The EX GF Texted --- What to do?

Scottish_Lass

An ex is an ex for a reason, and that reason probably hasnt changed. Be wary!

TheKitsune6

And to the OP, before my divorce, I didn't mind "high maintenance" women. They seemed a bit more exotic, perhaps more passionate (theoretically). I felt the relationship would be wild, unpredictable, memorable! No June Cleaver for me!

Now, of course, I know better. There is no way in hell I'd ever get serious* again with a high maintenance woman. I have enough drama in my life with an interesting job and two kids.

I want low maintenance. I'm thinking good references, solid, lifetime warranty, money back guarantee.

--P

* I don't even want a fling with a high maintenance woman. Just a disaster waiting to happen...

Us low maintenance women can be passionate too, yo

Jennifer2387

Us low maintenance women can be passionate too, yo

word

BigBrewski

So..... what did you do? Did you call her after the gym? What did she really want?

I called got no answer and I am not calling again. I was trying to be the nice guy but as people pointed out nothing has changed I am still me and I am sure she is still her. I am sure there was no chance of a little brewski and at this point I don't care what she wanted.

Jennifer2387

So..... what did you do? Did you call her after the gym? What did she really want?

I called got no answer and I am not calling again. I was trying to be the nice guy but as people pointed out nothing has changed I am still me and I am sure she is still her. I am sure there was no chance of a little brewski and at this point I don't care what she wanted.

good for you! She probably misses you and wants to see if there is any chance of re-connecting. But usually exes are exes for a reason.

BigBrewski

Winner is...i am a dad




Jk she wanted closure here is the email i just got

Hi Bruce,    Sorry I missed your call.  I wanted to talk to clear the air and to have peace. You know I get along with all of my ex's on some level. That's all I want here. I want to fully understand what happened and I would like to hear your thoughts about everything.
I don't like to fail. !! I know I was intense. I only wanted to make you happy. It came from a pure and happy place. I thought we wanted the same things. I thought we had the same goals for the future. That's why I wanted it to work. I didn't realize til the end that we had very different goals. We are different people and want different things. I understand that now. I'm ok with all of that. It was a hard pill to swallow at the time. The timing for our spilt was not Ideal. It's an emotional time of year for me.
I know this must seem out of the blue but I wasn't ready to talk about it before. I was upset and needed time to process.
I hope you understand I just want to have peace. I don't want any bad Karma out in the world. I hope if we ever bump into each other it can be civil and friendly. I hope you are doing well and are happy ! 


And nuumber blocked email marked as junk or spam...i had closure when i said please come get your stuff

sunnymel126

I gasped when I saw that first line... haha

But good for you that you just moved on.

oddyogi

I gasped when I saw that first line... haha

But good for you that you just moved on.

Haha, me too!

RunIntheMud

Glad it it worked out well Bruce.

grimlaur

Winner is...i am a dad

I gasped when I saw that first line... haha

But good for you that you just moved on.

Haha, me too!

Me three..... Run Forrest! Run!

kristen6022

Drama Queen much? If she wrote "peace and pure" one more time I think I was going to hurl.

Gotta love the closure e-mail. Seems you avoided a train wreck there - good job!

catherine4211

She sounds like a complete crazy person. And not the good kind of crazy. The scary kind.

BondBomb

She sounds like a complete crazy person. And not the good kind of crazy. The scary kind.

Agreed!

Cameron_1969

Text her back and say: "Sure as long as we can screw first". .

see how that goes over.