Just thought I'd share..
oddyogi
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I was texting back and forth with Sugar Lips about our weekend this weekend, and this is what was said:
(random discussing about activities this weekend and today's chores)
SL: I just got home. I have to do laundry and some other small things. Fear not, weekend will be here soon!
Me: Not soon enough :P
SL: By the end of the weekend you'll be sick of me
Me: Doubtful, meatball
SL: Fishing, golf, late night swims
Me: And doggies galore
SL: It's almost like we are bf/gf
Me: Something like that
(omg I was driving home at the time and I had a huge smile)
SL: Hmmmm..
Me: Hmmm indeed
SL: Ummmm..
Me: I'm making spaghetti with spaghetti squash
haha and then it turns to random ****. So anyway. Yeah. He brought it up again. But I will not have a relationship begin over texting..
Sooo since apparently we're hanging out a lot this weekend, we'll see what happens. :happy:
(random discussing about activities this weekend and today's chores)
SL: I just got home. I have to do laundry and some other small things. Fear not, weekend will be here soon!
Me: Not soon enough :P
SL: By the end of the weekend you'll be sick of me
Me: Doubtful, meatball
SL: Fishing, golf, late night swims
Me: And doggies galore
SL: It's almost like we are bf/gf
Me: Something like that
(omg I was driving home at the time and I had a huge smile)
SL: Hmmmm..
Me: Hmmm indeed
SL: Ummmm..
Me: I'm making spaghetti with spaghetti squash
haha and then it turns to random ****. So anyway. Yeah. He brought it up again. But I will not have a relationship begin over texting..
Sooo since apparently we're hanging out a lot this weekend, we'll see what happens. :happy:
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First: shame on you for texting and driving.
Second: congrats!
Third: your weekend is gonna rock!0 -
First: shame on you for texting and driving.
Second: congrats!
Third: your weekend is gonna rock!
I was at a stoplight! Lol
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He's so into you...
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Sounds like you might have to leave the group soon :drinker:
I hope my congratulations aren't premature?
Oh, and "meatball"? Best. Pet name. Ever.0 -
Uhmm...hello,you already have a relationship beginning or begun,don`t get hung up on the details of where it started so it has to meet a dream of things you have.
You risk sabotaging it in your mind over what amounts to a silly thing,last I checked there was no official "relationship has to start in XYZ fasion or it doesn`t count" law. :flowerforyou:0 -
Uhmm...hello,you already have a relationship beginning or begun,don`t get hung up on the details of where it started so it has to meet a dream of things you have.
You risk sabotaging it in your mind over what amounts to a silly thing,last I checked there was no official "relationship has to start in XYZ fasion or it doesn`t count" law. :flowerforyou:
True Carl, but just like you shouldn't break up with someone over text, you shouldn't "make it official" over text either! 0 -
True Carl, but just like you shouldn't break up with someone over text, you shouldn't "make it official" over text either!
You are a smart lady! Sounds like you're both on the same page so enjoy! Good stuff. :drinker:0 -
Sounds like you might have to leave the group soon :drinker:
I hope my congratulations aren't premature?
Oh, and "meatball"? Best. Pet name. Ever.
I'm not going anywhere!
And we have tons of silly pet names for each other. Meatball was a new one for yesterday. 0 -
Too cute! Are you going to bring it up or just wait until he does?0
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Too cute! Are you going to bring it up or just wait until he does?
Of course I'm going to wait. But I have a feeling he will bring it up this weekend.
Yay 4-day weekend! I can't wait! I'm gonna get so many snuggles.
But FXCK, I just started my period.
.....(yay, I'm not pregnant! *cupcake*)
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Uhmm...hello,you already have a relationship beginning or begun,don`t get hung up on the details of where it started so it has to meet a dream of things you have.
You risk sabotaging it in your mind over what amounts to a silly thing,last I checked there was no official "relationship has to start in XYZ fasion or it doesn`t count" law. :flowerforyou:
True Carl, but just like you shouldn't break up with someone over text, you shouldn't "make it official" over text either!
I'm with you. Some things deserve a face-to-face conversation, and becoming exclusive is one of those things. If I care about you enough to want to date you and only you, then our relationship deserves a more auspicious beginning than stumbling into it via text message.0 -
Uhmm...hello,you already have a relationship beginning or begun,don`t get hung up on the details of where it started so it has to meet a dream of things you have.
