bed with bulimic impulses

am i alone with this? I am waiting for a referal and so i can go to therapy etc. the problem is i have only told my boyfriend about this and as much as i love him, being supportive does not come easily to him. he has the problem of puuting his foot in it whenever i try to talk to him. I mean when i first told him what was going on he told me he loved me no matter what, but then followed that up with whats for dinner? have you eaten?
I just need to find people who know what I am going through and who i can be friends with and talk to and help me beat this, lose weight, tone up and stick 2 fingers up at bed.

Thanks