Hi. Sorry to hear about your baby.

I was in denial about my diabetes for a year before I got serious. I don't know anything about herbalife. I got my sugar under control by lowering my carb and sugar intake. I don't deprive myself of much... everything in moderation. Test your blood sugar in the morning and 2 hours after meals, so you know how different foods affect your sugar. Keep track of all your carbs and calories and exercise regularly. You can't cure diabetes, but you can control it. Many people have done it.... myself included. You can too.

ETA - I should add that you should plan to see a nutritionist and do as much research on the condition as you can. Check out bloodsugar101.com....lots of great info there.

Hello! First of all, welcome to MFP and taking the first step towards a healthier you. Everyone else has give you such valuable information, so there isn't much more I can add.

I am really sorry to hear about your daughter's passing. There are so many reasons why your daughter could have been born a stillborn. However, have faith that a lot of women are able to carry babies to full-term while being a diabetic. A healthcare professional would be the best person to give you the answer.

My story, I was diagnosed 8 years ago. After 6 months of trying Metformin, my doctor put me on insulin. I take Lantus and Novolog (sliding scale based on my BG levels). I spent about 6 years, sort of watching what I ate, but not ever truly making the committment. January 3, 2013 I started taking my health seriously and started watching what I ate. I have dropped nearly 30 lbs and more importantly, my BG levels have gotten so much better. I am very proud of the success I have achieved. Key for me was not only the food intake, but getting in the exercise is what has really helped with my success.

Add me as a friend and I will be supportive. I don't have all the answers, just another T2 looking to get healthier.

Nancy

First of all, I'm soooooo sorry for your loss. I understand what it's like to go through a rough pregancy. My daughter was born at 30 weeks and we spent 75 days in the NICU, where she faught for her life like crazy. Now she's 2 1/2 and doing amazing, but it was one hell of a joyride getting her to this point. I'm grateful that, but I also know how horrific of an outcome it COULD have been. Please know we are all here to support you as much as we possibly can.

Ok, now onto my story.... I was diagnosed with T2 back in Nov 2007. I've struggled on and off for the last 5 1/2 years with this disease and it's finally clicking into place now. I've done TONS of research and found out a TON of interesting tidbits about diabetes.... diet and exercise wise, along with how to help yourself each day.... I can offer you a few bits of advice:

1) MOST IMPORTANT: Don't be afraid to fail!!! We've all done it. I'm guessing everyone of us on this site has failed at least once, more likely several times. It's going to happen... we aren't perfect!! However, know your resources when you do fail. Go to your doctor and get a referal for nutrition classes. Save up money for some personal training at a gym. Go to the American Diabetes Association website and get help there. There are tons of resources out there to help you get through the "rocky roads" (not ice cream lol)....

2) Find a support system.... husband, girlfriend(s), family member, co-worker, etc etc..... (or us!!!!) and ask for help.... call them if you feel like cheating (which will happen).

3) Lastly: Whatever it takes for you to succeed, DO IT!!! I am a huge fan of Jillian Michaels and listen to her Podcasts all the time. One thing I learned (and has helped me finally get a grasp on everything) is that the number one reason people go bankrupt in the United States is because of medical bills!!!!! Can you believe it??? It's from people having heart attacks, diabetes, high cholesterol etc etc. So.... remember that next time you think you can't afford to buy the veggies instead of the Big Mac (not saying you do... just an example). It might cost you more to go to a gym to exercise and buy the more expensive healthier foods.... but in the long run, it's a heck of a lot cheaper than having diabetes complications. There are resources out there to help pay for some things you might need, so please use them!!!

Ok, that's enough... sorry this is so long!! Add me if you want... Together we can get through this!!!!!

I was diagnosed as diabetic when I was pregnant with my son, who is now 11. If you manage your sugars well, you can successfully carry a child- it makes it difficult at times and I had to be on insulin during both of my pregnancies (I have 7 yr old twins too). We had a lot of difficulties getting pregnant too so I get it. Losing weight does help with the process too. We did IVF. I was monitored by my endocrinologist very closely during my pregnancies because of the complications caused by diabeties. Let me know if you want to chat. Best wishes to you!