I've been guilty....
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Was going to click on the link, but instead stared at your new "breast" pic for 2-3 minutes. Not sure if that proves or disproves anything in the article, since I didn't read it...
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It is quite nice isn't it?0 -
New "breast" pic? Eeeek...mine?
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New "breast" pic? Eeeek...mine?
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You're looking at me looking at your boobs. I'm so embarrassed.
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New "breast" pic? Eeeek...mine?
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You're looking at me looking at your boobs. I'm so embarrassed.
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No, I'M so embarrassed you caught me looking at you looking at my boobs and secretly liking it / being horrified I put them out there for you to look at!0 -
This article focuses heavily on false dichotomies. It stinks of a superiority complex.
It's so... contrived. Forced. Generalized.
Each person is different, and as such, their ideal match probably wouldn't be ideal for someone else. The problem lies not in how can we "fix" people for being who they are, but finding the puzzle piece.
I agree... the article implies that men are either needy/dependent (like a child) OR emotionally detached/insensitive (an *kitten*). There is a hell of a lot of grey - and men - in between that very black and white view of masculinity.
I haven't read the article and after reading a few posts here, I don't want to.
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I love men.
Each one is so different and deserves his own custom built relationship.
I love how they fill in all the areas where we fall short. I love how they have some kind of sixth sense that tells them, oh this is that moment where I step up and handle a situation. I love how the same things that affect them as babies are still the same easy to recognize things that affect them as adults - im jealous that it isnt the same for us girls.
When they are hungry, tired, sick, off their routine or need affection - they get goddamn cranky, and they are totally allowed.
Which is great because those are the 5 things we are excellent at taking care of. I dont feel it makes me a surrogate mom, I feel it makes me a woman.
We get cranky when we cant focus, cant find logic, cant sort out our emotions - or we feel threatened, vulnerable, exposed or helpless. We hate that crap.
Which is great, cause guess what men are great at?
Cutting through emotional BS and making you feel safe and capable.
HIGH FIVE TWO GENDERS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Since we are chatting about men and sex .. lol. How many women out there have an orgasm the first time you sleep with a guy? I can honestly say that I have never ever never had one the first time I have had sex with any guy. Not my husband, not my last boyfriend, nobody. Probably not even the second time. They think I do .. but I don't. Maybe it is a comfort level thing .. I mean I really really want to .. but I don't. Honest engine time ladies.
Only once. And he is now better known as 'the love of my life'!!
It was love at first sight too! 
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So...ahem,given what many have said is it safe to assume ladies do fake it much of the time?0
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So...ahem,given what many have said is it safe to assume ladies do fake it much of the time?
I can only speak for myself, but I dont see the point in faking it. I either have one or I dont. But I always usually enjoy myself regardless :bigsmile:0 -
So...ahem,given what many have said is it safe to assume ladies do fake it much of the time?
I faked it once so that I could kick him out sooner... it was awful.0 -
Yeah...I used to when I was I was younger at times. Somewhere along the way started feeling more selfish (in a good way) and figured out that I didn't have to put the male ego before my own satisfaction! I will NEVER fake it. However..I am a good teacher and have no expectations that anyone is just going to magically figure that out on their own with no assistance.0
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So...ahem,given what many have said is it safe to assume ladies do fake it much of the time?
When I first started bumping uglies I faked it. However now that I'm more confident in what I'm doing (and not 19) I dont fake it. IF he wants the noise and all the good stuff he's gonna make it happen just like my job is to make it happen for him :bigsmile:0 -
The male ego feels a lot better when it knows that the woman's satisfaction was genuine. Plus - as a man - you learn potentially reusable skills along the way.Yeah...I used to when I was I was younger at times. Somewhere along the way started feeling more selfish (in a good way) and figured out that I didn't have to put the male ego before my own satisfaction! I will NEVER fake it. However..I am a good teacher and have no expectations that anyone is just going to magically figure that out on their own with no assistance.
Not in MY experience. Ahahaha ohohoho uhuhuh! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:So...ahem,given what many have said is it safe to assume ladies do fake it much of the time?
*Ahem* Fun times. :ohwell:0 -
The male ego feels a lot better when it knows that the woman's satisfaction was genuine. Plus - as a man - you learn potentially reusable skills along the way.
I used to be a remarkable actress..0 -
of thinking that women expect too much from men these days and that I will inevitably have to choose between two different "types", ie. nice, emotionally available yet sexually boring guy or guy that will treat me emotionally like crap, but I just can't help wanting to have sex with and wanting to love anyway.
Just wanna say that not all "nice, treats you right" guys are sexually boring. No, those of you know me don't get shocked... BB and I haven't "gone there" yet but there's enough other fun we've had, indicators and discussion to conclude that he and I are both the same level of adventurous.
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