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  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    Okay but be cautious,don`t ask me why but my gut feeling is that you are being played.
    Hopefully I am wrong.

    ****edited the above is a quote***


    Great! Where are the decent guys hiding then?
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    I guess it is just my own bias,for a guy to have multiple attractive ladies hanging off him is just not something I can relate to so just assume that since he has not taken up with one but left them sort of stringing along he isn`t interested in something serious.

    Again,maybe I am wrong.
  • Showgirlbody
    Showgirlbody Posts: 402 Member
    Well, he chose you so that's a good sign. It's hard to feel secure with a man who has ladies throwing themselves at him but obviously he didn't want them. He's got the pick of the litter and that's you apparently so don't doubt it before he gives you a reason to doubt. Those chicks are jealous.
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
    You could say Girl X says I stole you from her and see what reaction you get. This may open the door for a conversation about dating.

    I'm tempted to talk to him about this but as odd as it is- I'm the female that gets hit in the most in the group too. I'll see if I feel like approaching the subject tomorrow.

    Pls keep in mind you are the newbie, and it's very possible that the other ladies received the same attention when they first joined the group. You made a comment before about how they don't have what you have with him. Enjoy yourself, but remember that you don't "have" anything with this guy yet (though I hope you will one day). Last time I joined a group and other women got upset with me for stealing their guy, he wasn't into any of us. It was just an ego boost for him.
  • cbeutler
    cbeutler Posts: 667 Member
    Great! Where are the decent guys hiding then?

    We all live in Michigan :tongue:
  • BelMckenzie
    BelMckenzie Posts: 249
    So my report back... We went out to lunch today, it was short (2hrs) since he has been working on his motorcycle all weekend(rewired it) but he took me out. I picked the place and it was good food and we have good conversation. I did not have the "talk" with him since I still feel its a little early but he asked me out for next Friday. He also said he is going to drive his motorcycle down my street when he is done with it. As of right now I'm just going to see what happens and be more cautious with my feelings.

    He is a good kisser too:).
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    So my report back... We went out to lunch today, it was short (2hrs) since he has been working on his motorcycle all weekend(rewired it) but he took me out. I picked the place and it was good food and we have good conversation. I did not have the "talk" with him since I still feel its a little early but he asked me out for next Friday. He also said he is going to drive his motorcycle down my street when he is done with it. As of right now I'm just going to see what happens and be more cautious with my feelings.

    He is a good kisser too:).

    Good signs,see how he reacts to other ladies fawning or flirting over him or if another new lady enters the group.
    You are on the doorstep now to fairly wanting to know where things are going and what his intentions/desires are.
  • BelMckenzie
    BelMckenzie Posts: 249
    So my report back... We went out to lunch today, it was short (2hrs) since he has been working on his motorcycle all weekend(rewired it) but he took me out. I picked the place and it was good food and we have good conversation. I did not have the "talk" with him since I still feel its a little early but he asked me out for next Friday. He also said he is going to drive his motorcycle down my street when he is done with it. As of right now I'm just going to see what happens and be more cautious with my feelings.

    He is a good kisser too:).

    Good signs,see how he reacts to other ladies fawning or flirting over him or if another new lady enters the group.
    You are on the doorstep now to fairly wanting to know where things are going and what his intentions/desires are.

    I think I was more worried then anyway(irrational woman thoughts-lol). But I'll probably wait at least a few more dates before I ask his intentions if it doesn't come up earlier.
  • AllanMisner
    AllanMisner Posts: 4,140 Member
    I'm still wondering if the "basically peed on me" is a typo or legit? Is that what you young kids are doing these days?

    No I was serious since he made it known that I was his when we went out. So like a male dog marking his territory thats how he was like with me at this event.

    I was wondering... so this wasn't a golden showers meet up? :tongue:
  • atjays
    atjays Posts: 797 Member
    He's seeing other girls and you most likely will get hurt if you stick around. Sounds like a smooth talking player. Go find a real guy

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