Boobies! =)
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This actually happens a lot of the time. They conclude ( verbally to me) that size I have 5 kids I must
Love sex.....
Inevitably the convos get awkward at that point. That's where it all went south w the guy that cancelled on me..... Not that I had 5 kids, that apparently was ok. He concluded I loved sex and made a couple comments, thats when I said " I don't move THAT fast ;-)" and that's all she wrote :-)Also, if you mention that you have five kids, they might take it as "wow, she loves sex." Dumb conclusion though.
I would definitely have someone read over your profile and help you edit it and choose pics.0 -
I also happily volunteer to review and severely edit your (or anyone else's) profile for content and tone.
Yes, there are lots of men out there who are overtly sexual online..but the common denominator on this one is you..and if they are all you are attracting - it is clearly time to change things up! In the immortal words of the detestable Dr. Phil - "so how's that working for ya?"
I mean the other way to go is just to start practicing being a haughty b*tch to these men. I can give you some tips on that too.
A reply to the question or insinuation that you love sex (based on having that many children) can simply be "and why exactly would you feel that is an appropriate thing to say to a woman?". Channel your inner elementary school teacher. If they are going to act like naughty 12 year olds, treat as such. You will probably get an apology, or possibly a helpful explanation. And if they disappear based on that, consider it a good thing. 0 -
This actually happens a lot of the time. They conclude ( verbally to me) that size I have 5 kids I must
Love sex.....
Inevitably the convos get awkward at that point. That's where it all went south w the guy that cancelled on me..... Not that I had 5 kids, that apparently was ok. He concluded I loved sex and made a couple comments, thats when I said " I don't move THAT fast ;-)" and that's all she wrote :-)Also, if you mention that you have five kids, they might take it as "wow, she loves sex." Dumb conclusion though.
I would definitely have someone read over your profile and help you edit it and choose pics.
A couple of things that occured to me are that the 5 kids aspect may make you less appealing for someone who is looking for a relationship because 1) kids take a lot of time. It is easy to assume that if you have 5 kids you don't really have time for a relationship. 2) If I meet someone with one or two kids, I don't see it as a problem. However, I can't see my life revolving around getting 5 kids to various school and social functions. It's more responsibility than I want to take on. 3) Five kids seems to indicate either a lack of responsibility about birth control or a religious preference towards large families. Five already seems like a burden. I wouldn't want to risk having additional children.
In totality i can see why your results may be skewed way towards men seeking a good time. The guys looking for a fling may see the 5 kids as an indication that you like sex and will give it up easily and/or quickly. The guys looking for something more substantive may be seeing you as inaccessible or that it is likely to be too difficult a process to get to know you.0 -
yeah. i have to agree with you. i figured it would scare guys off, but maybe it just makes them see me in a less than serious light. like you said, a fling wouldn't care too much, and 5 is kinda overwhelming to CHOOSE to get involved with.
thanks!
In totality i can see why your results may be skewed way towards men seeking a good time. The guys looking for a fling may see the 5 kids as an indication that you like sex and will give it up easily and/or quickly. The guys looking for something more substantive may be seeing you as inaccessible or that it is likely to be too difficult a process to get to know you.0 -
yeah. i have to agree with you. i figured it would scare guys off, but maybe it just makes them see me in a less than serious light. like you said, a fling wouldn't care too much, and 5 is kinda overwhelming to CHOOSE to get involved with.
thanks!
In totality i can see why your results may be skewed way towards men seeking a good time. The guys looking for a fling may see the 5 kids as an indication that you like sex and will give it up easily and/or quickly. The guys looking for something more substantive may be seeing you as inaccessible or that it is likely to be too difficult a process to get to know you.
Having 5 kids is an enormous responsibility for a guy to willingly take on. I'm sure there are guys that would, but it would take a very, very special gentleman. Best of luck to you.0 -
thanks mike.0
