question for the guys

jend114
jend114 Posts: 1,058 Member
Do you think flowers are pointless? Would you buy a girl flowers even if you thought they were if she liked them?
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  • SVCat
    SVCat Posts: 1,483 Member
    Flowers given as a "just because" are the best gift...IMO.
  • DMZ_1
    DMZ_1 Posts: 2,889 Member
    Not pointless, but not frequently given.
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    I wouldn't even know what to do with them... I'd prefer food instead!
  • cinsuccess
    cinsuccess Posts: 333 Member
    Personally I don't like it when a guy brings me flowers because I feel like its impersonal. Anyone can stop at a store and pick up a bunch of flowers. I'd rather he wait until he really gets to know me and then give me something that really truly reminds him of me. That way I know I'm special to him.
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    Flowers are pointless.

    I prefer bacon.
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    I love flowers. Buy for me anytime......lol......if not, I usually buy for myself :bigsmile:
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    I wouldn't even know what to do with them... I'd prefer food instead!

    Ponch, the question was: would you BUY them for your G/F if you knew she liked them?? :bigsmile:

    And, you just put them in water..........in a vase..........or some kind or receptacle .........and smell them..........and look at them.......lol
  • christine24t
    christine24t Posts: 6,063 Member
    I would love it if a guy got me flowers. I was always so jealous when my roommate's boyfriend would get them for her.
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    I love flowers and buy them for the center of the table...it's just something bright and cheery that I enjoy.

    Receiving flowers from a man as a "just because" is the best....they are a beautiful reminder each time I pass by them of the man that gave them to me. It's not necessary for Valentine's Day, but nice.....but, I'm the type of woman that loves any kind of flower. It doesn't have to be expensive. As far as what to do with them....pick up a bouquet and hand them to your g/f....she'll know what to do with them. If you want to do more, go to the florist and have them put it together in a vase (although you save money and still keep the sentiment with the bouquet). :)
  • jenj1313
    jenj1313 Posts: 898 Member
    Flowers are pointless.

    I prefer bacon.

    Normally, I'd agree, but I did get awesome flowers once.... look up my post in the "best date ever" thread if you're interested... I don't want to bore everyone again here. The point though, is that they were awesome b/c the arrangement was made just for me and centered around something that was a huge pass time of mine (mountain biking)... now you KNOW you want to go read it ;-)

    But flowers made of bacon would be AWESOME!

    edited for grammar
  • RosscoBoscko
    RosscoBoscko Posts: 632 Member
    Yeah buy flowers but have a bunch made specifically in a florist, not just pick up a pre-made or even worse petrol station/supermarket bunch.

    Choose her favourite flower if you know this and or her favourite colours.
  • lacroyx
    lacroyx Posts: 5,754 Member
    Flowers are pointless.

    I prefer bacon.
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  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    Yeah buy flowers but have a bunch made specifically in a florist, not just pick up a pre-made or even worse petrol station/supermarket bunch.

    I dont mind where they come from, it's the thought that counts :flowerforyou:
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    Flowers are pointless.

    I prefer bacon.
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    OMG! I really can't see the obsession with bacon that you guys have, but edible flowers appeal too :flowerforyou:
  • kristen6022
    kristen6022 Posts: 1,923 Member
    Flowers are pointless.

    I prefer bacon.
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    OMG! I really can't see the obsession with bacon that you guys have, but edible flowers appeal too :flowerforyou:

    Another American thing...too bad British Bacon is SOOO much better.

    OP - Flowers die, chocolate make me fat, but loading and unloading the dishwasher makes me weak in the knees...
  • RosscoBoscko
    RosscoBoscko Posts: 632 Member
    Yeah buy flowers but have a bunch made specifically in a florist, not just pick up a pre-made or even worse petrol station/supermarket bunch.

    I dont mind where they come from, it's the thought that counts :flowerforyou:

    Yeah I didn't word that very well, meant as in have them made especially not just a random bunch bought.
  • VTXJOCKEY
    VTXJOCKEY Posts: 362 Member
    Absolutely!!
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    Flowers are pointless.

