Such an endearing lady

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  • poncho33
    poncho33 Posts: 1,511
    This is the other line that had me scratching my head:

    Yes been told my pics are a little slutty well I don't care cause if you got it then flaunt it cause someday you will lose it. Its not like Im nude! Besides it seems to be the only way I get your attention.

    Most of her pictures included low-cut tops or were at angles where you looking down at her chest. In one of the face pics she had this look like she was doing the tongue hitting the inside of the cheek to mimic a BJ.

    She's been told she looks slutty. She is complaining that all the guys are looking for a hookup. Yet, she isn't willing to change her image because that's the only way to get any guys to pay attention to her.

    I don't think a lot of the gals realize that if your pics look slutty, it doesn't matter what you say, every guy is going to look at their profile in a sexual way. If you lead our brains there they will follow.
  • flimflamfloz
    flimflamfloz Posts: 1,980 Member
    @Florian - have you taken over where Mike and DM left off with the age/beauty/tier BS??? We girls already know we're on the rubbish heap by 30, thanks! :laugh:
    Well according to those numbers though she is failing miserably because of how pathetic her profile is.
    She is apparently judged as attractive by other people and is looking for people in the optimal age bracket for herself.
  • kimad
    kimad Posts: 3,011 Member
    This is the other line that had me scratching my head:

    Yes been told my pics are a little slutty well I don't care cause if you got it then flaunt it cause someday you will lose it. Its not like Im nude! Besides it seems to be the only way I get your attention.

    Most of her pictures included low-cut tops or were at angles where you looking down at her chest. In one of the face pics she had this look like she was doing the tongue hitting the inside of the cheek to mimic a BJ.

    She's been told she looks slutty. She is complaining that all the guys are looking for a hookup. Yet, she isn't willing to change her image because that's the only way to get any guys to pay attention to her.

    I don't think a lot of the gals realize that if your pics look slutty, it doesn't matter what you say, every guy is going to look at their profile in a sexual way. If you lead our brains there they will follow.

    Mine are very conservative.. and I still get lots of sex talk emails... blah!
  • I don't get the overly sexual emails ever! Should I be offended?
  • I don't get the overly sexual messages ever! Should I be offended?
  • MissingMinnesota
    MissingMinnesota Posts: 7,486 Member
    This is the other line that had me scratching my head:

    Yes been told my pics are a little slutty well I don't care cause if you got it then flaunt it cause someday you will lose it. Its not like Im nude! Besides it seems to be the only way I get your attention.

    Most of her pictures included low-cut tops or were at angles where you looking down at her chest. In one of the face pics she had this look like she was doing the tongue hitting the inside of the cheek to mimic a BJ.

    She's been told she looks slutty. She is complaining that all the guys are looking for a hookup. Yet, she isn't willing to change her image because that's the only way to get any guys to pay attention to her.

    I don't think a lot of the gals realize that if your pics look slutty, it doesn't matter what you say, every guy is going to look at their profile in a sexual way. If you lead our brains there they will follow.

    Mine are very conservative.. and I still get lots of sex talk emails... blah!

    I get little to no sexual emails on POF and I have one picture that shows off my boobs but the rest are all pretty sporty.
  • kimad
    kimad Posts: 3,011 Member
    I don't get the overly sexual emails ever! Should I be offended?

    Sorry I should clarify.
    Alot of the emails I get turn to 'sexual' talk VERY quickly.
    I had one guy tell me he had to have sex within the first 3 dates to make sure there was chemistry.
    Just crap like that.
  • kimad
    kimad Posts: 3,011 Member
    Wonder if it is region?

    I mean I never get a sexual first email, but lots turn to sexual nature quickly.

    I let others here see my profile and nothing screams 'slutty' in mine.

    And don't be offended, I get next to no response, so if you are getting responses and nothing sexual YOU RAWK!
  • julesboots
    julesboots Posts: 311 Member
    @Florian - have you taken over where Mike and DM left off with the age/beauty/tier BS??? We girls already know we're on the rubbish heap by 30, thanks! :laugh:
    Well according to those numbers though she is failing miserably because of how pathetic her profile is.
    She is apparently judged as attractive by other people and is looking for people in the optimal age bracket for herself.

    Whatever the argument is, the lady in question isn't looking at the graphs, and I'm not sure what posting them here is really trying to illustrate?

    But! Now I can refer to this when I'm asked "why are we learning line of best fit in math?" I can say "to let you know that in 15-20 years all of you middle school girls will be undateable, so put it out there NOW!"
  • dbrightwell1270
    dbrightwell1270 Posts: 1,732 Member
    Line of Best fit? Are you really teaching Ordinary Least Squares Regression to Middle Schoolers?
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member

    I had one guy tell me he had to have sex within the first 3 dates to make sure there was chemistry.
    Just crap like that.

