Help me understand women(be honest)!
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bump!!0
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he's worth reading! even if you can't put 100% of his info towards 100% of people, it's bound to be applicable to some!
there is a lot that goes into finding the RIGHT person to connect with. it could be that you are just too far outside where you need to be......Another poster in a different thread on Single Peeps was talking about Evan Marc Katz, a dating coach, and in one of his columns, he referred to an OkCupid column that says race does affect who writes you back. I'm not sure what type of women you are contacting but it could have something to do it with.
http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/
The original Evan Marc Katz column: http://www.evanmarckatz.com/blog/i-have-tried-everything-and-online-dating-is-still-not-working/
ETA - In another thread, I said it is important to date someone within your own age range, and I'll add that I think it is important to date within a few years of your age range. In your case, I would say 28-32.0 -
it is simple...
girls want honesty..
they want you to tell them what you feel no bull****...
if you want to date them date them... if you are not into them.. then dont be a doucher about it.. be upfront..
be kind
be real
be romantic
and be honest about who you are, what you are looking for and what you want
and if you are into a girl.. let her know.., women are told all the time to not pursue men that you like to chase us and you like to work for your girl.. so when you dont.. we get the off vibe and walk
if you want to text her right after the date to say that you had a good time.. then do it.. if you want to send her a text to say you were thinking about her then do it... if she doesnt like how you do things.. she isnt the one for you.. if she likes it.. then she is...
so simple recap...
show who you are by being honest and real.... dont play games.. dont be mysterious... and be upfront.. and make sure a girl knows... that is my deal.. lol0 -
I do it all now ... Online ..offline ... Whatever ! I even tried dating long distance ... I have no age issues unless it's an old lady
What is "old"?0 -
WARNING: THE FOLLOWING POST MAY CONTAIN SARCASM.it is simple...
girls want honesty..
they want you to tell them what you feel no bull****...
if you want to date them date them... if you are not into them.. then dont be a doucher about it.. be upfront..
be kind
be real
be romantic
and be honest about who you are, what you are looking for and what you want
and if you are into a girl.. let her know.., women are told all the time to not pursue men that you like to chase us and you like to work for your girl.. so when you dont.. we get the off vibe and walk
if you want to text her right after the date to say that you had a good time.. then do it.. if you want to send her a text to say you were thinking about her then do it... if she doesnt like how you do things.. she isnt the one for you.. if she likes it.. then she is...
so simple recap...
show who you are by being honest and real.... dont play games.. dont be mysterious... and be upfront.. and make sure a girl knows... that is my deal.. lol
Did you read "How to get Mr Right for dummies"? Because it really seems like cheesy/silly/girly advice.
So if I understand correctly, first time I see the girl, I should say:
"Wow! You're smoking hot - definitely see myself having sex with you. Shall we have sex later this evening? Mind you I hope you're intelligent and have a great personality too because otherwise it's just going to be a one night stand for you... Ahah!"
Girl is flattered by honesty, man gets laid. It's that simple... What a fool I have been.
(Don't even get me started on the "be kind/be romantic" thing)
Question for you...
Do you know what men want?
Do you really think they want to do all the things you've listed with the bottom of their hearts? (Hint: the right answer is no)0 -
WARNING: THE FOLLOWING POST MAY CONTAIN SARCASM.it is simple...
girls want honesty..
they want you to tell them what you feel no bull****...
if you want to date them date them... if you are not into them.. then dont be a doucher about it.. be upfront..
be kind
be real
be romantic
and be honest about who you are, what you are looking for and what you want
and if you are into a girl.. let her know.., women are told all the time to not pursue men that you like to chase us and you like to work for your girl.. so when you dont.. we get the off vibe and walk
if you want to text her right after the date to say that you had a good time.. then do it.. if you want to send her a text to say you were thinking about her then do it... if she doesnt like how you do things.. she isnt the one for you.. if she likes it.. then she is...
so simple recap...
show who you are by being honest and real.... dont play games.. dont be mysterious... and be upfront.. and make sure a girl knows... that is my deal.. lol
Did you read "How to get Mr Right for dummies"? Because it really seems like cheesy/silly/girly advice.
So if I understand correctly, first time I see the girl, I should say:
"Wow! You're smoking hot - definitely see myself having sex with you. Shall we have sex later this evening? Mind you I hope you're intelligent and have a great personality too because otherwise it's just going to be a one night stand for you... Ahah!"
Girl is flattered by honesty, man gets laid. It's that simple... What a fool I have been.
