Sick of being single :)

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  • activefatgirl
    activefatgirl Posts: 107 Member
    I really don't want to be single anymore. I'm 40... I have a great job, never been married, no kids (not sure what went wrong) this isn't how I wanted my life to go.... feeling lonely in Ontario :(
  • T1DCarnivoreRunner
    T1DCarnivoreRunner Posts: 11,502 Member
    This is an old thread, but I see new comments, so....

    I've been single for 8 years and I'm ok with that. I have a deal-breaker that has been a deal-breaker since before I was an adult and dating. But it is extremely difficult to find someone that fits within that deal-breaker, so I settled eventually. I should have known better, but was desperate. I learned and won't make the same mistake again. So I remind myself that I would rather be single and lonely than attached to the wrong person and miserable.

    Some would tell themselves that the right person will come along someday. That's a fairy tale, and I'm not naive enough to believe such nonsense. I may be single for the rest of my life, and I'm fine with that. If I get lucky and find someone compatible, that is great... but unexpected.
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