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  • lamby284
    lamby284 Posts: 167 Member
    My friends have all been with someone or are with someone now. I've never even been asked out on a date in my life, im only 18 but still...I'm that single friend that everyone has one of. I mean guys look at me, but no luck ever getting asked out. I've given up on trying to get a date and am focusing more on myself and getting fit. Usually when I stop looking for something, it will find me anyways :P Still hoping to focus on myself this year!
  • Danielle_2013
    Danielle_2013 Posts: 806 Member
    I fell in love (or the early stages of) and started planning a future with a man who is wonderful and everything I thought I might need or want in someone. But he broke up with me on Friday. Earlier today I finally got to hear some of the very personal and serious reasons why...and truly believe that when he says they are his issues and it isn't me he is telling the truth. Sometimes in life you get to do something remarkable and selfless for another person..and so I made an active choice to put the ego and hurt and disappointment aside and love him anyway, even if only as a friend. He is an amazing individual who has to sort out himself and his own happiness on his own..but I also appreciate the opportunity to show someone what non-judgmental and unconditional love can look like.

    So...as I hope for the future still, I think I will be single a while. This will take me time to get past and right now I don't want to get past it..though I am bad about distracting myself with others. So you never know.
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    I fell in love (or the early stages of) and started planning a future with a man who is wonderful and everything I thought I might need or want in someone. But he broke up with me on Friday. Earlier today I finally got to hear some of the very personal and serious reasons why...and truly believe that when he says they are his issues and it isn't me he is telling the truth. Sometimes in life you get to do something remarkable and selfless for another person..and so I made an active choice to put the ego and hurt and disappointment aside and love him anyway, even if only as a friend. He is an amazing individual who has to sort out himself and his own happiness on his own..but I also appreciate the opportunity to show someone what non-judgmental and unconditional love can look like.

    So...as I hope for the future still, I think I will be single a while. This will take me time to get past and right now I don't want to get past it..though I am bad about distracting myself with others. So you never know.

    Awwwww that's crappy news SB, I'm really sorry :flowerforyou:
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    I fell in love (or the early stages of) and started planning a future with a man who is wonderful and everything I thought I might need or want in someone. But he broke up with me on Friday. Earlier today I finally got to hear some of the very personal and serious reasons why...and truly believe that when he says they are his issues and it isn't me he is telling the truth. Sometimes in life you get to do something remarkable and selfless for another person..and so I made an active choice to put the ego and hurt and disappointment aside and love him anyway, even if only as a friend. He is an amazing individual who has to sort out himself and his own happiness on his own..but I also appreciate the opportunity to show someone what non-judgmental and unconditional love can look like.

    So...as I hope for the future still, I think I will be single a while. This will take me time to get past and right now I don't want to get past it..though I am bad about distracting myself with others. So you never know.

    :flowerforyou: So sorry!
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    I fell in love (or the early stages of) and started planning a future with a man who is wonderful and everything I thought I might need or want in someone. But he broke up with me on Friday. Earlier today I finally got to hear some of the very personal and serious reasons why...and truly believe that when he says they are his issues and it isn't me he is telling the truth. Sometimes in life you get to do something remarkable and selfless for another person..and so I made an active choice to put the ego and hurt and disappointment aside and love him anyway, even if only as a friend. He is an amazing individual who has to sort out himself and his own happiness on his own..but I also appreciate the opportunity to show someone what non-judgmental and unconditional love can look like.

    So...as I hope for the future still, I think I will be single a while. This will take me time to get past and right now I don't want to get past it..though I am bad about distracting myself with others. So you never know.

    So sorry for your hurt honey,now is not the time but at some point maybe we can have a discussion about some things you have spoken of here. :flowerforyou:
  • kristen6022
    kristen6022 Posts: 1,923 Member
    I fell in love (or the early stages of) and started planning a future with a man who is wonderful and everything I thought I might need or want in someone. But he broke up with me on Friday. Earlier today I finally got to hear some of the very personal and serious reasons why...and truly believe that when he says they are his issues and it isn't me he is telling the truth. Sometimes in life you get to do something remarkable and selfless for another person..and so I made an active choice to put the ego and hurt and disappointment aside and love him anyway, even if only as a friend. He is an amazing individual who has to sort out himself and his own happiness on his own..but I also appreciate the opportunity to show someone what non-judgmental and unconditional love can look like.

    So...as I hope for the future still, I think I will be single a while. This will take me time to get past and right now I don't want to get past it..though I am bad about distracting myself with others. So you never know.

