Guys, how do you feel when women...........
AnnaPixie
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..........take the initiative when it comes to sex?
Turn on?
Turn off?
Nice sometimes?
You prefer to take the lead?
How about if this woman is a FWB? Does it put you under pressure if she is always going on about your 'hard c0ck'? Would you prefer to be known for your mental agility or physical prowess?
Does it make you feel wanted? Or emasculated?
Be honest now.........are you turned on or off by a woman that only wants one thing!!???........
Turn on?
Turn off?
Nice sometimes?
You prefer to take the lead?
How about if this woman is a FWB? Does it put you under pressure if she is always going on about your 'hard c0ck'? Would you prefer to be known for your mental agility or physical prowess?
Does it make you feel wanted? Or emasculated?
Be honest now.........are you turned on or off by a woman that only wants one thing!!???........
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Sometimes is great as long as it's not all the time. I don't want to feel like I'm being dominated but I also don't want to feel like I'm sleeping with a dead fish.0
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I agree with Roadie. Its ok if they innitiate it or sugest it... But there needs to be some sort of ballance.
I definately prefer to take the lead.
If it was an FWB and the relationship is clearly defined, then It wouldent bother me at all if shed rather talk about my "hard c0ck" over anything else. It would make me feel wanted over emasculated. And yea, I would be turned on by a woman that only wants one thing... but I wouldent look for anything more from her.0 -
I like variety. I am not intimidated by a woman that has a strong sexual drive. As long as we aren't stuck following same routine, then I am more than happy letting her be the agressor.
I have a friend that only texts me when she needs me to come over, I have zero problem with being her booty call. I'm just glad I can help her out. ; )0 -
I like variety. I am not intimidated by a woman that has a strong sexual drive. As long as we aren't stuck following same routine, then I am more than happy letting her be the agressor.
I have a friend that only texts me when she needs me to come over, I have zero problem with being her booty call. I'm just glad I can help her out. ; )
and that sir makes you a true friend lol0 -
I've dated both. One who initiated a lot and one who never did. I like the aggressive, strong sexual drive. The one that never did anything, I got the vibe she just didn't find me attractive which why in the long run, didn't work out.0
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I'm all for it, this is the 21 century.0
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personally not a guy but I would think if he had to initate all the time he would get a little bored..... Atleast let him know you want to "play" lol......0
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if he had to initate all the time he would get a little bored..... Atleast let him know you want to "play" lol......
NAILED IT!0 -
if he had to initate all the time he would get a little bored..... Atleast let him know you want to "play" lol......
NAILED IT!
Thats what she said ...... sorry couldn't help myself lol0 -
Again - female perspective intruding... but it should be a two way street. I don't mind initiating, as long as I'm not the only one initiating time after time. Been there... it was no bueno. (Was going to say it sucked, but situation involved no sucking what so ever. Yet another problem!)0
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I've dated both. One who initiated a lot and one who never did. I like the aggressive, strong sexual drive. The one that never did anything, I got the vibe she just didn't find me attractive which why in the long run, didn't work out.
I think this would be true for both genders. If I had to initiate all the time I'd think he didnt find me attractive either
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I have a friend that only texts me when she needs me to come over, I have zero problem with being her booty call. I'm just glad I can help her out. ; )
You're a public servant SV....lol
What does she say when she invites you over?? Is it subtle like "what you up to, I want to see you" or more direct "come over I wanna fu(k".
A FWB that I had would never mention the word sex..........lol It would always be subtle. I think men may be more romantic than women sometimes!!! lol0 -
Again - female perspective intruding... but it should be a two way street. I don't mind initiating, as long as I'm not the only one initiating time after time. Been there... it was no bueno. (Was going to say it sucked, but situation involved no sucking what so ever. Yet another problem!)
Do you think he had a low sex drive? lazy? Turned off by you initiating? Stressed at work?
This wasn't Mr Schitzo was it?? lol0 -
personally not a guy but I would think if he had to initate all the time he would get a little bored..... Atleast let him know you want to "play" lol......
Sorry Jen, female input always required even thought I asked the guys. It's true to say that women sleep with more guys than guys do, so have a broader experience too
for example, my ex used to hate being come on to as soon as he walked through the door from work. He'd have to chill out for a while first.......!0 -
Bring it.0
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I have a friend that only texts me when she needs me to come over, I have zero problem with being her booty call. I'm just glad I can help her out. ; )
You're a public servant SV....lol
What does she say when she invites you over?? Is it subtle like "what you up to, I want to see you" or more direct "come over I wanna fu(k".
A FWB that I had would never mention the word sex..........lol It would always be subtle. I think men may be more romantic than women sometimes!!! lol
FFWB would literally text do you want t fuk sometimes ...... Then theres the oh so subtle come over and "hang out" or the one that I'm the queen of hey come out to the bar with me lol0 -
Bring it.
when do I pick you up from the airport? :laugh:0 -
for me abit of both, i like to initiate it sometimes, and then sometimes i like to be the one who is told what to do haha! just like to keep things fresh and mix it up once in a while to keep things exciting!