You risk sabotaging it in your mind over what amounts to a silly thing,last I checked there was no official "relationship has to start in XYZ fasion or it doesn`t count" law. :flowerforyou:
True Carl, but just like you shouldn't break up with someone over text, you shouldn't "make it official" over text either!
I'm with you. Some things deserve a face-to-face conversation, and becoming exclusive is one of those things. If I care about you enough to want to date you and only you, then our relationship deserves a more auspicious beginning than stumbling into it via text message.
Well said! And I'm not saying that's what SL was trying to do. I think he was simply implying that we're getting close to that stage.0 -
Hint around it and you will land him by weekends end!!
Question: Do you women really need a validating discussion that labels you bf/gf???0 -
Hint around it and you will land him by weekends end!!
Question: Do you women really need a validating discussion that labels you bf/gf???
YES!! Nothing worse than assuming he's your bf when in reality you're just an option...0 -
Hint around it and you will land him by weekends end!!
Question: Do you women really need a validating discussion that labels you bf/gf???
YES!! Nothing worse than assuming he's your bf when in reality you're just an option...
Figured.... just seems pretty playground like everytime I've asked.0 -
Hint around it and you will land him by weekends end!!
Question: Do you women really need a validating discussion that labels you bf/gf???
I found that it was more of a convenience. I was trying to tell my dad I was hanging with my... uh... well he's not a friend, but is he my boyfriend? So after I hung up I looked at him and asked if I could call him my boyfriend. Easy peasy.0 -
Hint around it and you will land him by weekends end!!
Question: Do you women really need a validating discussion that labels you bf/gf???
Yes yes yes! It does sound very playground .. but once it comes out it is kinda cute. lol.0 -
Hint around it and you will land him by weekends end!!
Question: Do you women really need a validating discussion that labels you bf/gf???
Yes yes yes! It does sound very playground .. but once it comes out it is kinda cute. lol.
This this this. Yes, and also it's what tells me to stop flirting/hanging out with other guys.0 -
Hint around it and you will land him by weekends end!!
Question: Do you women really need a validating discussion that labels you bf/gf???
Yes yes yes! It does sound very playground .. but once it comes out it is kinda cute. lol.
This this this. Yes, and also it's what tells me to stop flirting/hanging out with other guys.
Really? I would just naturally stop flirting/hanging out with other girls as soon as I felt something was going in the right direction.0 -
Hint around it and you will land him by weekends end!!
Question: Do you women really need a validating discussion that labels you bf/gf???
Yes yes yes! It does sound very playground .. but once it comes out it is kinda cute. lol.
This this this. Yes, and also it's what tells me to stop flirting/hanging out with other guys.
Really? I would just naturally stop flirting/hanging out with other girls as soon as I felt something was going in the right direction.
I don't put all my eggs into one basket. I just have a favorite egg.
But OTOH, I don't put much effort into hanging out with other guys. More like I'm just too chicken to tell them I'm seeing someone when he's not officially my "boyfriend." Because what happens if he's just too chicken to tell me it's not working out? Then BAM! I have no prospects.0 -
Exactly!Hint around it and you will land him by weekends end!!
Question: Do you women really need a validating discussion that labels you bf/gf???
YES!! Nothing worse than assuming he's your bf when in reality you're just an option...0 -
Hint around it and you will land him by weekends end!!
Question: Do you women really need a validating discussion that labels you bf/gf???
Yes yes yes! It does sound very playground .. but once it comes out it is kinda cute. lol.
This this this. Yes, and also it's what tells me to stop flirting/hanging out with other guys.
Really? I would just naturally stop flirting/hanging out with other girls as soon as I felt something was going in the right direction.
Not I.... I didn't put all my eggs in 1 basket.
Bf and I had 2 conversations. First one was him asking if I was dating other guys. Since I didn't know how he felt, I assumed I'd keep dating. I liked him but again, didn't want to put all eggs in 1 basket. Since he asked me and he told me he rather us just focus on each other (and I felt the same), I agreed to only see him.
The 2nd conversation was the let's make this official conversation.0 -
Hint around it and you will land him by weekends end!!