    Ah, SB, that really sucks. You know we are all here to listen to you vent if you need it.
  • atjays
    atjays Posts: 797 Member
    Most likely. Who knows, after how crazy 2012 was in the love department, anything could happen and I wouldn't be surprised. I'm certainly open to a serious relationship, just has to be the right girl. My current options have no long term potential.
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    I fell in love (or the early stages of) and started planning a future with a man who is wonderful and everything I thought I might need or want in someone. But he broke up with me on Friday. Earlier today I finally got to hear some of the very personal and serious reasons why...and truly believe that when he says they are his issues and it isn't me he is telling the truth. Sometimes in life you get to do something remarkable and selfless for another person..and so I made an active choice to put the ego and hurt and disappointment aside and love him anyway, even if only as a friend. He is an amazing individual who has to sort out himself and his own happiness on his own..but I also appreciate the opportunity to show someone what non-judgmental and unconditional love can look like.

    So...as I hope for the future still, I think I will be single a while. This will take me time to get past and right now I don't want to get past it..though I am bad about distracting myself with others. So you never know.

    I'm so sorry to hear that SB. It's wonderful that you can take so much out of it, but I know that doesn't help the hurt. :flowerforyou:
  • 4themoney
    4themoney Posts: 797 Member
    HUGS SB!!!
    just hugs, hugs and more hugs!!!!
    I fell in love (or the early stages of) and started planning a future with a man who is wonderful and everything I thought I might need or want in someone. But he broke up with me on Friday. Earlier today I finally got to hear some of the very personal and serious reasons why...and truly believe that when he says they are his issues and it isn't me he is telling the truth. Sometimes in life you get to do something remarkable and selfless for another person..and so I made an active choice to put the ego and hurt and disappointment aside and love him anyway, even if only as a friend. He is an amazing individual who has to sort out himself and his own happiness on his own..but I also appreciate the opportunity to show someone what non-judgmental and unconditional love can look like.

    So...as I hope for the future still, I think I will be single a while. This will take me time to get past and right now I don't want to get past it..though I am bad about distracting myself with others. So you never know.
  • grum84
    grum84 Posts: 428 Member
    I fell in love (or the early stages of) and started planning a future with a man who is wonderful and everything I thought I might need or want in someone. But he broke up with me on Friday. Earlier today I finally got to hear some of the very personal and serious reasons why...and truly believe that when he says they are his issues and it isn't me he is telling the truth. Sometimes in life you get to do something remarkable and selfless for another person..and so I made an active choice to put the ego and hurt and disappointment aside and love him anyway, even if only as a friend. He is an amazing individual who has to sort out himself and his own happiness on his own..but I also appreciate the opportunity to show someone what non-judgmental and unconditional love can look like.

    So...as I hope for the future still, I think I will be single a while. This will take me time to get past and right now I don't want to get past it..though I am bad about distracting myself with others. So you never know.

    Sorry to hear it SB. I totally know where you are coming from as I could have wrote almost this exact comment about 4 months ago.

    I fell in love, and she left to go back and work things out with her ex-husband. But we were both such special people for one another, that we couldn't think of going on without one another. So trying hard to keep the friends thing going, even through the pain that I still get.

    Best of luck to you. Not the way you wanted to start the new year I am sure.
  • kls13la
    kls13la Posts: 380 Member
    I fell in love (or the early stages of) and started planning a future with a man who is wonderful and everything I thought I might need or want in someone. But he broke up with me on Friday. Earlier today I finally got to hear some of the very personal and serious reasons why...and truly believe that when he says they are his issues and it isn't me he is telling the truth. Sometimes in life you get to do something remarkable and selfless for another person..and so I made an active choice to put the ego and hurt and disappointment aside and love him anyway, even if only as a friend. He is an amazing individual who has to sort out himself and his own happiness on his own..but I also appreciate the opportunity to show someone what non-judgmental and unconditional love can look like.

    So...as I hope for the future still, I think I will be single a while. This will take me time to get past and right now I don't want to get past it..though I am bad about distracting myself with others. So you never know.

    I'm so sorry to hear this.
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    Nope, I plan to have at least 6 boyfriends this year and at least 250 dates. I also want to have at least 5 one night stands and 3 FWB. Just no marriage or babies- yet.

    You got it all figured out eh??
  • hurleycutie142
    hurleycutie142 Posts: 479 Member
    ive honestly given up on dating and everything that has to do with guys... im going to spend my year getting bathing suit ready so i can be more confident... i lack so much i understand why all the guys ive dated have turned away.... im insecure and its obvious now...
  • nickyfm
    nickyfm Posts: 1,214 Member
    After my ex cheated on me in 2012, I'm stoked tone single for 2013 :drinker:

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