What's YOUR number?
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I tried counting once. Gave up. Should answer your question.0
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I think if my next partner asks for an accurate number, I will just throw a number out there however I don't think the number is that important since that is your past and your future can/will be different.
Whoa... Ladies, ladies... Do not ever, EVER, answer this question if your partner asks. It's a trick question. It's the equivalent of the female question, "Do I look fat in this?" But with more serious consequences if you get it wrong. And there are no right answers, so you WILL get it wrong.
Change the subject. If that doesn't work, say "Definitely a lot fewer partners than you!" But do not under any circumstances give a number.
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I tried counting once. Gave up. Should answer your question.
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I think if my next partner asks for an accurate number, I will just throw a number out there however I don't think the number is that important since that is your past and your future can/will be different.
Whoa... Ladies, ladies... Do not ever, EVER, answer this question if your partner asks. It's a trick question. It's the equivalent of the female question, "Do I look fat in this?" But with more serious consequences if you get it wrong. And there are no right answers, so you WILL get it wrong.
Change the subject. If that doesn't work, say "Definitely a lot fewer partners than you!" But do not under any circumstances give a number.
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Am I the only one here that really doesn`t give a crap how many partners she has been with,just that when we are done she is considering me to have been the best.:smokin:0
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Am I the only one here that really doesn`t give a crap how many partners she has been with,just that when we are done she is considering me to have been the best.:smokin:
Ohhhhhhhhh, I like that.0 -
Am I the only one here that really doesn`t give a crap how many partners she has been with,just that when we are done she is considering me to have been the best.:smokin:
Exactly! Hahaha. Honestly, if I told a guy my number and he was like "Ew, that's too many, what a skankbag," he's obviously a judgemental prick and I would drop him.
However, if he was worried that he wouldn't be skilled enough to please me, I would gladly teach him what I like.
I wouldn't care if SL has been with 100 girls or 10 girls. *shrugs* Just as long as he's with me and only me until we say otherwise. There are more important things to worry about, like personality, humor, motivation in life, and whether or not we have similar future goals.
As long as there IS sex and it is GOOD for both people, past partners shouldn't matter.0 -
Am I the only one here that really doesn`t give a crap how many partners she has been with,just that when we are done she is considering me to have been the best.:smokin:
I have to say that this thought has NEVER entered my head!!! :laugh: I mean, I've never wondered if a guy thinks I am better than his ex or whatever. I know that some men have a thing about it though. Just dont know why?
Not that I want to start another debate of the battle of the sexes, I dont really know what other women think about this? Just that I've never given a thought :huh:0 -
I tried counting once. Gave up. Should answer your question.
Love you!
awww thanks
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Am I the only one here that really doesn`t give a crap how many partners she has been with,just that when we are done she is considering me to have been the best.:smokin:
I have to say that this thought has NEVER entered my head!!! :laugh: I mean, I've never wondered if a guy thinks I am better than his ex or whatever. I know that some men have a thing about it though. Just dont know why?
Not that I want to start another debate of the battle of the sexes, I dont really know what other women think about this? Just that I've never given a thought :huh:
Not an ego thing,that I gave her the best time she had to show how much I appreciated her allowing me to be with her.0 -
I lost count but how do you get half a lay? I guess a small person counts as .5 IDK though?!
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Am I the only one here that really doesn`t give a crap how many partners she has been with,just that when we are done she is considering me to have been the best.:smokin:
I have to say that this thought has NEVER entered my head!!! :laugh: I mean, I've never wondered if a guy thinks I am better than his ex or whatever. I know that some men have a thing about it though. Just dont know why?
Not that I want to start another debate of the battle of the sexes, I dont really know what other women think about this? Just that I've never given a thought :huh:
Not an ego thing,that I gave her the best time she had to show how much I appreciated her allowing me to be with her.
I agrre with Carl and Bufcupcake... I don't care if hes been with a ton of girls. I don't normally ask this question anyway.... However I do want to be the one to melt his brain and curl his toes lol... As long as I'm the one he thinks of who cares whats in his past ....0 -
does it matter... i mean as long as your down there clean and not all infested with icky.. your good to go..
why is there such a huge hang up about sex.. people are so offended and worried about what he or she did in there past and blah blah .. words like easy and slut and man *kitten* get tossed around.. but really
who cares,, just enjoy it while your with them and have fun!!!!0 -
Well, on a positive note, if she's done oral with too many partners to count, then she's likely to have an infectious smile. A real turn on!0
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I just hope they don`t consider me the .5
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I'm in the minority so far....I think 10.5 is low for both men and women, and it is only getting higher with upcoming generations.
Personally I know I am way way over 10.5 and that doesn't bother me at all, I'm 38 years old. If I have sex with one woman a month for a year that is 12. So 10.5 who cares. Personally I don't care what a persons # is as long as if we agree we are exclusive I'm her last # until we decide otherwise.
