Mean breakups
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Eh, 'mean' has never been part of my romantic history.
-knock on wood-0 -
In high school, I broke up with a girl on her birthday. A few years later, we got back together. She pissed me off so bad that I walked out of a surprise birthday party she threw for me and broke up with her again.
Did she get the wrong flavor of ice cream? B*tch.
Hate it when that happens.... :grumble:
what did she do?
Nothing I care to share over the interwebz. It wasn't that bad but we were having problems because of immaturity and lack of communication. Oddly (or pathetically), we dated again a year later and were talking about getting married. I broke it off because I figured one of was likely to kill the other and I wasn't sure I would be the one standing trial. She's married now and doing well. We just weren't good for each other. It was way too hot or cold. Neither of us has ever met another person that could infuriate the other like we did.0 -
I walked in on her while she was riding a guy.0
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WOW, I feel bad for everyone...
Mine are miniscule and maybe not even 'bad'
1. (dated 5 months) dumped via text message after ignoring me for 2 days
2. (the gambling addict, dated 9 months) He told me he forced himself to see me and felt no joy -- all after finding out his secret
3. (saw this guy only 5 times) slept with him and got 'dumped' the next day0 -
I walked in on her while she was riding a guy.
See, I don't know how I'd react to that. I truly cannot even mentally put myself in that situation and imagine what I would do. That is awful.0 -
I walked in on her while she was riding a guy.
See, I don't know how I'd react to that. I truly cannot even mentally put myself in that situation and imagine what I would do. That is awful.
i'm so sorry that happened. I wouldn't know how to react either. Wait I do know how I would react, I would lose my sh%t , beat the crap out of him (and her) and end up in jail. :laugh:0 -
I walked in on her while she was riding a guy.
See, I don't know how I'd react to that. I truly cannot even mentally put myself in that situation and imagine what I would do. That is awful.
i'm so sorry that happened. I wouldn't know how to react either. Wait I do know how I would react, I would lose my sh%t , beat the crap out of him (and her) and end up in jail. :laugh:
I think I would say, "wow this is awkward. I just came back from the doctor where I found out I have [fill in the STD that scares her most]. I was worried I gave it to you. I guess now that probably isn't the case." Then lose your **** and end up in jail.0 -
I walked in on her while she was riding a guy.
See, I don't know how I'd react to that. I truly cannot even mentally put myself in that situation and imagine what I would do. That is awful.
i'm so sorry that happened. I wouldn't know how to react either. Wait I do know how I would react, I would lose my sh%t , beat the crap out of him (and her) and end up in jail. :laugh:
I think I would say, "wow this is awkward. I just came back from the doctor where I found out I have [fill in the STD that scares her most]. I was worried I gave it to you. I guess now that probably isn't the case." Then lose your **** and end up in jail.0 -
I walked in on her while she was riding a guy.
See, I don't know how I'd react to that. I truly cannot even mentally put myself in that situation and imagine what I would do. That is awful.
i'm so sorry that happened. I wouldn't know how to react either. Wait I do know how I would react, I would lose my sh%t , beat the crap out of him (and her) and end up in jail. :laugh:
I think I would say, "wow this is awkward. I just came back from the doctor where I found out I have [fill in the STD that scares her most]. I was worried I gave it to you. I guess now that probably isn't the case." Then lose your **** and end up in jail.
WTF. How does that just get explained away?0 -
I walked in on her while she was riding a guy.
See, I don't know how I'd react to that. I truly cannot even mentally put myself in that situation and imagine what I would do. That is awful.
i'm so sorry that happened. I wouldn't know how to react either. Wait I do know how I would react, I would lose my sh%t , beat the crap out of him (and her) and end up in jail. :laugh:
I think I would say, "wow this is awkward. I just came back from the doctor where I found out I have [fill in the STD that scares her most]. I was worried I gave it to you. I guess now that probably isn't the case." Then lose your **** and end up in jail.
WTF. How does that just get explained away?
WTF how can u deny being caught red handed?0 -
I walked in on her while she was riding a guy.
See, I don't know how I'd react to that. I truly cannot even mentally put myself in that situation and imagine what I would do. That is awful.
i'm so sorry that happened. I wouldn't know how to react either. Wait I do know how I would react, I would lose my sh%t , beat the crap out of him (and her) and end up in jail. :laugh:
I think I would say, "wow this is awkward. I just came back from the doctor where I found out I have [fill in the STD that scares her most]. I was worried I gave it to you. I guess now that probably isn't the case." Then lose your **** and end up in jail.
WTF. How does that just get explained away?
WTF how can u deny being caught red handed?
Drugs, at least, that was her excuse. She claims she never even knew I was in the room.0 -
I walked in on her while she was riding a guy.
See, I don't know how I'd react to that. I truly cannot even mentally put myself in that situation and imagine what I would do. That is awful.
i'm so sorry that happened. I wouldn't know how to react either. Wait I do know how I would react, I would lose my sh%t , beat the crap out of him (and her) and end up in jail. :laugh:
I think I would say, "wow this is awkward. I just came back from the doctor where I found out I have [fill in the STD that scares her most]. I was worried I gave it to you. I guess now that probably isn't the case." Then lose your **** and end up in jail.
WTF. How does that just get explained away?
WTF how can u deny being caught red handed?
Drugs, at least, that was her excuse. She claims she never even knew I was in the room.
Um. I think she would have to claim she didn't even know HE was in the room.0 -
I walked in on her while she was riding a guy.
