starting again. In need of some support
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kiku76
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Hi everyone.
I have read everything, and *think* I have a good grasp on it. I was doing well before, didn't see changes, but I wasn't starving so I was happy.
I fell off the diet wagon, gained a few pounds. This month I'm bad to running and lifting. I had my calories set at 1400 but OMG I'm so hungry.
I calculated my BMR and TDEE-20% and got 1407 and 1745. I reset my calories and I'm ready to eat more.
One question, I am nursing my son, but he's 2 now (yes, I know he needs to wean-I'm waiting for summer when I don't have to get up early and he can cry it out all night if he wants) He only nurses a few times a day, but should I add in extra calories because of it?
I'm looking for some support to keep my on track if my weight starts to go back up and I freak out.
Thanks for reading.
I have read everything, and *think* I have a good grasp on it. I was doing well before, didn't see changes, but I wasn't starving so I was happy.
I fell off the diet wagon, gained a few pounds. This month I'm bad to running and lifting. I had my calories set at 1400 but OMG I'm so hungry.
I calculated my BMR and TDEE-20% and got 1407 and 1745. I reset my calories and I'm ready to eat more.
One question, I am nursing my son, but he's 2 now (yes, I know he needs to wean-I'm waiting for summer when I don't have to get up early and he can cry it out all night if he wants) He only nurses a few times a day, but should I add in extra calories because of it?
I'm looking for some support to keep my on track if my weight starts to go back up and I freak out.
Thanks for reading.
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I'm curious about this one too as I'm nursing my 8-month old a few times a day. I haven't taken that into account; maybe I should....One question, I am nursing my son, but he's 2 now (yes, I know he needs to wean-I'm waiting for summer when I don't have to get up early and he can cry it out all night if he wants) He only nurses a few times a day, but should I add in extra calories because of it?...
Good luck on your journey!
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Yes, add in when needed. MFP even has several estimates out there nursing mom's use.
And it's added on to the day like a workout, not added to the TDEE and then deficit taken.
Baby don't need a deficit.0 -
Yes, add in when needed. MFP even has several estimates out there nursing mom's use.
And it's added on to the day like a workout, not added to the TDEE and then deficit taken.
Baby don't need a deficit.
huh? I am confused now. sorry.
So I add something like 200 calories (I still have to check) to which number? my TDEE is 2181 and with a deficit it's 1745. So I should be eating 1945 calories a day?
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Your TDEE is based on exact daily exercise, or you entered in your weekly routine and got a daily avg?
So what is your eating level based on, exact daily routine, or weekly routine averaged out daily?
Gotta understand the concept to have success with this, or you won't understand eating correctly for your level of activity.
Reread what I said, pretty simple concept for the feeding baby aspect, which has nothing to do with workouts.
The reference to workouts is the fact it'll increase your daily goal by that amount. I'm assuming you've seen what happens to your daily goal when you add a workout.0 -
I didn't know MFP had those estimates.Yes, add in when needed. MFP even has several estimates out there nursing mom's use.
And it's added on to the day like a workout, not added to the TDEE and then deficit taken.
Baby don't need a deficit.
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Your TDEE is based on exact daily exercise, or you entered in your weekly routine and got a daily avg?
So what is your eating level based on, exact daily routine, or weekly routine averaged out daily?
Gotta understand the concept to have success with this, or you won't understand eating correctly for your level of activity.
Reread what I said, pretty simple concept for the feeding baby aspect, which has nothing to do with workouts.
The reference to workouts is the fact it'll increase your daily goal by that amount. I'm assuming you've seen what happens to your daily goal when you add a workout.
I got my TDEE for the calculators
I think it's an average right?
I went and reread the stickies on BMR and TDEE. As I understand it, but I could be compltely wrong, your TDEE should be your BMR plus what you burn off when you exercise? So my BMR is 1407. I burned off about 400 x5 a week. So shouldn't my TDEE be closer to 1800 (without a deficit)0 -
I got my TDEE for the calculators I think it's an average right?
I went and reread the stickies on BMR and TDEE. As I understand it, but I could be compltely wrong, your TDEE should be your BMR plus what you burn off when you exercise? So my BMR is 1407. I burned off about 400 x5 a week. So shouldn't my TDEE be closer to 1800 (without a deficit)
Correct, avg of the weekly exercise spread out (hrs or days per week, right?). Which means it's the same for the eating level too.
Incorrect, your TDEE is not ONLY BMR plus exercise calories. Whole lot more than that.0 -
TDEE includes not just exercise but what you burn just during your daily activities. BMR is what you'd burn if you stayed in bed all day.0
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thanks. im embarrassed to say i'm still a little confused.
i understand bmr and tdee, but the deficit things loses me a little. i shouldnt go below 1407 (bmr) right? so if i burn about 400 a day, i shoukd really be eating about 1800? so what about the days i dont work out?0 -
Confusing isn't it? I'm not sure what you know and don't know so I'll break it down a bit:
If you work out three times a week and burn 700 calories a week...then your TDEE isn't your BMR plus 100 calories a day [Example]. Meaning your TDEE isn't your BMR plus exercise. When you put in your activity level [sedentary, moderate ect.] there is a lot that goes into the formula. If you work out five times a week your level is probably moderate. You figure this out from a TDEE calculator; they're all pretty similar. With this TDEE number you don't need to add or subtract in your exercise because it's all factored into the lifestyle that you chose.
