question for the guys

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  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    Where I work the owner of the company brings in flowers for all the girls on Valentines day. Every year sure enough I take the flowers, thank him, and then forget them in my car until I remember to throw them away.

    A few weeks ago I had a really bad day and a friend of mine bought me LIME GREEN flowers to cheer me up - I appreciated the gesture for what it was... but only because she's a vegetarian and wouldn't have felt right getting me bacon Hahahaha!
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member
    Flowers are pointless.

    I prefer bacon.

    This. Expect a bacon sandwich instead of flowers.
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    Flowers are pointless.

    I prefer bacon.

    This. Expect a bacon sandwich instead of flowers.

    Don't care as long as it's BACON <3
  • _SABOTEUR_
    _SABOTEUR_ Posts: 6,833 Member
    I always find flowers depressing. Why buy something that is basically dead so someone can put it in a vase and watch them rot.
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    I will also accept potatoes.

    http://www.bash.org/?151227
  • jkandktmom
    jkandktmom Posts: 1,010 Member
    I always find flowers depressing. Why buy something that is basically dead so someone can put it in a vase and watch them rot.

    That is throughly depressing.
  • RunIntheMud
    RunIntheMud Posts: 2,645 Member
    I always find flowers depressing. Why buy something that is basically dead so someone can put it in a vase and watch them rot.

    But....some flowers last for weeks and even up to a month....

    And, have you ever watched a rose bloom? Even watching it die is beautiful.... Not so depressing....
  • Moe4572
    Moe4572 Posts: 1,428 Member
    It is, as others have said, the thought behind getting the flowers that count. I am not a "flower person" per se, but a guy always gets extra points for thinking to get them
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
    You could realy insert anything here for flowers.

    [Guys, Gals] Do you think __________ is/are pointless? Would you buy a [someone] _____________even if you thought they were if s/he liked them?


    Being able to answer yes to this question (filling in the blanks for whatever makes your partner happy/joyful/turned on) is the foundation of any great long term relationship. This is the core tenant of many marriage and relationship books I have read.
  • AnnaPixie
    AnnaPixie Posts: 7,439 Member
    I always find flowers depressing. Why buy something that is basically dead so someone can put it in a vase and watch them rot.

    I hear what you're saying but, that's like saying Autumn (fall) is depressing!! Flowers bloom and then they die, it's the natural order of things. Enjoy them while they are alive and look pretty :flowerforyou:
  • oualum26
    oualum26 Posts: 128 Member
    As a girl who has never got flowers in her life from the opposite sex, I'd love flowers.

    It's not a big thing, but just once, I'd like to see a delivery man come to my work and see this big, beautiful bouquet of flowers, and have them be for me.
  • JanieJack
    JanieJack Posts: 3,831 Member
    I always find flowers depressing. Why buy something that is basically dead so someone can put it in a vase and watch them rot.


    Part of the beauty of flowers is that they are not dead. they are very much alive. They'll die after awhile, but technically they are alive. Depending on the flowers, it's just hard for me to find that life, light, and beauty anywhere else. Except maybe a gorgeous sunrise or sunset.

    Oh, and regarding flowers, does anyone else hate that most flowers at the florist/grocery store/wherever these days do NOT smell pretty? Especially roses? When I was younger, roses used to smell fabulous. Nowadays they look good but no pretty rose smell.