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Moe4572
Moe4572 Posts: 1,430 Member
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What is the one characteristic that you just can't overlook in potential dates.?

............for me I can't date a guy shorter than me........same height is reallllly pushing it
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  • greenmanspirit
    greenmanspirit Posts: 75
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    This may not be the right place to say this but for me it is exceedingly obese girls that make excuses and then sit around doing nothing and eating poorly rather than trying to get healthy. It is fine if you are obese as long as you are trying. I want to live for a long time and would prefer the girl have the same view.
  • cdngirl71
    cdngirl71 Posts: 2,707 Member
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    If he lives at home or has no job. These are things I can't overlook.
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,289 Member
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    Hmmmmm I have to go with short guys for some reason they seem to go in the little brother catagory with maybe one exception....... and drug use I have kids and I just cant have that around them or myself
  • tangie82
    tangie82 Posts: 285 Member
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    If he lives at home or has no job. These are things I can't overlook.

    ^This! I'm perfectly able to support myself and he should be too. Also not into smokers.
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
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    If he lives at home or has no job. These are things I can't overlook.

    ^This! I'm perfectly able to support myself and he should be too. Also not into smokers.

    I agree with all of the above.
  • greenmanspirit
    greenmanspirit Posts: 75
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    As a representative of short guys at 5'6", I am happy to see that jobless is winning over height, lol.
  • tangie82
    tangie82 Posts: 285 Member
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    As a representative of short guys at 5'6", I am happy to see that jobless is winning over height, lol.

    I think height is more of an issue for the taller women. :-P
  • Poetic_
    Poetic_ Posts: 269 Member
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    Smokers.
  • garnetsms
    garnetsms Posts: 10,018 Member
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    I PREFER a man taller than me too; however, more importantly I will have to go with:

    He must be Christian
    He must not live at home with mom/dad/brother/sister/etc
    He must have a job
    He must be divorced for at least a year before getting even one date with me
    He must be family and goal oriented

    The list goes on! Is this really too much to ask?

    OH Lord! I just looked back at the original question...you said just one...oops, rant over!
  • Tropical_Turtle
    Tropical_Turtle Posts: 2,236 Member
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    If he lives at home or has no job. These are things I can't overlook.

    ^^^^ This!!! (oh and also must not be a smoker - blech!)
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
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    Can't date a Yankee fan. That is a deal killer.
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,064 Member
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    Someone shorter than me. I'm 5'8, so that rules out a lot of guys.
  • Meghan0116
    Meghan0116 Posts: 1,340 Member
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    I won't date someone shorter. I am 5'9 and somehow keep dating men who are 5'9 also.

    Bad teeth are also a deal breaker for me.
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
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    Another tall one here... I did date a guy that was about 2 inches shorter than me a while back and I hated not wearing heels! He didn't have a problem with my height but I don't want to feel bigger than my guy.

    I prefer 6'0 and over.

    Also a guy with no ambition, no job, a mama's boy, emotionally immature (i.e. tells me he loves me by 2nd date), any kind of active addict, and a couch potatoe would all be deal breakers.
  • pammbroo
    pammbroo Posts: 550 Member
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    Deadbeat guys who can't take care of their own lives and will admit, have a tough time with bad teeth.
  • hobbitgrrl
    hobbitgrrl Posts: 67
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    Smoking is the #1 deal-breaker for me.
  • NeedANewFocus
    NeedANewFocus Posts: 898 Member
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    i feel bad for the dudes under 6'.
  • greenmanspirit
    greenmanspirit Posts: 75
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    Lol, thanks I think...
  • kit_katty
    kit_katty Posts: 994 Member
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    Smoking is the #1 deal-breaker for me.

    Also would prefer someone taller than me, but I'm only 5'4"! So I don't rule out as many guys... :)
  • NeedANewFocus
    NeedANewFocus Posts: 898 Member
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    ladies...just out of curiosity....is there too tall?
    note: im not asking b/c i think i am...its not that at all...its just meaningless curiosity....

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