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I waited until I was 26 I was waiting for marriage but no one believed me anyway so I gave in to a guy who thought would be enjoyable. It was horrible. Since my divorce there have been 2. One I was madly in love with and the other it was my 41st birthday, I had been apart from my spouse over 6 months. I had been talking with the guy for over a mont hand did have feelings for him. I was having a mid-life crisis that week. It just all hit me. My marriage had been so devoid of intamacy that I the second guy was an attempt to regain that. I really regretted it. And then he was treated me like I was a *kitten* when he slept with me too. I will choose more wisely next time and I will love that person. I am at 8 with the last guy . I am just too emotionally connected to have meaningless sex.0
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I think if my next partner asks for an accurate number, I will just throw a number out there however I don't think the number is that important since that is your past and your future can/will be different.
Whoa... Ladies, ladies... Do not ever, EVER, answer this question if your partner asks. It's a trick question. It's the equivalent of the female question, "Do I look fat in this?" But with more serious consequences if you get it wrong. And there are no right answers, so you WILL get it wrong.
Change the subject. If that doesn't work, say "Definitely a lot fewer partners than you!" But do not under any circumstances give a number.
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Why?
Because every man cares (if he says he doesn't, he's a liar), but most reasonable men choose not to think about it, rendering it more or less irrelevant. They realize, as many here have already noted, that it shouldn't really matter. It's the past. What is important is the "now," and the future. Completely agree!
However, this process is greatly aided by not discussing the past too much detail. So when a guy asks for the number of men you've slept with, he probably knows he shouldn't, but he can't help himself. And when you answer in the specific, it makes the past - something best not to discuss - more real, more tangible. And that could - COULD - become problematic.
For example, suppose your number is 12 (just for argument's sake). Let's assume his number is 8. Already, he's starting to think: my girlfriend has had more sexual partners than me, and yet she's 4 years younger. Do I know any of them? I had thought her number was 5 or 6. Wow, she's slept with twice the men I had assumed. I wonder if she slept with Bob. I had better ask her. Etc., etc.
I could really care less, but again, I don't want to think about it too much. I went out with a girl who had many sexual partners (but hey, OK, me too, so whatever). Let's focus on the future, right? But she seemed to bring it up quite often, in a lot of graphic detail, and it really got on my nerves. As in, "Have you ever had two girls at once? Because I was dating this guy, and he had this friend who was incredibly cute, and he suggested.... and then he more or less moved in with us.... and blah blah blah."
She was a successful executive, working for a large financial institution, managing a huge team of people. But she had a really interesting past. Another one of her boyfriends was murdered, apparently he was selling drugs out of their apartment, etc. And so on, and so on.
Again, the past is the past. Whatever. But the less I know, the better.
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I swear everytime I read this thread title in the list I think someone is asking for my phone number and there is no way I putting my number out publically on the web. That would of been fine if it was once or twice but since this thread has been around for a couple of days I've now had this though some 50+ times and I haven't learned yet apparently.0
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I don't keep track. As long as I'm being safe about it, does it REALLY matter if it's 2 or 20? I know girls who just "mess around" with guys, rather than have sex with them, because they don't want to increase their numbers. But, it's less safe to give a BJ than it is to have sex with a condom....I used to work at a surgical center, and I can't tell you the number of girls (and guys) who came in to get genital warts removed from their mouths because they "didn't want to have sex and look like a slut."
Ewww!! I never knew you could get them in your gob!!! :noway: And wouldnt you notice if he had them? And stop.......:huh:
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Not sure I'd you're referring to sex or kissing but answering the Kissing question should answer the sex question- never gotten the opportunity.
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Hope that answers your questions!
I was referring to kissing. I could care less about your sex life, that's your business... :-)
Thanks for your honest answer. Key is doing what you feel comfortable with, and it seems like you've got that under control. Good for you.
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Oh, and just to be clear, I would never, ever, ask a woman this question*. It's almost as bad as asking her age... ;-)
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* i should clarify. I will ask if she asks me first, as in "Well, why don't you tell me your number, and I'll tell you if mine is higher or lower." That usually ends the discussion right there... :-)0 -
I would never ask cuz I don't need to know nor do I WANT to know.
What matters most is where we both are right now, with each other...0 -
Wow there are some pretty strong opinions on here... I personally don't think it matters. I don't ask and wouldn't want to answer if someone asked me just because it makes no difference if it is 0 or 100.
If it is good it will still be good, and if it is bad it will still be bad either way! And that is what REALLY matters.
And BTW that movie was awesome! lol. I would like to own it! 0 -
Oh, and just to be clear, I would never, ever, ask a woman this question*. It's almost as bad as asking her age... ;-)
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* i should clarify. I will ask if she asks me first, as in "Well, why don't you tell me your number, and I'll tell you if mine is higher or lower." That usually ends the discussion right there... :-)
Ohhhh, that is perfect!0 -
If it was REALLY high it would probably freak me out a little. I'd rather just not think about it.0
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I would never ask cuz I don't need to know nor do I WANT to know.
What matters most is where we both are right now, with each other...
One million times YES!0 -
This, and your profiel pic = mega WIN. Love it.I would never ask cuz I don't need to know nor do I WANT to know.
What matters most is where we both are right now, with each other...0 -
I'm on number 14 right now.0
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I'm on number 14 right now.
Like, right now? As in: this very moment?
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