Do guys think single moms are easy?
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I don't know yet. . I sure hope so.0
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I don't know yet. . I sure hope so.
you found your way here.......0 -
I think that there is a group of single moms that are pretty easy and that would be the ones that have 4 kids by 4 different men. That seems pretty easy to me. However, being a single mom of only 1 I would say that I am totally less easy then I was pre child. On occasion though there is that heavy childless wine night and that is a different story.0
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He is trying to control and belittle you.
In his mind he is trying to keep you from having happiness or a "connection" with another guy.
The idea is to accuse you ahead of time of being loose so that you will make sure you prove him wrong.
Be happy he is your ex by the sounds.
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Not saying you're going to win 100% of the time (never happens), but it's just a fact that a 30 y.o. single mum whose only channel to meet guys is online dating because she is too busy with the kid is an easier target than the 23 y.o. Miss Popular who has 5000 friends on Facebook, works as a model at the weekend and has got a list of suitor longer than my arm.
So yeah. Easier (rather than easy perhaps).
Re the control and belittlement, it also works like this: He's trying to convince you that all men think like this ^^ ie that you have to be a model to attract a decent guy (hence making you feel insecure) and that guys view you as prey and are out to target you and take advantage of you (hence making you scared and less likely to get out there and meet someone new).
Happily they don't and when you get out there 90% of the time you will encounter genuine appreciation
I'm glad he's your ex
(Florian, I don't mean to suggest you think like this)0 -
I dated a single mum, last year. She was great. Didn't turn out to well, cause she was single mum and her son takes priority, which I totally get. It was all timing.
I wouldn't say they are easier, I would prob say they are easier to get along with as they don't want to play all the bull**** games you might get in a "regular" dating scenario0 -
I hadn't heard that before. I wouldn't necessarily say that I am easy because I am a single mom. I am easy because I was in two LTR from 16-28 and I am making up for it now. lol Okay, not really. I am secure with my needs and if I just want sex, I make that clear and if I am looking for a relationship, I make that clear as well.0
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He is trying to control and belittle you.
In his mind he is trying to keep you from having happiness or a "connection" with another guy.
The idea is to accuse you ahead of time of being loose so that you will make sure you prove him wrong.
Be happy he is your ex by the sounds.
Listen to Carl. he is very wise.0 -
single moms have a lot to juggle and a lot going on in their life. They are truly special because they are doing the job of parenting on their own which never gets a day off.
I think it is a little bit to harder to date a single mom because of their schedule, but I think you usually find that they are more enjoyable to go to dinner with because they appreciate the time they have away and realize that they have a lot to offer in a realtionship and not just as a mother.
Ahhh, a true gentleman!0 -
He is trying to control and belittle you.
In his mind he is trying to keep you from having happiness or a "connection" with another guy.
The idea is to accuse you ahead of time of being loose so that you will make sure you prove him wrong.
Be happy he is your ex by the sounds.
You've got him pegged, that's for sure. He's a narcissist. Very controlling and belittling. So what you say here makes absolute sense! He realized I was dating again because I was all dolled up when I dropped the kids off the other day. So I guess that's where it all stems from. Thanks for your insight!0 -
I don't know yet. . I sure hope so.
OIY!!!! haha0 -
Single mom here. And if I'm easy, it is only because I choose to be.
Desperate, lonely, easy prey? Oh hell no! While having a personal life can be challenging alot of the time (especially when munchkins are little), single parents need way tougher skin that that to deal with what life throws our way. If anything, I would think it would be more difficult because of scheduling, concerns with kids, etc.
Obviously, he is an ex for a reason. :happy:0 -
He is trying to control and belittle you.
In his mind he is trying to keep you from having happiness or a "connection" with another guy.
The idea is to accuse you ahead of time of being loose so that you will make sure you prove him wrong.
Be happy he is your ex by the sounds.
Listen to Carl. he is very wise.
He is the Yoda of the Single Peeps board.0 -
He is trying to control and belittle you.
In his mind he is trying to keep you from having happiness or a "connection" with another guy.
The idea is to accuse you ahead of time of being loose so that you will make sure you prove him wrong.
Be happy he is your ex by the sounds.
Listen to Carl. he is very wise.
He is the Yoda of the Single Peeps board.
I have heard short,old,wrinkly guys are HOT.:blushing:0 -
I think it depends on the women's self esteem and respect for herself. There is a stereotype out there that single moms are easy and are always looking for a husband.
Myself currently been divorced for 10yrs after a 9yr marriage. I don't need a husband at this time and you won't easily get some from me...he has to work for my goodies.0 -
I'm a single dad. . and I can tell you I'm definitely NOT easy!
I only sleep with girls that are willing to sleep with me.0 -
I'm a single dad. . and I can tell you I'm definitely NOT easy!
I only sleep with girls that are willing to sleep with me.
Way to be discerning!0 -
I'm a single dad. . and I can tell you I'm definitely NOT easy!
I only sleep with girls that are willing to sleep with me.
LOL Love it!0 -
I'm a single dad. . and I can tell you I'm definitely NOT easy!
I only sleep with girls that are willing to sleep with me.
Way to be discerning!
.. . . .and awake?0