Question: Do you women really need a validating discussion that labels you bf/gf???
Yes yes yes! It does sound very playground .. but once it comes out it is kinda cute. lol.
This this this. Yes, and also it's what tells me to stop flirting/hanging out with other guys.
Really? I would just naturally stop flirting/hanging out with other girls as soon as I felt something was going in the right direction.
I don't put all my eggs into one basket. I just have a favorite egg.
But OTOH, I don't put much effort into hanging out with other guys. More like I'm just too chicken to tell them I'm seeing someone when he's not officially my "boyfriend." Because what happens if he's just too chicken to tell me it's not working out? Then BAM! I have no prospects.
This!! When I was multi-dating, I had my favorite eggie. Bf was my favorite out of all the guys I was dating/ talking to. He was the leader of the pack!0 -
Hint around it and you will land him by weekends end!!
Question: Do you women really need a validating discussion that labels you bf/gf???
Yes yes yes! It does sound very playground .. but once it comes out it is kinda cute. lol.
This this this. Yes, and also it's what tells me to stop flirting/hanging out with other guys.
Really? I would just naturally stop flirting/hanging out with other girls as soon as I felt something was going in the right direction.
I don't put all my eggs into one basket. I just have a favorite egg.
But OTOH, I don't put much effort into hanging out with other guys. More like I'm just too chicken to tell them I'm seeing someone when he's not officially my "boyfriend." Because what happens if he's just too chicken to tell me it's not working out? Then BAM! I have no prospects.
This!! When I was multi-dating, I had my favorite eggie. Bf was my favorite out of all the guys I was dating/ talking to. He was the leader of the pack!
After re-reading this I should have said that I have a favorite basket. 0 -
Hint around it and you will land him by weekends end!!
Question: Do you women really need a validating discussion that labels you bf/gf???
Yes yes yes! It does sound very playground .. but once it comes out it is kinda cute. lol.
This this this. Yes, and also it's what tells me to stop flirting/hanging out with other guys.
Really? I would just naturally stop flirting/hanging out with other girls as soon as I felt something was going in the right direction.
I don't put all my eggs into one basket. I just have a favorite egg.
But OTOH, I don't put much effort into hanging out with other guys. More like I'm just too chicken to tell them I'm seeing someone when he's not officially my "boyfriend." Because what happens if he's just too chicken to tell me it's not working out? Then BAM! I have no prospects.
So if I am to understand this correctly, I should put off asking a girl to be my gf so that I can keep sleeping with other girls... and she would understand that?0 -
Hint around it and you will land him by weekends end!!
Question: Do you women really need a validating discussion that labels you bf/gf???
Yes yes yes! It does sound very playground .. but once it comes out it is kinda cute. lol.
This this this. Yes, and also it's what tells me to stop flirting/hanging out with other guys.
Really? I would just naturally stop flirting/hanging out with other girls as soon as I felt something was going in the right direction.
I don't put all my eggs into one basket. I just have a favorite egg.
But OTOH, I don't put much effort into hanging out with other guys. More like I'm just too chicken to tell them I'm seeing someone when he's not officially my "boyfriend." Because what happens if he's just too chicken to tell me it's not working out? Then BAM! I have no prospects.
So if I am to understand this correctly, I should put off asking a girl to be my gf so that I can keep sleeping with other girls... and she would understand that?
See.. now you're just being scandalous!!
She might not understand but she can't say you were cheating or lying to her.0 -
So if I am to understand this correctly, I should put off asking a girl to be my gf so that I can keep sleeping with other girls... and she would understand that?
See.. now you're just being scandalous!!
She might not understand but she can't say you were cheating or lying to her.
See .. give the boys an inch and they take a mile!! :grumble:0 -
So if I am to understand this correctly, I should put off asking a girl to be my gf so that I can keep sleeping with other girls... and she would understand that?
No no no that's not the point. I'm not sleeping with other men. I'm socializing/flirting with them.
I already made an agreement with SL awhile back that we would remain monogamous.
That just means we can't have sex (or shouldn't) with anyone else, not that we can't go on dates with anyone else.0 -
See .. give the boys an inch and they take a mile!! :grumble:
Is that why some of them think 4 inches equals 7?
:huh:0
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