Italian_Buju Posts: 8,030 Member
    HLaR79 wrote: »
    I totally mean June... :smile:
    Thanks jltheis i am in less pain though i have 2 fingers i cant feel at all so good or bad i dont know but i certainly took advantage of it.
    People are so rude... Good for you for walking away. I would do things like leave articles laying around with skinny people health problems from eating crappy foods lol. Chinese is terrible for anyone (so tasty though)

    Ok I feel like I missed something major here....what happened to your hand/arm?
  • Italian_Buju
    Italian_Buju Posts: 8,030 Member
    Ok so should we try for another challenge in June?

    I cheated this month anyway.....I was supposed to be saving up for a new bathing suit, but they went on sale 50% off which NEVER happens....a one day flash sale....so I just went and bought two that day.

    In all fairness, bathing suits are not really a luxury item when I am swimming 3-5 times a week for exercise. And because I am in the water so much, they do not last long.....
  • jltheis7
    jltheis7 Posts: 496 Member
    Yes, I love challenges! This time next week, I will be starting summer vacation. I am not teaching summer school for the first time in 13 years. So no excuses!

    You are right, the swim suit is a necessity for you. Swimming is such a great exercise . And 50% off?

  • Italian_Buju
    Italian_Buju Posts: 8,030 Member
    Ok I will start a June challenge

    I just hate when I end up alone in there talking to myself, lol
  • HLaR79
    HLaR79 Posts: 1,519 Member
    HLaR79 wrote: »
    I totally mean June... :smile:
    Thanks jltheis i am in less pain though i have 2 fingers i cant feel at all so good or bad i dont know but i certainly took advantage of it.
    People are so rude... Good for you for walking away. I would do things like leave articles laying around with skinny people health problems from eating crappy foods lol. Chinese is terrible for anyone (so tasty though)

    Ok I feel like I missed something major here....what happened to your hand/arm?

    I have nerve damage/pain that started in my neck and travelled down my left arm that basically left me useless ... it's why I stopped doing May challenge I basically worked and went home and cried lol. I have an appointment on Wednesday with a specialist and the worst of the pain is gone except for pins and needles constantly and two numb fingers but I'm back up to full activity most days

  • HLaR79
    HLaR79 Posts: 1,519 Member
    And I am in for the June challenge :smile:
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