Need a guy's perspective (girls' thoughts too please!)
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It's getting pretty old on here people saying this and that aren't the right place to meet someone. Yu meet someone wherever and if the timing is right things will happen.
Good on for you approaching him, if you don't ask him you will never know.
Agreed. Perfectly wonderful people can have fun in bars too. It's a matter of knowing what you're looking for (drunk topless girl spewing her guts on the table? No.)0 -
You should totally go back and be playful about it! Punch him in the shoulder and say "Dude!" and then give him "the look" and then laugh. It won't be weird, it'll be funny.
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Wow. I guess I have some growing to do because I would've been hurt if he hadn't called after all that.
I don't think you should stay away from the bar because of him, though. He should feel awkward around you, not the other way around. But I understand the feeling of wanting to avoid the awkwardness period.0 -
Just go back and have fun and if you happen to see him, be polite and nice but not awkward. If he even remembers you and he's actually awkward just be a little friendly (to quickly show him, but don't' waste words "telling" him) and then move on to hang out with your friends like it's no big deal.
Exactly that!0 -
They are in the service industry... I'm guessing it's like a waitress and they get hit on all the time.
Ha, as a waitress, I wish this were true!0 -
Wow. I guess I have some growing to do because I would've been hurt if he hadn't called after all that.
I don't think you should stay away from the bar because of him, though. He should feel awkward around you, not the other way around. But I understand the feeling of wanting to avoid the awkwardness period.
Porcelain - I'm bummed... don't get me wrong. But not hurt... I know his not calling has nothing to do with me - he doesn't even know me.... yet. lol Thanks for weighing in!0 -
Wow. I guess I have some growing to do because I would've been hurt if he hadn't called after all that.
I don't think you should stay away from the bar because of him, though. He should feel awkward around you, not the other way around. But I understand the feeling of wanting to avoid the awkwardness period.
Porcelain - I'm bummed... don't get me wrong. But not hurt... I know his not calling has nothing to do with me - he doesn't even know me.... yet. lol Thanks for weighing in!
Yeah fair enough to be bummed, he was a cute guy. But you haven't lost anything and you've twice the ovaries of most woman who dare not approach a man!! Well done!0 -
It's getting pretty old on here people saying this and that aren't the right place to meet someone. Yu meet someone wherever and if the timing is right things will happen.
Good on for you approaching him, if you don't ask him you will never know.
Thanks Nat - I agree, You never know *where* you're going to meet someone. The odds that we'll find the love of our lives inside of a bar might be slim to none, but that doesn't mean it's wrong for us to give out our #s.0 -
Wow. I guess I have some growing to do because I would've been hurt if he hadn't called after all that.
I don't think you should stay away from the bar because of him, though. He should feel awkward around you, not the other way around. But I understand the feeling of wanting to avoid the awkwardness period.
Porcelain - I'm bummed... don't get me wrong. But not hurt... I know his not calling has nothing to do with me - he doesn't even know me.... yet. lol Thanks for weighing in!
Yeah fair enough to be bummed, he was a cute guy. But you haven't lost anything and you've twice the ovaries of most woman who dare not approach a man!! Well done!
Lol... yes I guess I do have a "pair" :laugh: Thanks for the pat on the back; I might not have done it perfectly, but at least I did it! :bigsmile:0 -
Wow. I guess I have some growing to do because I would've been hurt if he hadn't called after all that.
I don't think you should stay away from the bar because of him, though. He should feel awkward around you, not the other way around. But I understand the feeling of wanting to avoid the awkwardness period.
Porcelain - I'm bummed... don't get me wrong. But not hurt... I know his not calling has nothing to do with me - he doesn't even know me.... yet. lol Thanks for weighing in!
Yeah fair enough to be bummed, he was a cute guy. But you haven't lost anything and you've twice the ovaries of most woman who dare not approach a man!! Well done!
Lol... yes I guess I do have a "pair" :laugh: Thanks for the pat on the back; I might not have done it perfectly, but at least I did it! :bigsmile:
LOL. everyone needs a pair of their respective gender.
Nothing wrong with how you did it fro what I can see, dudes just a lame. For whatever reason he didnt call, he could still call and if he does that's cool, you can chat about why he took his sweet *kitten* time lol, if not when then pffffft who cares, he's lame.0 -
Nothing wrong with how you did it fro what I can see, dudes just a lame. For whatever reason he didnt call, he could still call and if he does that's cool, you can chat about why he took his sweet *kitten* time lol, if not when then pffffft who cares, he's lame.
Thanks - I couldn't agree more!0 -
Wow!! Kudos for approaching the bouncer!! I only wish I had your ovaries!! :laugh:
Absolutly no reason to stay away from the place. And definitely dont feel awkward; you did nothing to feel awkward about!! I think I would just blank him though as, for whatever reason, he's lame! :flowerforyou:0 -
Thanks Anna - we're going there tonight! I'll feel it out and decide on the spot whether I just ignore him or not. Either way it's gonna be a great time... sooo many good looking guys - can't wait! :bigsmile:
You guys were all so helpful in making me realize that he's the one who should feel awkward... not me! Thanks everyone!0
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