You guys said to communicate and I did

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  • mrmanmeat
    mrmanmeat Posts: 1,968 Member

    So ever since then he's been texting me weirdly. Using smiley faces and saying nice things, saying he wants to see me. He said he hopes softball gets rained out tonight so he can spend time with me.

    So he's doing what you want, and you call it weird?
  • Moe4572
    Moe4572 Posts: 1,428 Member
    YAY...........glad it worked out for you!
  • Learning2LuvLindsay
    Learning2LuvLindsay Posts: 1,142 Member

    I get back from Crossit, shower, do my hair and makeup, and put on a little black sundress before I head over. When I get there, he has a small bouquet of flowers taped to the door for me. I go inside, we hug and kiss, I tell him happy birthday, yada yada. Before dinner is ready, he randomly says (paraphrasing here):

    You know, I've been thinking a lot today. And I've made some realizations. I like you this much (he puts his thumb and pointer about half an inch apart), and that's A LOT to an ant. I don't want to date anyone but you, and I want to continue to focus on each other. So I guess what I'm asking is if you want to "go steady?" (and he put it in quotations).

    ETA: I asked him what changed his mind because as of yesterday he said he still needed more time. He said he realized that was dumb because he only wanted to be with me, and being in a relationship is normally what people do if they want to be with each other.


    Love! Love! Love! All of this. Happy for you!
  • llahairdna
    llahairdna Posts: 502 Member
    Love this!!!!!!!!
  • Tropical_Turtle
    Tropical_Turtle Posts: 2,236 Member
    :heart: :heart: :heart: :heart: Love this !! I am super happy for you and I hope it all works out as you desire it to
  • Natx83
    Natx83 Posts: 1,298 Member
    Still haven't explained about yu kissing other guys either miss:tongue:
  • oddyogi
    oddyogi Posts: 1,816 Member
    Still haven't explained about yu kissing other guys either miss:tongue:

    Oops! Yeah I know. I had the alcohol incident the other week where apparently I kissed other guys at a bar. That's why I wasn't mad. Just surprised (see: ignorant). I felt bad about that for a little bit. But I'm not going to tell him. We weren't together then and honestly I would rather he not have told me, but I'm over it already. Because he's mine now and I'm his. :)
  • RunningDirty
    RunningDirty Posts: 293
    Communication = progress! Whoot Whoot! The more you talk it out the easier it will become and the closer you'll be so that's pretty sweet and much better than guessing and being all vague. Good stuff! Enjoy and happy for you both.
  • lorro
    lorro Posts: 917 Member
    Great news! :love: :bigsmile: :glasses: Well done cupcake :flowerforyou:
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    Just got back from a week off MFP and I am glad to read this! Yay!
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