    I do this as well. If I don't want to have sex with them by date 3 it's not going to go anywhere.
  • moonshadows72
    moonshadows72 Posts: 180 Member
    If it makes yall feel any better, I dont get the sexy emails in my inbox either... maybe I should get more slutty pics
  • kimad
    kimad Posts: 3,011 Member

    I had one guy tell me he had to have sex within the first 3 dates to make sure there was chemistry.
    Just crap like that.

    I do this as well. If I don't want to have sex with them by date 3 it's not going to go anywhere.

    I think there is a difference.

    You want to know you'd have sex with them, he HAD to have sex with them...
    If I am not attracted by date 3 I would move on too, but even if I am head over heals, I am not having sex on date 3.
  • pa_jorg
    pa_jorg Posts: 4,404 Member
    If it makes yall feel any better, I dont get the sexy emails in my inbox either... maybe I should get more slutty pics

    Please show us your new pics first :wink:
  • kimad
    kimad Posts: 3,011 Member
    If it makes yall feel any better, I dont get the sexy emails in my inbox either... maybe I should get more slutty pics

    Please show us your new pics first :wink:

    Me too me too LOL!!!!!

    Oops sorry maybe that was innappropriate.
  • Hmm.. maybe as I am the initiator of sexual discussion..or at least hinting at it..relatively early on, I don't give them time to do it?!

    If I made it to date three and didn't know if I wanted to have sex that would likely mean a total lack of chemistry. Being head over heels is dangerous - have met wonderful men who are crap in bed, unfortunately. And that's just not going to fly.
    Even a kiss is only an indicator of possibility.. nothing more.
  • kimad
    kimad Posts: 3,011 Member
    Hmm.. maybe as I am the initiator of sexual discussion..or at least hinting at it..relatively early on, I don't give them time to do it?!

    If I made it to date three and didn't know if I wanted to have sex that would likely mean a total lack of chemistry. Being head over heels is dangerous - have met wonderful men who are crap in bed, unfortunately. And that's just not going to fly.
    Even a kiss is only an indicator of possibility.. nothing more.

    I think if you have met in person for atleast 1 date, even hinting or discussing things is ok.
    What I was meaning is that I haven't even made it thru 1-2 POF emails and I am getting sex talked. I think there is a difference.
    What is the point of getting all worked up thru emails BEFORE you met the person, you could be repulsed by them.

    I just, personally, don't think you should NEED to have sex within a couple dates to see if they are worth being with.
    I don't know, just not me.
  • flimflamfloz
    flimflamfloz Posts: 1,980 Member
    Whatever the argument is, the lady in question isn't looking at the graphs, and I'm not sure what posting them here is really trying to illustrate?
    You probably mean you don't know what this whole topic is about then... Since the lady in question isn't looking at the topic either. Can't just stop halfway.
  • lorro
    lorro Posts: 917 Member
    This is the other line that had me scratching my head:

    Yes been told my pics are a little slutty well I don't care cause if you got it then flaunt it cause someday you will lose it. Its not like Im nude! Besides it seems to be the only way I get your attention.

    Most of her pictures included low-cut tops or were at angles where you looking down at her chest. In one of the face pics she had this look like she was doing the tongue hitting the inside of the cheek to mimic a BJ.

    She's been told she looks slutty. She is complaining that all the guys are looking for a hookup. Yet, she isn't willing to change her image because that's the only way to get any guys to pay attention to her.

    I hate to generalise but here goes..

    This is the typical behaviour of someone who thinks all men are users who only want one thing. They resent it, but they don't question the truth if it so they also use it. It's a self perpetuating prophecy as they only attract users. Taking an extreme example it's the reason why kids who are abused behave in a sexually precocious manner. Poor woman, send her a nice message db but don't date her!
    If it makes yall feel any better, I dont get the sexy emails in my inbox either... maybe I should get more slutty pics
    OK :happy:
  • julesboots
    julesboots Posts: 311 Member
    Line of Best fit? Are you really teaching Ordinary Least Squares Regression to Middle Schoolers?
    Basic scatter plots, yo.
    Whatever the argument is, the lady in question isn't looking at the graphs, and I'm not sure what posting them here is really trying to illustrate?
    You probably mean you don't know what this whole topic is about then... Since the lady in question isn't looking at the topic either. Can't just stop halfway.

    I guess not. Why is there something rather than nothing? Maybe that's closer to all the way.