To women that never faked an "O"..
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When you're married, work full time, have a young child etc etc etc..it does not happen EVERY time...so what do you do, just lay there until husband's D**** falls off ..or fake it???
Pretty much that. If I don't get off I don't act like I did. I figure he's going to know either way. Hell, if what he's doing isn't working I don't want to give him the false sense of security that it is . . . he might think it's a good ideal next time too.
He knows I'll get down there and do my job right if he gets down there and does his job right.
This has nothing to do with him doing it right or wrong..after so many years, changes are you've done it a million times,so its not about him doing it right or wrong.
I think he likes to mix it up sometimes. What may seem like a good idea in the movies is sometimes only a good idea in the movies.0 -
I have to agree. Luckily, I don't feel the need to fake it, I can just be honest. I always tell him he owes me one.
I think this is the best answer. Honestly. As a man, i can live with that, and because i'm me, i would definitely pay my partner back
My husband likes to TRY to pay my back like an hour later, shoulder tap :laugh:
So you NEVER faked it...I mean NEVER?? with anybody?
Im not talking about faking it all the time, cuz whats the point on that.
But I can not believe that somebody NEVER EVER had to
Not even just for fun when you're by yourself pretending to be a porn star???
I tried faking it once when I was by myself...but then y husband made me buy a new mattress, cuz apparently squirting is not the same as peeing..who knew..
Ya know what really grinds my gears? These porn stars PEEING everywhere and pretending they're squirting! That's not what squirting looks like. Now my boyfriend thinks there is something wrong with me because I don't pee everywhere when we have sex.
Girl...with all the water that we drink all day..It looks the same
Just dont try it first thing in the morning..not a good idea!!
Oh..and dont kiss him afterwards.0 -
No woman has ever faked it with me
I have.
Oh wait... no. I just faked you _being_ there when it happened. My bad.0 -
When you're married, work full time, have a young child etc etc etc..it does not happen EVERY time...so what do you do, just lay there until husband's D**** falls off ..or fake it???
Pretty much that. If I don't get off I don't act like I did. I figure he's going to know either way. Hell, if what he's doing isn't working I don't want to give him the false sense of security that it is . . . he might think it's a good ideal next time too.
He knows I'll get down there and do my job right if he gets down there and does his job right.
This has nothing to do with him doing it right or wrong..after so many years, changes are you've done it a million times,so its not about him doing it right or wrong.
I think he likes to mix it up sometimes. What may seem like a good idea in the movies is sometimes only a good idea in the movies.
I had this exact conversation with my husband this weekend. "Um, yeah, honey? I'm not a porn star. My undercarriage hasn't been abused to the point of almost no sensation. You're gonna have to let this one go."0 -
I have to agree. Luckily, I don't feel the need to fake it, I can just be honest. I always tell him he owes me one.
This should be the only answer!!!
I agree...Perfect.0 -
I have to agree. Luckily, I don't feel the need to fake it, I can just be honest. I always tell him he owes me one.
This should be the only answer!!!
I agree...Perfect.
When men are perfect..we'll be perfect0 -
I don't think I could fake if I tried. My orgasms are a full body convulsion. My chest flushes bright red. Ya can't fake physiology...
Also, when I'm not feeling it, I'm not feeling it. He knows, I still do it, it still feels good, I still enjoy it, i just don't orgasm. No big deal.0 -
I can honestly say I have NEVER faked. Not once. Ever. Maybe I'm just too damn easy to please.
Or I'm just greedy.
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I have to agree. Luckily, I don't feel the need to fake it, I can just be honest. I always tell him he owes me one.
This should be the only answer!!!
I agree...Perfect.
When men are perfect..we'll be perfect
So true0 -
I had a few times when my partner couldn't finish. Just a couple rare occasions, but she just told me the truth, that it wasn't my fault but it just isnt happening tonight. No big deal to me, really.0
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Maybe its just me...But its at these times when you don't have time for a marathon session when you grab SO fingers/toys and gently guide them and say "You go, then I'll go". Seems to work pretty well
TMI?0 -
When you're married, work full time, have a young child etc etc etc..it does not happen EVERY time...so what do you do, just lay there until husband's D**** falls off..or fake it???
Yup. Same goes with my side of the bed. Some nights you're exhausted, already spent, whatever. You let her get hers, and then fake it to have it done with so you can fall asleep.
It beats having to have a 30 minute conversation about how it's you and not her when it is over.0 -
When you're married, work full time, have a young child etc etc etc..it does not happen EVERY time...so what do you do, just lay there until husband's D**** falls off..or fake it???
Yup. Same goes with my side of the bed. Some nights you're exhausted, already spent, whatever. You let her get hers, and then fake it to have it done with so you can fall asleep.
It beats having to have a 30 minute conversation about how it's you and not her when it is over.
You know, you could just tell me. I'm more than happy to take what I need and then let you sleep.0 -
Maybe its just me...But its at these times when you don't have time for a marathon session when you grab SO fingers/toys and gently guide them and say "You go, then I'll go". Seems to work pretty well
TMI?
Yup, if I happen to finish first, then it is up to my fingers or me using a toy on her to finish her off. Otherwise it is just rude.0 -
Maybe its just me...But its at these times when you don't have time for a marathon session when you grab SO fingers/toys and gently guide them and say "You go, then I'll go". Seems to work pretty well
TMI?
Yup, if I happen to finish first, then it is up to my fingers or me using a toy on her to finish her off. Otherwise it is just rude.