See, I don't know how I'd react to that. I truly cannot even mentally put myself in that situation and imagine what I would do. That is awful.
i'm so sorry that happened. I wouldn't know how to react either. Wait I do know how I would react, I would lose my sh%t , beat the crap out of him (and her) and end up in jail. :laugh:
I think I would say, "wow this is awkward. I just came back from the doctor where I found out I have [fill in the STD that scares her most]. I was worried I gave it to you. I guess now that probably isn't the case." Then lose your **** and end up in jail.
WTF. How does that just get explained away?
WTF how can u deny being caught red handed?
Drugs, at least, that was her excuse. She claims she never even knew I was in the room.
Um. I think she would have to claim she didn't even know HE was in the room.
lol yeah! sounds like she was saying, i'm sorry you found out, not sorry for being a HO!
and drugs? Ain't nobody got time for that!
That's one of my top deal breakers!0 -
I walked in on her while she was riding a guy.
See, I don't know how I'd react to that. I truly cannot even mentally put myself in that situation and imagine what I would do. That is awful.
i'm so sorry that happened. I wouldn't know how to react either. Wait I do know how I would react, I would lose my sh%t , beat the crap out of him (and her) and end up in jail. :laugh:
I think I would say, "wow this is awkward. I just came back from the doctor where I found out I have [fill in the STD that scares her most]. I was worried I gave it to you. I guess now that probably isn't the case." Then lose your **** and end up in jail.
WTF. How does that just get explained away?
WTF how can u deny being caught red handed?
Drugs, at least, that was her excuse. She claims she never even knew I was in the room.
Um. I think she would have to claim she didn't even know HE was in the room.
lol yeah! sounds like she was saying, i'm sorry you found out, not sorry for being a HO!
and drugs? Ain't nobody got time for that!
That's one of my top deal breakers!
Yep, mine too.0 -
I was played, plain and simple, by a master manipulator and pathological liar. Story goes something like this.
We had been together for a while, on nearly a daily basis. I noted that some girls on his FB (one in particular) were being really raunchily flirty and I didn't like it. He said it was nothing, harmless, that he loved me, promised to marry me, etc. After seeing a conversation on his FB, she stalked me and saw that he was in a relationship with me and she blew up. Started copy/pasting all these messages between him and her about them getting married and having kids and etc. (though they had never met). I should have left then. Mistake #1. Instead we talked it out, and decided to try again.
A month later we go to see our respective families for the holidays. During this I find out that he's been with two other women (that I know about) while he was there with his family. Again, I should have gave up and walked away. Mistake #2. I did pack up the stuff I had at his place and told him I needed sometime to figure out if I could forgive him or not.
24 hours later he's on the phone with me, saying that he can't be fair to me, etc, while simultaneously changing his FB status to being in a relationship with the chick from Mistake #1.
I decide to tell HER everything, figure she needs to know what she's getting in to. He then threatens to sue me for defamation.
A month later he's in the hospital and begging me to come take care of him. Uh... no.0 -
I was played, plain and simple, by a master manipulator and pathological liar. Story goes something like this.
We had been together for a while, on nearly a daily basis. I noted that some girls on his FB (one in particular) were being really raunchily flirty and I didn't like it. He said it was nothing, harmless, that he loved me, promised to marry me, etc. After seeing a conversation on his FB, she stalked me and saw that he was in a relationship with me and she blew up. Started copy/pasting all these messages between him and her about them getting married and having kids and etc. (though they had never met). I should have left then. Mistake #1. Instead we talked it out, and decided to try again.
A month later we go to see our respective families for the holidays. During this I find out that he's been with two other women (that I know about) while he was there with his family. Again, I should have gave up and walked away. Mistake #2. I did pack up the stuff I had at his place and told him I needed sometime to figure out if I could forgive him or not.
24 hours later he's on the phone with me, saying that he can't be fair to me, etc, while simultaneously changing his FB status to being in a relationship with the chick from Mistake #1.
I decide to tell HER everything, figure she needs to know what she's getting in to. He then threatens to sue me for defamation.
A month later he's in the hospital and begging me to come take care of him. Uh... no.
wow. I have learned to listen to people when they show you who they really are the first time around.
fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.0 -
WTF. How does that just get explained away?
Disclaimer: drugs are bad. Shoo shoo!0 -
WTF. How does that just get explained away?
Disclaimer: drugs are bad. Shoo shoo!
"apparently" he says.
You aren't fooling me!0 -
I've only had one *terrible* break-up. He was my "first love".
I got a job at a gym my junior year of High School... I started dating a personal trainer from there. He was a bit older than me, but wee dated through my senior year. One weekend he went camping with his friends. I hadn't heard from him alllll weekend, and I wasn't really angry, just a little worried. My Grandpa ended up getting really sick and was admitted to the hospital. My boyfriend came home... My Grandpa started doing better... But on the day I graduated High School, my Grandpa passed away. We got the call at my graduation party. Boyfriend was really supportive and blah blah blah.
Well, after the funeral, we were sitting at the luncheon and my boyfriend kept texting someone and eventually asked if we could talk privately. So he took me aside and started telling me how this girl we worked with had come up to hang out with him and his friends the weekend he was camping. This girl had always made me really uncomfortable because of how she would be hanging all over him, but I'm not really the jealous type so I didn't say anything. So he told me that they had hooked up and that he was having doubts about us and that we should take some time apart. He wanted to tell me right when he got back, but didn't because my Grandpa was sick. Suuuuper sensitive guy... Waited until the funeral. Bless his heart.
He then took out his phone to read a text and told me he had to go and was going to hang out with this girl.
Under any other circumstances, I would have gouged his eyes out and fed them to him. But obviously my mind was elsewhere.0 -
Sam, I could swear people like that aren't real. It just blows my mind0