Not been on here in a while, i hope everyone is well!0 -
I agree that it should be a two way street. Nobody wants to be the aggressor all of the time. It eats away at the ego of the aggressor.0
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Again - female perspective intruding... but it should be a two way street. I don't mind initiating, as long as I'm not the only one initiating time after time. Been there... it was no bueno. (Was going to say it sucked, but situation involved no sucking what so ever. Yet another problem!)
LMAO love it!0 -
if he had to initate all the time he would get a little bored..... Atleast let him know you want to "play" lol......
NAILED IT!
I agree... I think both men and women should initiate... even if the women doesn't want to jump the man, showing she is in a playful mood is usually enough for a man! In my experience anyways.0 -
Yeah, this seems accurate to me too. Guess it all depends on the people though.A FWB that I had would never mention the word sex..........lol It would always be subtle. I think men may be more romantic than women sometimes!!! lol0 -
even if the women doesn't want to jump the man, showing she is in a playful mood is usually enough for a man!
I've heard that guys want women to initiate sex, but I wonder if this is like when guys say the woman should initiate convo/asking her out but they don't really mean "ask me out." What they really mean is she should make eye contact, smile, make gentle chit-chat that encourages him to keep the convo going, touch their arm as they talk.0 -
even if the women doesn't want to jump the man, showing she is in a playful mood is usually enough for a man!
I've heard that guys want women to initiate sex, but I wonder if this is like when guys say the woman should initiate convo/asking her out but they don't really mean "ask me out." What they really mean is she should make eye contact, smile, make gentle chit-chat that encourages him to keep the convo going, touch their arm as they talk.
I think I would agree with this.
With my experience with men, just rubbing their leg or back and even inching in on the man parts get them rallied up for sex....and short of jumping them, you initiated.
I personally would never ask a man out. Some cause I am shy, otherwise maybe I am old fashioned to start but I think what you said there is a great way to invite them to you with showing interest. Makes them feel safer to do it, if that's what they wanted to do.0 -
even if the women doesn't want to jump the man, showing she is in a playful mood is usually enough for a man!
I've heard that guys want women to initiate sex, but I wonder if this is like when guys say the woman should initiate convo/asking her out but they don't really mean "ask me out." What they really mean is she should make eye contact, smile, make gentle chit-chat that encourages him to keep the convo going, touch their arm as they talk.
I think I would agree with this.
With my experience with men, just rubbing their leg or back and even inching in on the man parts get them rallied up for sex....and short of jumping them, you initiated.
I personally would never ask a man out. Some cause I am shy, otherwise maybe I am old fashioned to start but I think what you said there is a great way to invite them to you with showing interest. Makes them feel safer to do it, if that's what they wanted to do.
I have pushed the man onto the bed, jumped on him and went all the way. He loved it.
But I'm also the girl that isn't afraid to approach/ask for number/ask out/etc.
Works for me *shrug*
That being said, I typically PREFER him to take the reins at some point. A good wrestling match can be fun too :devil:0 -
for me abit of both, i like to initiate it sometimes, and then sometimes i like to be the one who is told what to do haha! just like to keep things fresh and mix it up once in a while to keep things exciting!
Not been on here in a while, i hope everyone is well!
Hey Cliffy, nice to see you! :flowerforyou:0 -
even if the women doesn't want to jump the man, showing she is in a playful mood is usually enough for a man!
I've heard that guys want women to initiate sex, but I wonder if this is like when guys say the woman should initiate convo/asking her out but they don't really mean "ask me out." What they really mean is she should make eye contact, smile, make gentle chit-chat that encourages him to keep the convo going, touch their arm as they talk.
Quite a few guys have said they would love to be asked out by a woman. I think we've established that men like women to assert themselves at some point.........maybe just not ALL the time......0 -
I have a friend that only texts me when she needs me to come over, I have zero problem with being her booty call. I'm just glad I can help her out. ; )
You're a public servant SV....lol
What does she say when she invites you over?? Is it subtle like "what you up to, I want to see you" or more direct "come over I wanna fu(k".
A FWB that I had would never mention the word sex..........lol It would always be subtle. I think men may be more romantic than women sometimes!!! lol
It comes back to that variety thing I spoke about, yes...she keeps it interesting. At times she'll send a picture and says she's ready. Other times she is downright to the point. Sometimes she says she wants to "cuddle".0 -
A real question then...in man-cabulary....does "cuddle" mean sex and "my curves" mean boobs?0
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A real question then...in man-cabulary....does "cuddle" mean sex and "my curves" mean boobs?
In the world of NSA/FWB...Sex means: Let's cuddle, let's have lunch, Hi..what you doing?...pretty much anything you want to call it.
As for the "curves" who cares? You probably won't understand what I'm saying because I plan on being suffocated by the curves.0
