The EX GF Texted --- What to do?
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An ex is an ex for a reason, and that reason probably hasnt changed. Be wary!0
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And to the OP, before my divorce, I didn't mind "high maintenance" women. They seemed a bit more exotic, perhaps more passionate (theoretically). I felt the relationship would be wild, unpredictable, memorable! No June Cleaver for me!
Now, of course, I know better. There is no way in hell I'd ever get serious* again with a high maintenance woman. I have enough drama in my life with an interesting job and two kids.
I want low maintenance. I'm thinking good references, solid, lifetime warranty, money back guarantee.
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* I don't even want a fling with a high maintenance woman. Just a disaster waiting to happen...
Us low maintenance women can be passionate too, yo
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Us low maintenance women can be passionate too, yo
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So..... what did you do? Did you call her after the gym? What did she really want?
I called got no answer and I am not calling again. I was trying to be the nice guy but as people pointed out nothing has changed I am still me and I am sure she is still her. I am sure there was no chance of a little brewski and at this point I don't care what she wanted.0 -
So..... what did you do? Did you call her after the gym? What did she really want?
I called got no answer and I am not calling again. I was trying to be the nice guy but as people pointed out nothing has changed I am still me and I am sure she is still her. I am sure there was no chance of a little brewski and at this point I don't care what she wanted.
good for you! She probably misses you and wants to see if there is any chance of re-connecting. But usually exes are exes for a reason.0 -
Winner is...i am a dad
Jk she wanted closure here is the email i just got
Hi Bruce, Sorry I missed your call. I wanted to talk to clear the air and to have peace. You know I get along with all of my ex's on some level. That's all I want here. I want to fully understand what happened and I would like to hear your thoughts about everything.
I don't like to fail. !! I know I was intense. I only wanted to make you happy. It came from a pure and happy place. I thought we wanted the same things. I thought we had the same goals for the future. That's why I wanted it to work. I didn't realize til the end that we had very different goals. We are different people and want different things. I understand that now. I'm ok with all of that. It was a hard pill to swallow at the time. The timing for our spilt was not Ideal. It's an emotional time of year for me.
I know this must seem out of the blue but I wasn't ready to talk about it before. I was upset and needed time to process.
I hope you understand I just want to have peace. I don't want any bad Karma out in the world. I hope if we ever bump into each other it can be civil and friendly. I hope you are doing well and are happy !
And nuumber blocked email marked as junk or spam...i had closure when i said please come get your stuff0 -
I gasped when I saw that first line... haha
But good for you that you just moved on.0 -
I gasped when I saw that first line... haha
But good for you that you just moved on.
Haha, me too!0 -
Glad it it worked out well Bruce.
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Winner is...i am a dadI gasped when I saw that first line... haha
But good for you that you just moved on.
Haha, me too!
Me three..... Run Forrest! Run!0 -
Drama Queen much? If she wrote "peace and pure" one more time I think I was going to hurl.
Gotta love the closure e-mail. Seems you avoided a train wreck there - good job!0 -
She sounds like a complete crazy person. And not the good kind of crazy. The scary kind.0
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Agreed!She sounds like a complete crazy person. And not the good kind of crazy. The scary kind.0 -
Text her back and say: "Sure as long as we can screw first". .
see how that goes over.0
