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  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,830 Member
    'm glad this didn't backfire on you.

    BB sounds like a keeper! I'm glad to hear that he was just politely ending communication with other Matches. I did that myself several weeks ago - got some nice messages back too thanking me and wishing me luck. :smile:

    Thanks! I think part of it is also he has been seriously played in his relationships by women just looking for a meal ticket, so he understand the hesitancy to trust. A man who insists I trust him right away wouldn't be a good match for me, and I wouldn't be a good match for him. But he also knows that my trust and love come from a loyal heart and, while hard won, will not disappear overnight due to some petty argument.

    I think that's why we are working so well (so far, lol).
  • Cameron_1969
    Cameron_1969 Posts: 2,855 Member
    Wow! You sure didn't waste time jumping ship. . you must not be that serious about him if you make dates with several men over small potatoes stuff like that. . God help him when he really does piss you off! eek!
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,830 Member
    Wow! You sure didn't waste time jumping ship. . you must not be that serious about him if you make dates with several men over small potatoes stuff like that. . God help him when he really does piss you off! eek!

    I find this interesting given your comments in the playa thread about how wise it is for a man to date multiple women in his quest for "the one." I make no apologies for my behavior. It was rash, but he and I were not a couple at that time.

    My advice to any woman will be to never assume you are his girlfriend and never assume he is being faithful to you until you have "the talk" and hear the words come out of his mouth. Remember the guy I posted about a couple months ago who didn't want me getting to know other guys, yet he himself wouldn't commit to me?

    In this case, it was a mis-understanding where I took him saying I wasn't his girlfriend as my cue to move on. In fact, I'm quite convinced that the ease with which I set up those dates in an attempt to start getting over BB has a lot to do with him making us "official."

    I owe a "boyfriend" more care, concern, and communication. I owe "a guy from Match I've been getting to know but is still playing the field" nothing.
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