I dont think you are getting the point...there are times ( more often when you have young kids) when you are tired and just want to go to bed. It has nothing to do with toys, or how good or bad he is ...when you see that is not gonna happen for you...You have three choices : 1. Let him continue until he gives up 2. Fake it 3. Tell him to get it over with cuz its not happening for you.0 -
The bad thing is that it's fairly easy for me to tell if it's fake, and then I have to pretend that I don't know she faked it. Then everything just gets complicated. Just say, "It's not happening to night." , and I won't care.
I know she would get sensitive if I couldn't, and there would be tears and time wasted with trying to assuage her fears that she was not a good woman if I would just quit and say the same thing. I don't get that sensitive about it. Sometimes it just doesn't happen.0 -
Maybe its just me...But its at these times when you don't have time for a marathon session when you grab SO fingers/toys and gently guide them and say "You go, then I'll go". Seems to work pretty well
TMI?
Yup, if I happen to finish first, then it is up to my fingers or me using a toy on her to finish her off. Otherwise it is just rude.
I dont think you are getting the point...there are times ( more often when you have young kids) when you are tired and just want to go to bed. It has nothing to do with toys, or how good or bad he is ...when you see that is not gonna happen for you...You have three choices : 1. Let him continue until he gives up 2. Fake it 3. Tell him to get it over with cuz its not happening for you.
Option 3 is not helpful at all. It just leads to option 1 taking longer because now there is pressure to perform and you keep worrying about it, and getting distracted by the "Are you done yet?" over and over.0 -
The bad thing is that it's fairly easy for me to tell if it's fake, and then I have to pretend that I don't know she faked it. Then everything just gets complicated. Just say, "It's not happening to night." , and I won't care.
Once I've had a real orgasm with a guy, he should absolutely know if future orgasms were real or fake. It's obvious. New guy I don't care about? Well... yeah... I can fake it with him *LOL*
Not that I have sex anymore. Ever. But that's not what this thread is about and I'd hate for the Boner to issue me a strike because of thread hijacking...
Or maybe I would like for him to issue me a strike. Hrm......0 -
Maybe its just me...But its at these times when you don't have time for a marathon session when you grab SO fingers/toys and gently guide them and say "You go, then I'll go". Seems to work pretty well
TMI?
Yup, if I happen to finish first, then it is up to my fingers or me using a toy on her to finish her off. Otherwise it is just rude.
I dont think you are getting the point...there are times ( more often when you have young kids) when you are tired and just want to go to bed. It has nothing to do with toys, or how good or bad he is ...when you see that is not gonna happen for you...You have three choices : 1. Let him continue until he gives up 2. Fake it 3. Tell him to get it over with cuz its not happening for you.
Option 3 is not helpful at all. It just leads to option 1 taking longer because now there is pressure to perform and you keep worrying about it, and getting distracted by the "Are you done yet?" over and over.
We always go with option 3, no hurt feelings, some times it just doesn't happen. Meh, whatever. We've had times when we've both been so exhausted that we both fell asleep still joined and then woke up later and picked up where we left off just to give up half way through. Tired happens, after 10 years were comfortable with that.0 -
The bad thing is that it's fairly easy for me to tell if it's fake, and then I have to pretend that I don't know she faked it. Then everything just gets complicated. Just say, "It's not happening to night." , and I won't care.
I know she would get sensitive if I couldn't, and there would be tears and time wasted with trying to assuage her fears that she was not a good woman if I would just quit and say the same thing. I don't get that sensitive about it. Sometimes it just doesn't happen.
The only time I was sensitive about it was this one time that my husband said, "Can you get off of me now?" And I about killed him.0 -
The bad thing is that it's fairly easy for me to tell if it's fake, and then I have to pretend that I don't know she faked it. Then everything just gets complicated. Just say, "It's not happening to night." , and I won't care.
I know she would get sensitive if I couldn't, and there would be tears and time wasted with trying to assuage her fears that she was not a good woman if I would just quit and say the same thing. I don't get that sensitive about it. Sometimes it just doesn't happen.
The only time I was sensitive about it was this one time that my husband said, "Can you get off of me now?" And I about killed him.
"Here" * tosses lube in his general direction.0 -
:happy:Maybe its just me...But its at these times when you don't have time for a marathon session when you grab SO fingers/toys and gently guide them and say "You go, then I'll go". Seems to work pretty well
TMI?
Yup, if I happen to finish first, then it is up to my fingers or me using a toy on her to finish her off. Otherwise it is just rude.
I dont think you are getting the point...there are times ( more often when you have young kids) when you are tired and just want to go to bed. It has nothing to do with toys, or how good or bad he is ...when you see that is not gonna happen for you...You have three choices : 1. Let him continue until he gives up 2. Fake it 3. Tell him to get it over with cuz its not happening for you.
I get it. I guess I would prefer option 3, preferably before we got too far along...Or just a "we'll do you tonight because I'm not in the mood and you can make it up to me this weekend " type.
**WARNING: OP Not trying to pass judgment, everyone is different**0 -
I had this girl in college who would orgasm like as soon as any action happens down there, like with no penetration. At first I thought she was ****ing with me, like at least let me get the tip in before you start faking it. Turned out it was just that easy for her to orgasm, needless to say it was heaven for me because I was a chubby guy and was used to having to put in the extra work. So extraeeasy orgasm plus putting in extra work made me feel super great. I was so sad when she graduated and moved to Washington.
Then there are girls who needed other stimulation because penetration alone would do nothing, that's when toys were needed.0