In answer to your first question yes you need to eat more if you're nursing. I would put a little research into how many calories go into producing breastmilk. This would raise your TDEE and then you can do cuts from there.
In answer to your last post, correct. I'm not sure of your stats or what your TDEE cut is but at a minimum you should be eating your BMR calories net [which means that you eat back exercise calories]. [This is not Eat more 2 Weigh Less strategy]
I'm only responding to you from the Eat More to Weigh Less point of view. What I mean for a TDEE cut is that EM2WL says that you should cut between 10-20percent of your TDEE to lose weight and no lower. So if your TDEE is 2200 calories a day then a 10% cut [if you have 5-20lbs to lose] would be 1980 calories a day and a 20 percent cut [for more to lose] would be 1760 calories a day.0 -
Confusing isn't it? I'm not sure what you know and don't know so I'll break it down a bit:
If you work out three times a week and burn 700 calories a week...then your TDEE isn't your BMR plus 100 calories a day [Example]. Meaning your TDEE isn't your BMR plus exercise. When you put in your activity level [sedentary, moderate ect.] there is a lot that goes into the formula. If you work out five times a week your level is probably moderate. You figure this out from a TDEE calculator; they're all pretty similar. With this TDEE number you don't need to add or subtract in your exercise because it's all factored into the lifestyle that you chose.
In answer to your first question yes you need to eat more if you're nursing. I would put a little research into how many calories go into producing breastmilk. This would raise your TDEE and then you can do cuts from there.
In answer to your last post, correct. I'm not sure of your stats or what your TDEE cut is but at a minimum you should be eating your BMR calories net [which means that you eat back exercise calories]. [This is not Eat more 2 Weigh Less strategy]
I'm only responding to you from the Eat More to Weigh Less point of view. What I mean for a TDEE cut is that EM2WL says that you should cut between 10-20percent of your TDEE to lose weight and no lower. So if your TDEE is 2200 calories a day then a 10% cut [if you have 5-20lbs to lose] would be 1980 calories a day and a 20 percent cut [for more to lose] would be 1760 calories a day.
thanks for breaking it down for me.
Are you supposed to eat less on the days that you don't work out, or is it still the same (about 1700 calories)?0 -
Same every day. May I ask where you're getting the 1700 from? Did you use a TDEE calculator?0
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Same every day. May I ask where you're getting the 1700 from? Did you use a TDEE calculator?
I used the one linked in the stickies. and I just found Heybales spreadsheet and got about the same thing.
One gave me 1745 and the other 17800 -
Is that with or without a cut?0
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with.0
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Okay that makes more sense. Good luck! Try 1760 :]0
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Same every day. May I ask where you're getting the 1700 from? Did you use a TDEE calculator?
I used the one linked in the stickies. and I just found Heybales spreadsheet and got about the same thing.
One gave me 1745 and the other 1780
Good, so the spreadsheet instructions under Your Results spell out exactly what to change where. And visually seeing it there should help understand what is happening. Change your workout schedule and see what happens to the TDEE and TDEG.
The only addition for you is the food item called "Breast Feeding - Exclusively Nursing" which is negative calories, so when you add that to the day, you get 500 more calories to eat.
You could also create your own food item with less negative calories if you are told a different value, or a per hr value, ect.
Just create a food items for yourself with negative calories, no nutritional info though.0 -
oh sorry! I should have been more specific. My actual TDEE is around 2181.Okay that makes more sense. Good luck! Try 1760 :]
I ate well today and I still have about 600 calories left for dinner. I can see how it can be hard to make that many calories when you eat healthy. However, I could make that no problem eating nothing but crap. but that's not the way to go I guess.... 0 -
thanks. im embarrassed to say i'm still a little confused.
i understand bmr and tdee, but the deficit things loses me a little. i shouldnt go below 1407 (bmr) right? so if i burn about 400 a day, i shoukd really be eating about 1800? so what about the days i dont work out?
Don't complicate things.
Day 1 - Eat 1780 - burn 400 - net 1380
Day 2 - Eat 1780 - rest day - net 1780
avg net - 1580
Over your BMR.
No problem.
Big assumption too you are really burning 400. So that isn't even that big a deficit.0 -
thanks! that spreadsheet is immensely helpfulSame every day. May I ask where you're getting the 1700 from? Did you use a TDEE calculator?
I used the one linked in the stickies. and I just found Heybales spreadsheet and got about the same thing.
One gave me 1745 and the other 1780
Good, so the spreadsheet instructions under Your Results spell out exactly what to change where. And visually seeing it there should help understand what is happening. Change your workout schedule and see what happens to the TDEE and TDEG.
The only addition for you is the food item called "Breast Feeding - Exclusively Nursing" which is negative calories, so when you add that to the day, you get 500 more calories to eat.
You could also create your own food item with less negative calories if you are told a different value, or a per hr value, ect.
Just create a food items for yourself with negative calories, no nutritional info though.0
