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  • Posts: 5,754 Member

    WTF how can u deny being caught red handed?

    Drugs, at least, that was her excuse. She claims she never even knew I was in the room.
  • Posts: 1,732 Member

    Drugs, at least, that was her excuse. She claims she never even knew I was in the room.

    Um. I think she would have to claim she didn't even know HE was in the room.
  • Posts: 3,278 Member

    Um. I think she would have to claim she didn't even know HE was in the room.

    lol yeah! sounds like she was saying, i'm sorry you found out, not sorry for being a HO!

    and drugs? Ain't nobody got time for that!

    That's one of my top deal breakers!
  • Posts: 5,754 Member

    lol yeah! sounds like she was saying, i'm sorry you found out, not sorry for being a HO!

    and drugs? Ain't nobody got time for that!

    That's one of my top deal breakers!

    Yep, mine too.
  • Posts: 814 Member
    I was played, plain and simple, by a master manipulator and pathological liar. Story goes something like this.

    We had been together for a while, on nearly a daily basis. I noted that some girls on his FB (one in particular) were being really raunchily flirty and I didn't like it. He said it was nothing, harmless, that he loved me, promised to marry me, etc. After seeing a conversation on his FB, she stalked me and saw that he was in a relationship with me and she blew up. Started copy/pasting all these messages between him and her about them getting married and having kids and etc. (though they had never met). I should have left then. Mistake #1. Instead we talked it out, and decided to try again.

    A month later we go to see our respective families for the holidays. During this I find out that he's been with two other women (that I know about) while he was there with his family. Again, I should have gave up and walked away. Mistake #2. I did pack up the stuff I had at his place and told him I needed sometime to figure out if I could forgive him or not.

    24 hours later he's on the phone with me, saying that he can't be fair to me, etc, while simultaneously changing his FB status to being in a relationship with the chick from Mistake #1.

    I decide to tell HER everything, figure she needs to know what she's getting in to. He then threatens to sue me for defamation.

    A month later he's in the hospital and begging me to come take care of him. Uh... no.
  • Posts: 3,278 Member
    I was played, plain and simple, by a master manipulator and pathological liar. Story goes something like this.

    We had been together for a while, on nearly a daily basis. I noted that some girls on his FB (one in particular) were being really raunchily flirty and I didn't like it. He said it was nothing, harmless, that he loved me, promised to marry me, etc. After seeing a conversation on his FB, she stalked me and saw that he was in a relationship with me and she blew up. Started copy/pasting all these messages between him and her about them getting married and having kids and etc. (though they had never met). I should have left then. Mistake #1. Instead we talked it out, and decided to try again.

    A month later we go to see our respective families for the holidays. During this I find out that he's been with two other women (that I know about) while he was there with his family. Again, I should have gave up and walked away. Mistake #2. I did pack up the stuff I had at his place and told him I needed sometime to figure out if I could forgive him or not.

    24 hours later he's on the phone with me, saying that he can't be fair to me, etc, while simultaneously changing his FB status to being in a relationship with the chick from Mistake #1.

    I decide to tell HER everything, figure she needs to know what she's getting in to. He then threatens to sue me for defamation.

    A month later he's in the hospital and begging me to come take care of him. Uh... no.

    wow. I have learned to listen to people when they show you who they really are the first time around.

    fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.
  • Posts: 1,980 Member
    Drugs, at least, that was her excuse. She claims she never even knew I was in the room.
    Apparently, having sex while taking MDMA/ecstasy is a great experience. I s'pose maybe a person can forget what happens then...

    Disclaimer: drugs are bad. Shoo shoo!
  • Posts: 5,798 Member
    Apparently, having sex while taking MDMA/ecstasy is a great experience. I s'pose maybe a person can forget what happens then...

    Disclaimer: drugs are bad. Shoo shoo!

    "apparently" he says.
    You aren't fooling me!
  • Posts: 1,432 Member
    I've only had one *terrible* break-up. He was my "first love".

    I got a job at a gym my junior year of High School... I started dating a personal trainer from there. He was a bit older than me, but wee dated through my senior year. One weekend he went camping with his friends. I hadn't heard from him alllll weekend, and I wasn't really angry, just a little worried. My Grandpa ended up getting really sick and was admitted to the hospital. My boyfriend came home... My Grandpa started doing better... But on the day I graduated High School, my Grandpa passed away. We got the call at my graduation party. Boyfriend was really supportive and blah blah blah.

    Well, after the funeral, we were sitting at the luncheon and my boyfriend kept texting someone and eventually asked if we could talk privately. So he took me aside and started telling me how this girl we worked with had come up to hang out with him and his friends the weekend he was camping. This girl had always made me really uncomfortable because of how she would be hanging all over him, but I'm not really the jealous type so I didn't say anything. So he told me that they had hooked up and that he was having doubts about us and that we should take some time apart. He wanted to tell me right when he got back, but didn't because my Grandpa was sick. Suuuuper sensitive guy... Waited until the funeral. Bless his heart.
    He then took out his phone to read a text and told me he had to go and was going to hang out with this girl.

    Under any other circumstances, I would have gouged his eyes out and fed them to him. But obviously my mind was elsewhere.
  • Posts: 5,798 Member
    Sam, I could swear people like that aren't real. It just blows my mind :(
  • Posts: 4,404 Member
    Sam, I could swear people like that aren't real. It just blows my mind :(

    X2. So sorry!
  • Posts: 7,439 Member
    I've only had one *terrible* break-up. He was my "first love".

    I got a job at a gym my junior year of High School... I started dating a personal trainer from there. He was a bit older than me, but wee dated through my senior year. One weekend he went camping with his friends. I hadn't heard from him alllll weekend, and I wasn't really angry, just a little worried. My Grandpa ended up getting really sick and was admitted to the hospital. My boyfriend came home... My Grandpa started doing better... But on the day I graduated High School, my Grandpa passed away. We got the call at my graduation party. Boyfriend was really supportive and blah blah blah.

    Well, after the funeral, we were sitting at the luncheon and my boyfriend kept texting someone and eventually asked if we could talk privately. So he took me aside and started telling me how this girl we worked with had come up to hang out with him and his friends the weekend he was camping. This girl had always made me really uncomfortable because of how she would be hanging all over him, but I'm not really the jealous type so I didn't say anything. So he told me that they had hooked up and that he was having doubts about us and that we should take some time apart. He wanted to tell me right when he got back, but didn't because my Grandpa was sick. Suuuuper sensitive guy... Waited until the funeral. Bless his heart.
    He then took out his phone to read a text and told me he had to go and was going to hang out with this girl.

    Under any other circumstances, I would have gouged his eyes out and fed them to him. But obviously my mind was elsewhere.

    :noway: :noway: :noway: What a tosser!!! :explode:
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