Alone at Christmas

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  • disneywm76
    disneywm76 Posts: 573 Member
    I have to agree, that's pretty short term to immerse him that deeply into your family functions. It is a really nice gesture, and maybe you can find a way to divide your time to take care of family as well as make him feel special on a lonely holiday, I just wouldn't risk the relationship and mix the two.

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  • A_Valerie
    A_Valerie Posts: 129 Member
    Well, in most of (Catholic?) Europe, Christmas is celebrated on the 24th of December. Why can't you have Christmas one day sooner or one day later for him? I suppose one day later will make it easier to arrange a babysitter. Leave your child with the parents, etc.

    Tell him the 26th will be the 25th, and invite him over for a nice dinner, exchange presents, etc., etc. You can buy a DVD of the Grinch and drink eggnog, etc.

    --P

    ^This^

    I would not try introducing him to your daughter as a 'friend', do not confuse the situation. after all, it has only been a month. and if it is going to last, you have plenty of time to meet kids and family in the future.
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