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  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    Find some kahunas and ask him out.

    ^^^^ Bingo, stop messing around and just ask him out.
  • mrmanmeat
    mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member
    Find some kahunas and ask him out.

    rinse and repeat.
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,251 Member
    Find some kahunas and ask him out.

    rinse and repeat.

    I get it I get it ..... LOL I was not built to be a guy lol I dont know how you guys handle this crap all the time.....

    BTW to be fair I've never actaully dated someone before. Both my ex-husband and my ex-boyfriend went from friends to SO within a 2 weeks ( i was young lol)... So I dont know the steps in this little dance
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    Yeah, people have been telling you since you brought this up that you have to provide an answer and soon. I don't know why you keep coming back for advice because it's the same - except now people are getting annoyed by it.

    Honestly, if someone had been stringing me along as long as you've been stringing him along that ship would have sailed. Still, sounds like there might be a chance. So just do it already.
  • solman66
    solman66 Posts: 175 Member
    BTW .. am I the only one that thinks that your symbol picture looks like a sideways gas pumpy thing?

    -- hijack --
    lol, you're probably not. It's actually the chinese symbol for "Red Dragon". Long story short, it reminds me to harden the eff up and stay motivated.
    -- end hijack --

    Everyone can resume ganging up on OP and telling her to do something she's afraid to do now, haha
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,251 Member
    I'm not afraid I just dont want to make a fool of myself .... I'm sure all of you can understand that. I feel he has been sending mixed signals is all... But you guys are right and I need to do it... I plan on trying to talk to him tonight at my house with no other people around or booze..... Hopefully he's not working or teaching a class tonight.... I just really hope you guys are right ........

    oh and Kitsune I wasnt stringing him along at first I thought he was joking... When we first started going at this he was very much anti-relationship I never expected that to change and honestly didn't see this coming so I did have the right to sit down and decide if I wanted to change things.........But your right on the fact that I've thought long enough
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    Say to him "Did you, or did you not, ask me to date you last week?"

    Say it sober. Say it straight and dont leave until he gives you a straight answer!!! :laugh:

    If he says 'why?', just say while you look into his eyes "I have an answer for you" :bigsmile:

    Just SAY IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Otherwise we are going to torture you with hot needles!!! :laugh:

    good luck :flowerforyou:
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