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  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    Nah, I get hopeful about everything else.

    In my eyes, my life is completely and 100% in my own control. Love is not- that's 50 me/50 someone else and I cannot control another's feelings EVER. I promised to never try to control anything that isnt completely mine.

    but jobs, apartmets, personal ambitions, im so full of hope I make myself sick! hahahaha freaking pollyanna over here
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    This thread is depressing me! :sad:

    It's a wonder relationships EVER work out!! :laugh:


    I don't know if its depressing me but it really shows me that dating /relationships for some people is REALLY REALLY HARD! it actually does seem like an all consuming situation for some of these people.

    this is why its something I only dabble in a couple times a year - i dont like how much dating stresses me out. Its ALWAYS been a burden, a very unfun activity thats always resulted in myself-esteem dropping through the floor and my stress going through the ceiling.

    THis year I actually met someone that made those two things do the opposite. He brings out the best in me and is elaxing just to be around. Because I can be myself.

    I met him and months later im still saying "ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh so this is what its supposed to be like"

    epicfacepalm
  • whitehandlady
    whitehandlady Posts: 459 Member
    Nah, I get hopeful about everything else.

    In my eyes, my life is completely and 100% in my own control. Love is not- that's 50 me/50 someone else and I cannot control another's feelings EVER. I promised to never try to control anything that isnt completely mine.

    but jobs, apartmets, personal ambitions, im so full of hope I make myself sick! hahahaha freaking pollyanna over here


    ^^ THIS
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