POF rant ... yes another one
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:huh:Lucky you, I get all the subbie guys wanting to wear my panties and have me beat them bloody
I just joined POF and so far I'm not impressed...
its only good if you live in a gigantic metropolis.0 -
Since starting POF again about a month ago I am currently 0-30 on getting a reply... and no I'm not only messaging the best looking and yes my messages are more than just hey how are you?0
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Since starting POF again about a month ago I am currently 0-30 on getting a reply... and no I'm not only messaging the best looking and yes my messages are more than just hey how are you?
Same boat bro.. I'm using okcupid... you have to have thick skin and keep trying bro.0 -
Same here. I keep hearing all these stories from women about the jerks who are always messaging some variation of "Hey, ur hot, let's f---" And so I try to be polite, honest, and sincere in my messages, and I get nothing but crickets chirping in return.
I'm wondering if there's something to the jerk approach. Maybe those guys keep using those lines because they actually work.
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Same here. I keep hearing all these stories from women about the jerks who are always messaging some variation of "Hey, ur hot, let's f---" And so I try to be polite, honest, and sincere in my messages, and I get nothing but crickets chirping in return.
I'm wondering if there's something to the jerk approach. Maybe those guys keep using those lines because they actually work.
Try the jerk approach. See what kind of responses you get by saying "Hey baby, lets shack up tonight". Your results might be better.. or they might be the same as you're having now. You don't know if you don't try.0 -
its only good if you live in a gigantic metropolis.
Why is POF only good in a gigantic metropolis? I tend to think that single people, particular the younger, childless ones, need the gigantic city life to find the right person, particularly if online dating is used, because you're going to need to weed through a lot of nonsense. Areas with a smaller population base may not have the critical mass of members to allow through the weeding out process.
My cousins found their wives in small to mid sized cities though. Take that for what it is worth. :yawn:0 -
Yes , there are some horrible men on POF. I had the show and tell guy who whipped it out on my sofa after dinner. Like he thought I needed desert. I had the cute player who bought me flowers. I had the creapy local guy who I never met because he spooked me out, and now I have just had my 3rd date with a nice guy. Who has been trying to get me to go out with him for 3 months. He looked a lot like one of of my exes. Plus I look super young and he looks his age 43. But I finally acquiessed to be friends with him. I eneded up going to dinner with him. I enjoyed his company so much that we closed the restaurant down. I was surprised when I felt myself attracted to him. He's a nice guy who opens all my doors, pays for dinner, makes me laugh, is a great kisser. he's completely stable and respects me. So we will see what happens. It's just strange to me to be dating someone in their 40's because I haven't in the past. I have always gone for baby faced young men. But this guy hasa good heart. I just feel comfortable around him. Like I have known him forever.0
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Skinny dipping and doms?
Sorry.. I'd write more but I have to go create my POF account now.
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its only good if you live in a gigantic metropolis.
Why is POF only good in a gigantic metropolis? I tend to think that single people, particular the younger, childless ones, need the gigantic city life to find the right person, particularly if online dating is used, because you're going to need to weed through a lot of nonsense. Areas with a smaller population base may not have the critical mass of members to allow through the weeding out process.
My cousins found their wives in small to mid sized cities though. Take that for what it is worth. :yawn:
I live in the middle of Nowhere Kansas. 25,000 people and have found more dates on POF than on Match or the other sites out there. Of course they have lived out of town. The most recetn living an hour away. It's more difficult in smaller towns, but I am grateful to have met the man I seeing right now. He makes me laugh and wants the same things I want0 -
PoF is great entertainment. I'm still on it hoping there is ONE good person in my area on it, but I am not sure. I've had offers for being a servant, late night rendezvous, an affair, and numerous other ridiculous offers. I just ignore them and move on. I figure since it's free, you get what comes with it and don't let it bother me.
OKC has actually had more freaks on it for me, but seemingly also just as many normal people. We'll see, haha.... at least I have great stories to tell for my (lack of) dating life!!0 -
Why did they ask you do be their submissives? I would have told you to get your *kitten* to my place and bring a sandwich. It better taste good and you better get here quick too!0
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Usually I don't get too far with POF and I haven't read 50 Shades of Grey....0
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Am I the only one who read this and thought "doms" was for delayed onset muscle soreness?
I must not have been very sharp, 'cause I had to read it 3 or 4 times before I understood what was going on.
Anyways... POF is no good... Sooo many weirdos! And I got about 5 pages into Fifty Shades and couldn't tolerate anymore.
If you're going to use a dating site, I'd stay away from those free ones.0
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