O.M.G....what was i thinking...
Daisy_Cutter_
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I just told this 23-year old guy I would go out with him tonight. Lmao!!!
He's sexy as hell...but so young!
He's sexy as hell...but so young!
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It depends on what you want.
23 year old guys who approach 40 year old women want just one thing out of the whole thing. If you are down with that, and it'll be a short duration, then go for it.0 -
It depends on what you want.
23 year old guys who approach 40 year old women want just one thing out of the whole thing. If you are down with that, and it'll be a short duration, then go for it.
Isn't that kind of generalizing?
Go for it Daisy! And if you don't like him pass him over to this 22-year old!0 -
It depends on what you want.
23 year old guys who approach 40 year old women want just one thing out of the whole thing. If you are down with that, and it'll be a short duration, then go for it.
I think that's quite a generalization. It's like saying every 23 year old woman who dates a 40 year old man is a gold digger.
Go out with the guy and enjoy yourself! Just don't break the poor boy's heart... :-)
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Well, you know what they say. To get over the other guy, get under this one!! As long as he's got pubes babe........lol :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:0
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I just told this 23-year old guy I would go out with him tonight. Lmao!!!
He's sexy as hell...but so young!
Stop worrying about arbitrary numbers, go have fun.0 -
I just told this 23-year old guy I would go out with him tonight. Lmao!!!
He's sexy as hell...but so young!
Stop worrying about arbitrary numbers, go have fun.
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DM is wrong a lot, despite his tendency to state all his opinions as ultimate fact truths.
It's a possibility, sure, but hold true to yourself and have fun with it
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I just told this 23-year old guy I would go out with him tonight. Lmao!!!
He's sexy as hell...but so young!
Stop worrying about arbitrary numbers, go have fun.
Yup, this! No need to stereotype the guy based on his age!0 -
Haha... oh my girly..... *sigh* oh my!!! lol have fun and don't stress on the age its good to sample flavors 0
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HAVE FUN!!!!!!0
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who cares how old he is...go have a great time.0
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Just get to know him and have some fun.
DM is right though, a 23 year old doesn't see a 40 year old as a potential serious mate.
Even though I'm not him him, I can only speak from personal experience. He just wants to have fun. In my experience with older woman.. it's pretty much a "money for sex" type of exchange. Meaning the woman buys the man dinner or drinks and she gets to sleep with him. It's a pretty sweet deal for both people!0 -
I just told this 23-year old guy I would go out with him tonight. Lmao!!!
He's sexy as hell...but so young!
Stop worrying about arbitrary numbers, go have fun.
^THIS!!!
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I'm 33 and any guy under 26 equals FUN! Have a good time!!0
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Not every young person into older adults is a shallow *kitten* user out for just money or sex.0
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OK...I had fun. He was super eager and just cute. He was nervous....I could tell. Anyway...he wants to call me so I might see him again. He IS young, but he was smart enough to make me laugh and he was sweet. Very nice guy....and yes, I'm sure the boobs lured him in. Lol0
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I'm 33 and any guy under 26 equals FUN! Have a good time!!
HOLY MOLY!! You're 33? I had thought you were barely 20... wow... lol Go you and everything that you're doing!
To the OP, nothing wrong with some change of pace, regardless of his intentions! The fact that he is attracted to you is more than enough to pounce on this, just have some reservations of actually how far this is going to go, you are on two different maturity levels....0 -
.and yes, I'm sure the boobs lured him in. Lol
They always do!0 -
*Sigh*Not every young person into older adults is a shallow *kitten* user out for just money or sex.0 -
. it's pretty much a "money for sex" type of exchange. Meaning the woman buys the man dinner or drinks and she gets to sleep with him. It's a pretty sweet deal for both people!
WTH are you on about?? I've never heard such tosh in all my life!! The WOMAN buys HIM dinner for SEX with HIM?? That's called an escort/gigalo Mike!! Actually, you'd make a good one of those if you're short of cash. You dont need to have feelings, morals or anything.......just a big c0ck! :laugh:
Lets get this right, ALL men want sex. A woman has no need whatsoever to buy him dinner for it!! No matter what age!!
Shells, glad you had a great time :flowerforyou:0 -
. it's pretty much a "money for sex" type of exchange. Meaning the woman buys the man dinner or drinks and she gets to sleep with him. It's a pretty sweet deal for both people!
WTH are you on about?? I've never heard such tosh in all my life!! The WOMAN buys HIM dinner for SEX with HIM?? That's called an escort/gigalo Mike!! Actually, you'd make a good one of those if you're short of cash. You dont need to have feelings, morals or anything.......just a big c0ck! :laugh:
Lets get this right, ALL men want sex. A woman has no need whatsoever to buy him dinner for it!! No matter what age!!
