I am a tramp.
Jennifer2387
Posts: 957 Member
Lol. So..cell phones and no sex for months are not a good combination!! I have been texting my date for tomorrow and now he is on his way over here now! OMG! Holy *kitten*!!
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I say there is nothing wrong with fulfilling your needs as long as you're okay with it at the end of the day! Have fun! :smokin:0
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Have fun!0
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If you are a tramp then I am a skank.
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Why wait for a date tomorrow, when you could have a night cap today?! :drinker:0
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Good for you! Nothing wrong with having some fun :bigsmile:0
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Yeah what everyone else said!0
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oOOOOOOOoooooo lucky guy!! :bigsmile:0
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Get SOME! :drinker:0
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Is this the same guy you got scared about dating on Weds and almost cancelled because of his text spelling? So funny! :laugh:
Well done Jennifer. We've all been there (a slight over-generalisation but what the hell :bigsmile: ). She who dares, wins :flowerforyou: Well, I sure hope so anyway.... news? :happy:0 -
Lorro is right-this needs an update!0
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Yeah missy you cant just leave us all hanging like this :grumble: we need to know what happened0
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Now I'm super curious! lol0
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To help entertain everyone while we wait, I cuddled with my dogs last night and played third wheel to my rookie and her date. :bigsmile:0
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She said it's been a long time. What makes you think she's finished with the lucky *kitten* yet? It's only been about 15 hours since she posted. Give it another 4 hours, well maybe 16 hours. She may need to sleep first.0
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To help entertain everyone while we wait, I cuddled with my dogs last night and played third wheel to my rookie and her date. :bigsmile:
I bet the dog gave you a little tongue. That's more than I got last night.0 -
Hahaha ... yes it is the same guy that I almost cancelled on! lol. It is so much easier to text someone than to be that brave in person. So he got here and I was a nervous wreck! It was a bit awkward at first, but then my kitty provided some much needed tension relief. We talked and flirted and held my hand. Then he ever so smoothly (not) lol .. put his arm around me and snuggled in. We were watching the Syracuse football game and then he kissed me. And kissed me and kissed me and kissed me :smooched: .. lol. We fooled around some :blushing: I didn't get to see the rest of the game ..lol. We didn't have sex though. I behaved ..somewhat. I love that feeling when he kisses you and it just grabs you inside and your belly tightens and jumps all at once. We are going to go to dinner tonight and I'm excited!
On a side note .. he is like the most musclely person I have ever dated. Like .. he is hard. You can feel the muscle in his arms and he isn't even flexing. I wonder what he sees in me .. I worry about that a bit.0 -
To help entertain everyone while we wait, I cuddled with my dogs last night and played third wheel to my rookie and her date. :bigsmile:
Where was Steve? Did I miss something????0 -
I am so happy for you, that sounds like so much fun. :bigsmile:I wonder what he sees in me .. I worry about that a bit.
Please do your best to let go of these negative feelings, they won't help you enjoy the moment! :flowerforyou:0 -
You can feel the muscle in his arms and he isn't even flexing. I wonder what he sees in me .. I worry about that a bit.
Don't, that mentality will only chase him away. Enjoy the rock hard abs, invite him over for laundry day 0 -
I'm glad it went so well!Hahaha ... yes it is the same guy that I almost cancelled on! lol. It is so much easier to text someone than to be that brave in person. So he got here and I was a nervous wreck! It was a bit awkward at first, but then my kitty provided some much needed tension relief. We talked and flirted and held my hand. Then he ever so smoothly (not) lol .. put his arm around me and snuggled in. We were watching the Syracuse football game and then he kissed me. And kissed me and kissed me and kissed me :smooched: .. lol. We fooled around some :blushing: I didn't get to see the rest of the game ..lol. We didn't have sex though. I behaved ..somewhat. I love that feeling when he kisses you and it just grabs you inside and your belly tightens and jumps all at once. We are going to go to dinner tonight and I'm excited!
On a side note .. he is like the most musclely person I have ever dated. Like .. he is hard. You can feel the muscle in his arms and he isn't even flexing. I wonder what he sees in me .. I worry about that a bit.
On the muscles, I know what you mean. It was only after doing 2 months of Jillian Michaels and running since joining MFP that I actually considered guys who self-described as having an athletic build. I just went for average, plus a few pounds (or more) before that because of my own insecurities. The new guy is also the most fit that I've dated and I similarly can feel hard muscles when he's not flexing. I have had the idea cross my mind of what he sees in me, but then I can think of x, y and z things that are uniquely me. I'm sure you have those things that are uniquely you too that are what he sees - and they don't have to be physical characteristics.
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I do not know why the suggestion of being intimate has to be equated with being in a relationship.