(Don't even get me started on the "be kind/be romantic" thing)
Question for you...
Do you know what men want?
Do you really think they want to do all the things you've listed with the bottom of their hearts? (Hint: the right answer is no)
no majority of guys want to get laid..
he asked what girls want.. i told him... that is what we want.. but we are so used to so many guys being complete let downs.. we would take maybe one or two of those things.. because we know.. there is not a chance in hell we can find a guy who will be romantic honest trustworthy and fair.. and kind.. cause most guys. and you are one i am assuming.. all think that by being a complete douche you will get the girl.
you are right you will get one.. that one with no confidence no self respect and no morals..
i answered the question he asked.. i stand by it.. cause you dont like the truth.. well that is too bad.. .0 -
Well I was honest with my answer too... :laugh: I s'pose that makes me a great catch then (yep, you guessed it, I'm a guy).no majority of guys want to get laid..
he asked what girls want.. i told him... that is what we want.. but we are so used to so many guys being complete let downs.. we would take maybe one or two of those things.. because we know.. there is not a chance in hell we can find a guy who will be romantic honest trustworthy and fair.. and kind.. cause most guys. and you are one i am assuming.. all think that by being a complete douche you will get the girl.
you are right you will get one.. that one with no confidence no self respect and no morals..
i answered the question he asked.. i stand by it.. cause you dont like the truth.. well that is too bad.. .0 -
Well I was honest with my answer too... :laugh: I s'pose that makes me a great catch then (yep, you guessed it, I'm a guy).no majority of guys want to get laid..
he asked what girls want.. i told him... that is what we want.. but we are so used to so many guys being complete let downs.. we would take maybe one or two of those things.. because we know.. there is not a chance in hell we can find a guy who will be romantic honest trustworthy and fair.. and kind.. cause most guys. and you are one i am assuming.. all think that by being a complete douche you will get the girl.
you are right you will get one.. that one with no confidence no self respect and no morals..
i answered the question he asked.. i stand by it.. cause you dont like the truth.. well that is too bad.. .
nope it actually makes you look like just what every girl with self respect is not after... the first thing you want to say to a girl is hey i wanna do you cause you are hot.. not hey you are pretty cool and i am interested in getting to know you.... so ya be honest keep saying that and you will keep getting the girls who are willing to bed down with a guy with out knowing his last name or anything... you know the girls who you can........f*** and chuck..
the OP was asking how to get a girl whom he can date and be in a relationship with.. .not a girl he can dine and dash on... time to read the whole post before attempting to look smart or funny...0 -
no majority of guys want to get laid.i answered the question he asked.. i stand by it.. cause you dont like the truth.. well that is too bad.. .
Well I was honest with my answer too... :laugh: I s'pose that makes me a great catch then (yep, you guessed it, I'm a guy).
nope it actually makes you look like just what every girl with self respect is not after... the first thing you want to say to a girl is hey i wanna do you cause you are hot.. not hey you are pretty cool and i am interested in getting to know you
Actually, I've been told that pretty much every guy who approaches you does so because you're hot and he wants to get laid. It's in the process of him trying to get laid that he discovers that you are pretty cool and realizes he might like an actual relationship with you.
Guys is this more often true than not....?0 -
no majority of guys want to get laid.i answered the question he asked.. i stand by it.. cause you dont like the truth.. well that is too bad.. .
Well I was honest with my answer too... :laugh: I s'pose that makes me a great catch then (yep, you guessed it, I'm a guy).
nope it actually makes you look like just what every girl with self respect is not after... the first thing you want to say to a girl is hey i wanna do you cause you are hot.. not hey you are pretty cool and i am interested in getting to know you
Actually, I've been told that pretty much every guy who approaches you does so because you're hot and he wants to get laid. It's in the process of him trying to get laid that he discovers that you are pretty cool and realizes he might like an actual relationship with you.
Guys is this more often true than not....?
I think this is true...
I've had the opposite happen where the friendship relationship grew into more and although there was some initial attraction, it wasn't the "i want you so bad" type and I think it affected us. (my ex and I)
This time around in dating, I made it a point to find someone that I was completely in lust for and him with me. I wanted to try a different approach.
The whole "relationships that started off as friendships are best" is cool but I learned from my ex AND from FL that there needs to be something there initially or else what happens later on?
I rather find someone I lusted, couldn't keep my hands off and then let the friendship blossom while we're in a relationship. I'm curious to see how this will turn out as this is how it started with Smiley and me.0