Shells, glad you had a great time :flowerforyou:
Anna thanks for this! I was too lazy to type it out so I was hoping someone chimed in.0 -
For the record....this will be nothing long-term. I know that. I don't want a relationship with this guy. He's fun and sexy and thinks he's the next Tom Cruise. Lol. It's fun being around a guy with such zest for life. Some of the guys I've gone out with already have one foot in the grave. Hearing him call me sexy and want to be close to me was a huge ego boost. But..like I said in one of the last topics (tongue-in-cheek of course) for a forty year old....I'm top-tier. Lol
I think I'm defying all the talk about divorced women in their 40s with children having a hard time finding dates. Seems like there is always a guy waiting around the corner. Must be doing something right.0 -
I'm 33 and any guy under 26 equals FUN! Have a good time!!
HOLY MOLY!! You're 33? I had thought you were barely 20... wow... lol Go you and everything that you're doing!
Ha! Okay I've heard 25 or so but 20?!?
HOW YOU DOIN'???
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For the record....this will be nothing long-term. I know that. I don't want a relationship with this guy. He's fun and sexy and thinks he's the next Tom Cruise. Lol. It's fun being around a guy with such zest for life. Some of the guys I've gone out with already have one foot in the grave. Hearing him call me sexy and want to be close to me was a huge ego boost. But..like I said in one of the last topics (tongue-in-cheek of course) for a forty year old....I'm top-tier. Lol
I think I'm defying all the talk about divorced women in their 40s with children having a hard time finding dates. Seems like there is always a guy waiting around the corner. Must be doing something right.
Just as a curious question...what do you take his wants to be out of this?0 -
I asked him last night. Pretty much said he wants to date someone cool, but he's moving by next summer to LA to pursue acting. Most of the girls his age want to settle down and commit. He knows he can't so he just wants something casual. Not sure what I want.....For the record....this will be nothing long-term. I know that. I don't want a relationship with this guy. He's fun and sexy and thinks he's the next Tom Cruise. Lol. It's fun being around a guy with such zest for life. Some of the guys I've gone out with already have one foot in the grave. Hearing him call me sexy and want to be close to me was a huge ego boost. But..like I said in one of the last topics (tongue-in-cheek of course) for a forty year old....I'm top-tier. Lol
I think I'm defying all the talk about divorced women in their 40s with children having a hard time finding dates. Seems like there is always a guy waiting around the corner. Must be doing something right.
Just as a curious question...what do you take his wants to be out of this?0 -
I asked him last night. Pretty much said he wants to date someone cool, but he's moving by next summer to LA to pursue acting. Most of the girls his age want to settle down and commit. He knows he can't so he just wants something casual. Not sure what I want.....For the record....this will be nothing long-term. I know that. I don't want a relationship with this guy. He's fun and sexy and thinks he's the next Tom Cruise. Lol. It's fun being around a guy with such zest for life. Some of the guys I've gone out with already have one foot in the grave. Hearing him call me sexy and want to be close to me was a huge ego boost. But..like I said in one of the last topics (tongue-in-cheek of course) for a forty year old....I'm top-tier. Lol
I think I'm defying all the talk about divorced women in their 40s with children having a hard time finding dates. Seems like there is always a guy waiting around the corner. Must be doing something right.
Just as a curious question...what do you take his wants to be out of this?
Sounds like FWB material if you want something llike that.0 -
I think I'm defying all the talk about divorced women in their 40s with children having a hard time finding dates. Seems like there is always a guy waiting around the corner. Must be doing something right.
I never had a problem getting young guys to go for me... but they only wanted sex, no relationship. I never got any young guys who were actually interested in a relationship, which is what I, personally, was looking for.
That said, my mom and her "young buck" are still going strong, so it can happen.0 -
Who cares about age? Go have fun, and don't overthink it. Trust me, if I was to be asked out by a youngin' I'd full on accept and enjoy the company...0
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I never had a problem getting young guys to go for me... but they only wanted sex, no relationship. I never got any young guys who were actually interested in a relationship, which is what I, personally, was looking for.
But aren't you against sex before marriage? Doesn't that complicate your analysis a bit, making it much less black and white?
Perhaps many of those men were interested in both sex *and* a relationship? I think few men (and women) are willing to date someone for many, many months or even years, without sex. Many men (and women) want to have sex with a partner before getting married, just to make sure they are compatible in bed.
In 2012, a relationship between two adults almost always means sex. Doesn't mean it happens on the first date, perhaps not even on the 5th. But it typically does happen eventually. If that's out of the question, and the man (or woman) knows this at the start, it definitely impacts how they view the attractiveness of a relationship.
Perhaps it's not about them "only" wanting to have sex, but them wanting to have a typical adult relationship before marriage, with all that includes?
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I only have one rule when it comes to age. He has to be old enough to legally buy me a drink and not so old that he has forgotten my name by the time I've finished it.0
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