I am SO confused

dynamicwon

Ive learned over the years (I'm 49) "When a person shows you who they are the first time...believe them" . In my opinion he is showing that he is not interested in anything long term with you. Sorry but I hope this helps.

coachblt

You need to speak with him directly and get to the heart and soul of the matter. You need to know and that's the bottom line.

dbrightwell1270

I don't get how he is showing that he is not interested long term. He spent all day and night Friday and Saturday morning with her. He told her he wanted to stay in but it was okay for her to come to his place Saturday night. Cupcake asked him to her place because she had all this food and said oh yeah, bring the dogs. Later on she said she'd choose him over the food but my impression is she stayed home with her food. I could see him wondering if she was interested in him or the dogs.

I think you are playing a game. You want a definitive commitment to exclusivity but you want him to bring it up. Ask him yourself. Are you afraid he's going to say no? It almost sounds like you expect that to be the answer but you'd rather live in ignorant bliss than know for sure.

catherine4211

I think people need to start putting "this is what I think and what I think only" either at the end or the beginning of their posts. Nothing anyone says here is the gospel truth. It's just how we see things. And we all see them differently. I myself got beat up last week and am still obviously butt hurt over it and now I'm upset reading this. When we put these topics up we are wanting opinions. From different people from different walks of life. Please don't use such strong words like "he's not into you" and such.

And this is just my opinion........