S/He might not be the one if...

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  • MaraDiaz
    MaraDiaz Posts: 4,604 Member

    Lol don't laugh but I once put extension in my ex's hair as part of a Halloween costume.

    My best friend talked a friend of mine into putting them in his hair when he came to visit, I'd forgotten all about it. But we never dated, so that was okay. He bought the ugliest, blondest, most fake hair extensions possible, but he was happy with them. Never did ask how long before they started coming out!

    @Southernsweet: I knew I forgot something! No man with a parole officer or a little band around his ankle that tells him when to be home! Dated a couple of those in my wilder, younger days (mostly drug nonsense), but I'm just too darn old now. And I can't afford to bail anybody out of jail, either.
  • jaxdiablo
    jaxdiablo Posts: 580
    If he names a pet after their dunegon and dragons/world of warcraft character.

    Just saying for me, this is a keeper. lol
  • NNAhuja
    NNAhuja Posts: 669 Member
    Here's a new one to add to the list.
    If he says you will always come #2 to his job.
    At least he was honest. :ohwell:
  • MaraDiaz
    MaraDiaz Posts: 4,604 Member
    Here's a new one to add to the list.
    If he says you will always come #2 to his job.
    At least he was honest. :ohwell:

    Never heard that one. I could see it if he was in one of those 24/7 pager emergency type jobs, doctor, law enforcement, or emergency personnel. But if it's all about the money for him, nah, I'd pass. Unless we were both in the same line of work and I felt the same about it. Then it could be a neat partnership. But even then, not if it was just about the money.
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    If he names a pet after their dunegon and dragons/world of warcraft character.

    Just saying for me, this is a keeper. lol

    My friend and husband named their first child after his D&D character. It was Hawkin but since he is Norwegien they changed the spelling to Haakon.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    if they insist on me changing my rock n roll lifestyle because they dont know how to explain to their friends that I sleep over at the bands loft after their concerts.
    if they have a problem with the fact that my best friend is drop dead gorgeous rockstar
    if they insist on a religious lifestyle.
    if they live an unhealthy lifestyle.
    if they are fat and dont care.
    if they have no dreams, ambitions or goals.
    if they are in shades of gray instead of full color.
    if they tell me that I have so much personality that even when Im sitting silently, Im too effing loud.
    if they are embarrassed to be seen with me.
  • dynamicwon
    dynamicwon Posts: 175 Member
    If he cant understand why I spend so much time at the gym!!!
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    If he cant understand why I spend so much time at the gym!!!

    WORD!
  • NNAhuja
    NNAhuja Posts: 669 Member
    Here's a new one to add to the list.
    If he says you will always come #2 to his job.
    At least he was honest. :ohwell:

    Never heard that one. I could see it if he was in one of those 24/7 pager emergency type jobs, doctor, law enforcement, or emergency personnel. But if it's all about the money for him, nah, I'd pass. Unless we were both in the same line of work and I felt the same about it. Then it could be a neat partnership. But even then, not if it was just about the money.

    I don't know what exactly he does in the Navy buy I'm 95% sure it's going above and beyond what is required of him. :ohwell: his loss
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
    sounds like he doesn't want someone to know about his "great" weekend... that, or he didn't have as good of a weekend as she did

    It's not just this weekend... the picture I was looking for was the one he posted when they first started dating. She had beautiful curly blonde hair and I was gonna make something with the pic. And trust me, I remember when he posted it (not her) because I, um..., liked him at the time and was kinda bummed when I saw it lol! He had a ton of pictures of both of them. Now they're all gone. They’re still “in a relationship” status though.

    You're right. He didn't have as good a weekend as she did!!!

    I totally understand removing photos of an ex.... but wouldn't it be appropriate to tell them first it's over?

    ouch sounds like he's weeding her out of his life even if his status is the same hes getting rid of her in his profile shows he wants out. OUCH.
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
    ...if they inform you spiritual demons are walking among us within a few minutes of meeting.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

    You laugh but this actually happened to me on a blind date. :laugh: He was then surprised that I said no to a second date.

    LOL
  • nolachick
    nolachick Posts: 3,278 Member
    1. if he doesnt believe in marriage
    2. if he doesnt want kids
    3. if he doesnt respect different cultures, in particular mine
    4. if he doesnt get along with my family or atleast tries to
    5. same as 4 but with friends
    6. if he isnt supportive of my career
    7. if his guy friends, play station or drinking come before you do
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    "Must be 420 friendly"...


    Yeah, no.

    I'm traumatized!!! Pot is okay with me actually, on special occassions but if you need to point it out on your profile (by the way, ex bf didn't mention it at all in his profile), then hell no. I'll walk the other way.
  • InvidiaXII
    InvidiaXII Posts: 315 Member
    If he names a pet after their dunegon and dragons/world of warcraft character.

    Not a negative, for me :laugh:
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