"not from online dating" date tonight!!!
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Moe4572
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Hey all....been divorced this month for 2 years and seperated for a year before that, and tonight I have my first date that is not from online dating site
And, I am MORE nervous than I am with the online dates.
After my final chem exam, a group of 4 of us went to lunch and one of my friends mentioned her very nice, single guy friend. She has been in a relationship for 17 years, so I knew he was just a friend, so I asked her to set me up (was about 3 weeks after breakup), so she told me to look him up in her facebook friends, and if I was interested she would let him know. I looked at his facebook page, and told her I could be interested. She asked if it would be ok to give him my number so he could text and I gave her permission to do it. Never heard anything, though his mom had just passed add to Christmas and New Years, so I didn't expect to hear anything right away. When I got back from my cruise, I had a friend request, so I accepted, and we started emailing, moved to texting and are meeting tonight :flowerforyou:
Wish me luck :flowerforyou:
And, I am MORE nervous than I am with the online dates.
After my final chem exam, a group of 4 of us went to lunch and one of my friends mentioned her very nice, single guy friend. She has been in a relationship for 17 years, so I knew he was just a friend, so I asked her to set me up (was about 3 weeks after breakup), so she told me to look him up in her facebook friends, and if I was interested she would let him know. I looked at his facebook page, and told her I could be interested. She asked if it would be ok to give him my number so he could text and I gave her permission to do it. Never heard anything, though his mom had just passed add to Christmas and New Years, so I didn't expect to hear anything right away. When I got back from my cruise, I had a friend request, so I accepted, and we started emailing, moved to texting and are meeting tonight :flowerforyou:
Wish me luck :flowerforyou:
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YAYYYYYYYY good luck tonight hun :flowerforyou: :smooched: :bigsmile:0
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Yay! Good luck!0
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The friend of friend network is the way to go. Hope it works out well!0
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Sounds so exciting! Good luck! :flowerforyou:0
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Oooooo how exciting. I have a really good friend who met her current b/f through a friend of a friend on facebook. She's madly in love!
Have fun, and 'Deets' tomorrow please :bigsmile:0 -
Awesome!! Good luck!! :flowerforyou:0
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Yay, have fun!0
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Have fun!0
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Cool! Have fun!0
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Good luck!0
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EEEEEEEEEEEEEK! I am excited for you!!!!!! Have a blast! Drink a couple shots before you go!!! lol0
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Good Luck. Relax. Have fun! And we all want a play by play tomorrow!0
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EEEEEEEEEEEEEK! I am excited for you!!!!!! Have a blast! Drink a couple shots before you go!!! lol
If I drank a couple shots....I would collapse before going out the door--I am a total lightweight0 -
EEEEEEEEEEEEEK! I am excited for you!!!!!! Have a blast! Drink a couple shots before you go!!! lol
If I drank a couple shots....I would collapse before going out the door--I am a total lightweight
LMAO .. ok .. half of a shot?? lol0 -
I will just take deep breaths before I go....0
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I will just take deep breaths before I go....
Breathing is overrated.0 -
Have fun!!0
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Enjoy!!!! I am super duper excited for you!0
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Super excited for you. Hope it goes well and I'm with everyone.....details!!! :flowerforyou:0
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Update on date last night.
My date was late....he got a bit lost, and could not find the restaurant we were meeting at. That was partially my fault--the place is called "The Hideaway" because it is tucked away, hidden from the main road, and I probably should have thought to tell him that. Anyway, he finally got there and he looked like his pics (yay), a bit smaller than I thought but all good, and great smile--teeth so nice, I wondered if they were fake...lol.
Anyway conversation went very well, and we had dinner-2 hours at the restaurant and then he had to get home--he is not night owl (neither am I ) and he has to get up at 4:30 am, so I did expect early evening. We walked to our cars and I got a hug and he said he had a great time, and I said I did too ....then he asked about getting back to highway. He did not say anything about getting together again.
Then when I got home, I texted him to please text me that he got home safely (was getting icy), and thanks for dinner and was nice to meet him. A short while later, He said he was safely home and was great to meet me to.
I figured may as well bit the bullet, what have I got to lose, so I told him I would be interested in seeing him again, but did realize he had a very full schedule. He said it would be tough at times, but he thought I was cool and was interested in getting to know me better....so I guess now we will see what happens0