Poor Self Esteem, Chasing After Hotties/Players
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My favorite part is when we try to actually have a discussion and respond directly to what he says, someone can write out and entire paragraph and his responses either focus on a comment that wasn't even made by that person or basically says "Blah blah my opinion blah blah I know better because penis". I don't even bother responding to him in a serious way anymore because no discussion is possible. There's no debate, no back and forth of ideas, no sharing and growing and understanding just a bunch of one sided outdated uninformed rhetoric. I believe at this point he might actually be a troll.
Oh please! If you ask me a decent question, I'll respond accordingly. You just haven't asked me a decent question yet.
You and the other women on here rarely ask me a question and just proceed to bash. Which is fine, it gives me a little laugh. :laugh:0 -
NC, Yes there are a lot of guys in the world who think like Mike. Fine, I respect a difference of opinion. Let him tell us HIS opinion and move on instead of beating a dead horse (women need to be hot, men only want tail, get a boob job and a nice tan, men don't care if a woman has inner beauty or brains). Personally, I'm a little tired of every thread turning into the "Mike Show" because he doesn't understand the difference between HIS opinion and what ALL men think. Then he argues with the women here that we are constantly wrong. It's exhausting... I'm cool with discussing sex, it has it's place as a topic, but I also think a lot of people here want to discuss relationship issues. Clearly he does not and simply derails every conversation back to what HE wants. So, really, who is the one that is unable to see a difference of opinion here?
Remember, it's YOU who turns it into the "Mike Show". Thank you
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We are not going down this road again.
Everyone can and will state an opinion civilly (no intentionally trying to stir the pot) and everyone is free to disagree with it civilly (without personal insult or attack) but this routine is going to end.
I have seen all kinds of picking phrases out of comments or not even trying to respond to the context,plenty of sniping out of dislike.
Personal opinions of each other are non issues when responding.
I don`t want a watered down PC discussion but I don`t like where this is heading and as far as I am concerned there is plenty of fault for it to be spread around.0 -
Posted before I saw Carl's comment.
Edited out of respect for him.0 -
Posted before I saw Carl's comment.
Edited out of respect for him.
I have no problem agreeing to disagree. If you have a well thought out question, I'd love to answer it.0 -
Maybe it's different for men, but I don't consider picking up a younger hot guy particularly challenging, much less an ego boost.
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Most are unmarried, actively looking, and not hard to attract, at least for awhile.
Tru dat... anyone can get a younger hot guy (for one or two dates) since they typically think we're easy picken'sI'd feel much better about myself (once I move to whereever I'm going) if I attracted an intelligent, pleasant looking single man of my own age.
What??? Such creatures exist?? Lol!!0 -
Posted before I saw Carl's comment.
Edited out of respect for him.
I have no problem agreeing to disagree. If you have a well thought out question, I'd love to answer it.
As of right now I have nothing to say to you that wouldn't get me in trouble somehow, even though you're obviously passively aggressively baiting.0 -
Maybe it's different for men, but I don't consider picking up a younger hot guy particularly challenging, much less an ego boost.
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Most are unmarried, actively looking, and not hard to attract, at least for awhile.
Tru dat... anyone can get a younger hot guy (for one or two dates) since they typically think we're easy picken'sI'd feel much better about myself (once I move to whereever I'm going) if I attracted an intelligent, pleasant looking single man of my own age.
What??? Such creatures exist?? Lol!!
I don't know, I haven't looked lately! Maybe.0 -
I wouldn't say it's low self esteem necessary, like someone said, more of him being shallow.
When I get the attention of a hottie, I run with it. That just means I must be a hottie too!!
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also lmfao when a whole bunch of women tell a man that they know better what goes on in ALL men's heads than he does.
Yoovie, it's quite the opposite. He's saying all men are the same and they don't give a flying *kitten* about personality as long as the lady is the finest "tail" he can land. Not only women are disagreeing with him and say some dudes care about who they are spending time with beyond how she looks on his arm. Carl spoke out against it too (basically everyone is telling Mike to stop acting like his perspective on life is the only one that is real and all women are whiny suckers). As far as the dominating female response, well, I mean look at how many women are on this site let alone in this group compared to men.
When it comes to getting laid? Yeah no one cares about personality if youre just trying to score. Looking for a relationship and an honest partnership is different.
When I just wanna get laid i dont give a a flying anything about his personality as long as he isnt so obnoxious that he cant focus on me while Im naked. When its just sex, when I just want to get nailed to the damn mattress because its sex I need - not meeting someone special- then I want him to be as hot as possible, with good hygiene and mad game.
I dont care if he's ambitious I care if he's pretty and fun to lick.
^^^^ oh sooo this . And quiet frankly the less he says the better lol Truely though it is easy for women to go out and grab a guy just to get Twirly with. I would know lol:bigsmile: :blushing: .. Guys have a much harder time with it then women do. Its simplely because the women who are willing to go out and 'play' get snapped up real quick and the other ladies expect more out of you. I've watch my boys try to pull the same kinda game I can and it doesnt work (funny to watch though) Now I have to say I think its less about an ego boost and more about gratification atleast it always was for me .0 -
Maybe it's different for men, but I don't consider picking up a younger hot guy particularly challenging, much less an ego boost.
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Most are unmarried, actively looking, and not hard to attract, at least for awhile.
Tru dat... anyone can get a younger hot guy (for one or two dates) since they typically think we're easy picken'sI'd feel much better about myself (once I move to whereever I'm going) if I attracted an intelligent, pleasant looking single man of my own age.
What??? Such creatures exist?? Lol!!
Hold up, I just remembered, you found one, so I guess they do exist. Or are you saying you got the last one? :mad:0
