gained weight????

hey all had a really bad 4 weeks! i gained a few lbs as ive been extremly ill because of flu, im asthmatic so could not do any exercise while ill with this and ate what ever my partner put infront of me as i was too sick to get up and make something healthy. still not 100% but started the 30ds again but seems like i have even more to try and lose now. i am not a big girl but my middle is wobbly and out of propertion due to a illness that hospitalized me last year and im findin myself feeling depressed. could really do with some support as my friends family and partner all keep saying i dont need to lose weight because i look cute with my belly...i dont want to be that girl and feel like they are not supporting me enough as they do not realise how much being how i used to be means to me...please any advice?