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Moe4572
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For those of you that do the online dating....girls---do you get inbox full of 20+ messages a day? I don't! never have and don't know anyone who does? Maybe it is just the younger, super hot girls? I have some friends that are younger and would probably be considered "hot", but even they do not get that many messages.
There are days/weeks that I get many messages, but is totally sporadic, and never 20+......, but the guys always refer to girls getting TONS of messages every day?
There are days/weeks that I get many messages, but is totally sporadic, and never 20+......, but the guys always refer to girls getting TONS of messages every day?
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Never has that ever happened to me.0
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Ya, not me!! Maybe in a month...maybe not.0
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You can get more hits if you add pics often for the sites where they have an update page that shows your name and says you added pics. Also you need some really good but also realistic pics of yourself you have to include full body shots also or you wont get hits either. I get alot of hits doing the above and Im 49.0
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nope. i very rarely if ever get messages :-) and when i do, they're usually " what's up?"
people hardly even LOOK at my profile. so...........0 -
Nope, it's a myth.0
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Nope.
It's sporadic.
Some days, I can get up to five new messages. Some days, ZILCH. I get a ton of profile views, but, apparently, they don't like what they see cause they sure aren't making any contact.0 -
nope. i very rarely if ever get messages :-) and when i do, they're usually " what's up?"
people hardly even LOOK at my profile. so...........
Didn't you just put your profile up?0 -
Just post "I am here for the gangbang". :laugh:
(kidding, of course!)
Bonus points for everyone who knows that movie quote.
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You can get more hits if you add pics often for the sites where they have an update page that shows your name and says you added pics. Also you need some really good but also realistic pics of yourself you have to include full body shots also or you wont get hits either. I get alot of hits doing the above and Im 49.
What do you mean by "hits" though?0 -
Just post "I am here for the gangbang". :laugh:
(kidding, of course!)
Bonus points for everyone who knows that movie quote.
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Just post "I am here for the gangbang". :laugh:
(kidding, of course!)
Bonus points for everyone who knows that movie quote.
well... this is true...except I've never used that quote, but I did an experiment one time and posted something along the lines of "Just Wanna Have Fun" and my profile pic showed quite a bit of cleavage.... and, yes, the messages came pouring in...0 -
For those of you that do the online dating....girls---do you get inbox full of 20+ messages a day? I don't! never have and don't know anyone who does? Maybe it is just the younger, super hot girls? I have some friends that are younger and would probably be considered "hot", but even they do not get that many messages.
There are days/weeks that I get many messages, but is totally sporadic, and never 20+......, but the guys always refer to girls getting TONS of messages every day?
A few months ago, a female member of this group posted a screen shot with 643 incoming messages on OkCupid.
Attractive, childless women in their 20s get the majority of messages because that is what every guy under 40-45 or so wants.0 -
Just post "I am here for the gangbang". :laugh:
(kidding, of course!)
Bonus points for everyone who knows that movie quote.
well... this is true...except I've never used that quote, but I did an experiment one time and posted something along the lines of "Just Wanna Have Fun" and my profile pic showed quite a bit of cleavage.... and, yes, the messages came pouring in...
Cuz men are horndogs.0 -
I get an average of 5-8 messages a day. Most get deleted! Today ive gotten 3 so far.0
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You can get more hits if you add pics often for the sites where they have an update page that shows your name and says you added pics. Also you need some really good but also realistic pics of yourself you have to include full body shots also or you wont get hits either. I get alot of hits doing the above and Im 49.
What do you mean by "hits" though?
I meant views and messages0 -
For those of you that do the online dating....girls---do you get inbox full of 20+ messages a day? I don't! never have and don't know anyone who does? Maybe it is just the younger, super hot girls? I have some friends that are younger and would probably be considered "hot", but even they do not get that many messages.
There are days/weeks that I get many messages, but is totally sporadic, and never 20+......, but the guys always refer to girls getting TONS of messages every day?
A few months ago, a female member of this group posted a screen shot of her with 643 incoming messages on OkCupid.
Attractive, childless women in their 20s get the majority of messages because that is what every guy under 40-45 or so wants.
It seems every day on here I feel more and more like I don`t fit in with life.
The only time I can remember want women in their 20s was when I was in my 20s,once I got into my 30s and so on my interest level moved with my age.0 -
DM, I gotta tell you, you are always the bright spot in a dark room.
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For those of you that do the online dating....girls---do you get inbox full of 20+ messages a day? I don't! never have and don't know anyone who does? Maybe it is just the younger, super hot girls? I have some friends that are younger and would probably be considered "hot", but even they do not get that many messages.
There are days/weeks that I get many messages, but is totally sporadic, and never 20+......, but the guys always refer to girls getting TONS of messages every day?
A few months ago, a female member of this group posted a screen shot of her with 643 incoming messages on OkCupid.
Attractive, childless women in their 20s get the majority of messages because that is what every guy under 40-45 or so wants.
It seems every day on here I feel more and more like I don`t fit in with life.
The only time I can remember want women in their 20s was when I was in my 20s,once I got into my 30s and so on my interest level moved with my age.
I think he over generalizes, Carl.
I get messages from men in their 20's who don't like the women their own age, so, no, not every man under 45 wants a woman in her 20's.
And just because he thinks he is right all the time, doesn't mean he is! 0 -
You can get more hits if you add pics often for the sites where they have an update page that shows your name and says you added pics. Also you need some really good but also realistic pics of yourself you have to include full body shots also or you wont get hits either. I get alot of hits doing the above and Im 49.
What do you mean by "hits" though?
I meant views and messages
I guess with more views, more people see you, so the chance of more messages? I get a ton of views, but not near as many messages. So, I guess I'm not concerned with views as much. I just want the right guy to view me and message me. LOL Picky, picky, picky 0