Many ladies insist this but few actually adhere to it.
Not an "attack" but an observation.
Let yourself have fun if that is what you want..0 -
This comment has me scratching my head a bit - did someone say intimacy equates with being in a relationship here and I missed it somehow or is that a general observation (outside of this thread)?I do not know why the suggestion of being intimate has to be equated with being in a relationship.
Many ladies insist this but few actually adhere to it.
Not an "attack" but an observation.
Let yourself have fun if that is what you want..0 -
I guess this would be the guys version of "Fifty Shades of Grey". Interesting read.0
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I do not know why the suggestion of being intimate has to be equated with being in a relationship.
Many ladies insist this but few actually adhere to it.
Not an "attack" but an observation.
Let yourself have fun if that is what you want..
I am a little confused too Carl. I am no where near relationship status here nor do I want to be..lol. I am one that has no qualms having sex whenever I want. I don't need a relationship for that..ha.0 -
I guess this would be the guys version of "Fifty Shades of Grey". Interesting read.
Ha! Sorry..just been on this board for a while and love most of these people and feel more comfortable sharing than I probably should!0 -
Oh! Did I also mention when he was getting ready to leave.. didn't he shove me against the door, grabbed my hair and kissed me..hard. talk about hot. Ok..carry on.0
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I do not know why the suggestion of being intimate has to be equated with being in a relationship.
Many ladies insist this but few actually adhere to it.
Not an "attack" but an observation.
Let yourself have fun if that is what you want..
I am a little confused too Carl. I am no where near relationship status here nor do I want to be..lol. I am one that has no qualms having sex whenever I want. I don't need a relationship for that..ha.
I probably could have worded it better in hindsight but what I meant was that the majority of ladies here have said that intimacy has to be held off until there is an emotional connection and commitment.
The reality though it seems is that most have the same view of having sex in the same way guys do...something for fun with no strings attached as well as part of being in a relationship.
I am not making a judgment but suggesting both really view sex in the same way despite things stated.0 -
I do not know why the suggestion of being intimate has to be equated with being in a relationship.
Many ladies insist this but few actually adhere to it.
Not an "attack" but an observation.
Let yourself have fun if that is what you want..
I am a little confused too Carl. I am no where near relationship status here nor do I want to be..lol. I am one that has no qualms having sex whenever I want. I don't need a relationship for that..ha.
I probably could have worded it better in hindsight but what I meant was that the majority of ladies here have said that intimacy has to be held off until there is an emotional connection and commitment.
The reality though it seems is that most have the same view of having sex in the same way guys do...something for fun with no strings attached as well as part of being in a relationship.
I am not making a judgment but suggesting both really view sex in the same way despite things stated.
Carl, you are right. Some girls have said they don't want sex until monogamy.
Some said "*kitten* it" (literally).
There's nothing to scratch your head about. While there are times someone says they want one thing, but the time comes they realize they might really want another, what's the big deal? There's nothing wrong with that. People are individuals and as long as they're all consenting adults then... well you get what you ask for 0 -
I do not know why the suggestion of being intimate has to be equated with being in a relationship.
Many ladies insist this but few actually adhere to it.
Not an "attack" but an observation.
Let yourself have fun if that is what you want..
I am a little confused too Carl. I am no where near relationship status here nor do I want to be..lol. I am one that has no qualms having sex whenever I want. I don't need a relationship for that..ha.
I probably could have worded it better in hindsight but what I meant was that the majority of ladies here have said that intimacy has to be held off until there is an emotional connection and commitment.
The reality though it seems is that most have the same view of having sex in the same way guys do...something for fun with no strings attached as well as part of being in a relationship.
I am not making a judgment but suggesting both really view sex in the same way despite things stated.
Carl, you are right. Some girls have said they don't want sex until monogamy.
Some said "*kitten* it" (literally).
There's nothing to scratch your head about. While there are times someone says they want one thing, but the time comes they realize they might really want another, what's the big deal? There's nothing wrong with that. People are individuals and as long as they're all consenting adults then... well you get what you ask for
Oh heavens no,there is no big deal in any way.
People just need to be honest to themselves about things.
That was the point I was trying to make,what anyone does in their life is not my concern and have to say that I have enjoyed a few times where ladies just did want to have fun. :bigsmile:0 -
Am I the only one who thoroughly enjoyed the line "my kitty provided some much needed tension relief"?
Muscles- strangely enough some incredibly athletic men with ridiculous muscles enjoy bigger, softer, less hard bodied women. Crazy, but true. Do not question this. Ever.
Carl- since when were women as a collective group, ever not confusing?
Even the ones with strong opinions reserve the right to change their minds...particularly when libido is involved..0