    I prefer bacon.
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    Marry me! :love: :love: :love: :love:
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    OMG! I really can't see the obsession with bacon that you guys have, but edible flowers appeal too :flowerforyou:

    LOL, that's because you can't SEE delicious :laugh:
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    I wouldn't even know what to do with them... I'd prefer food instead!

    Ponch, the question was: would you BUY them for your G/F if you knew she liked them?? :bigsmile:

    And, you just put them in water..........in a vase..........or some kind or receptacle .........and smell them..........and look at them.......lol

    I was thinking about food when I posted that.
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    I wouldn't even know what to do with them... I'd prefer food instead!

    Ponch, the question was: would you BUY them for your G/F if you knew she liked them?? :bigsmile:

    And, you just put them in water..........in a vase..........or some kind or receptacle .........and smell them..........and look at them.......lol

    I was thinking about food when I posted that.

    Want one of my bacon flowers?

    Just one.
  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    I wouldn't even know what to do with them... I'd prefer food instead!

    Ponch, the question was: would you BUY them for your G/F if you knew she liked them?? :bigsmile:

    And, you just put them in water..........in a vase..........or some kind or receptacle .........and smell them..........and look at them.......lol

    I was thinking about food when I posted that.

    Want one of my bacon flowers?

    Just one.

    Haha.... here we go, I hate bacon!! I usually eat steak or sausage links with my breakfast. It's not my fault though, my mom constantly F'ed bacon up when I was a kid and I just gave up on it.

    Thanks for the offer though!
  • pammbroo
    pammbroo Posts: 550 Member
    LOVE, LOVE, LOVE flowers. And if a gentleman was kind enough to give them to me "just because", I would be VERY appreciative. lol
  • Danielle_2013
    Danielle_2013 Posts: 806 Member
    I like plants more personally. My ex used to get me orchids (my favorite flower) from time to time. They last for months and months..
  • jenbit
    jenbit Posts: 4,252 Member
    Ive never gotten flowers that werent from my Daddy lol..... However I remember that every year when my parents were together my dad would buy mom some for their annivesery always adding one more a year lol.....



    If my speeling is all messed up sorry I'm on vicodin
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    I like plants more personally. My ex used to get me orchids (my favorite flower) from time to time. They last for months and months..

    I got a plant once. My cats ate it
    8|
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    Ive never gotten flowers that werent from my Daddy lol..... However I remember that every year when my parents were together my dad would buy mom some for their annivesery always adding one more a year lol.....



    If my speeling is all messed up sorry I'm on vicodin

    OMGLOL
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    Yeah buy flowers but have a bunch made specifically in a florist, not just pick up a pre-made or even worse petrol station/supermarket bunch.

    I dont mind where they come from, it's the thought that counts :flowerforyou:

    Yeah I didn't word that very well, meant as in have them made especially not just a random bunch bought.

    Nothing wrong with a random or pre-made bunch, just because. As long as they're not dying. :)
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    Yeah buy flowers but have a bunch made specifically in a florist, not just pick up a pre-made or even worse petrol station/supermarket bunch.

    I dont mind where they come from, it's the thought that counts :flowerforyou:

    Yeah I didn't word that very well, meant as in have them made especially not just a random bunch bought.

    Nothing wrong with a random or pre-made bunch, just because. As long as they're not dying. :)

    What if the flowers wilting and dying was a poetic representation of how he would feel if you ever left him?

    O_________O
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    Yeah buy flowers but have a bunch made specifically in a florist, not just pick up a pre-made or even worse petrol station/supermarket bunch.

    I dont mind where they come from, it's the thought that counts :flowerforyou:

    Yeah I didn't word that very well, meant as in have them made especially not just a random bunch bought.

    Nothing wrong with a random or pre-made bunch, just because. As long as they're not dying. :)

    What if the flowers wilting and dying was a poetic representation of how he would feel if you ever left him?

    O_________O

    Well.....That's a whole different story.... thoughts to ponder....