as well as a strong woman, who are you?

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  • BikerGirlElaine
    BikerGirlElaine Posts: 1,631 Member
    Awww, I love all of you!! Hugs all around!

    I am going to be 50 on Wednesday and I have never been happier in my life. No kids, married three times, currently living with my boyfriend. I hope this arrangement will last the rest of our lives but I am now extremely cynical about such things.

    Two dogs -- a big 'un and a little 'un, 'cause little dogs are, like, totally different species compared to big dogs. And a kitty who doesn't do much anymore but lie around looking pretty. A fish tank that we're re-doing. And....

    over 400 houseplants. Gesneriads, which is a family of plants that includes African Violets. This is a serious passion of mine. But not as big a passion as...

    riding Harleys! I own two, my boyfriend has two. We ride all the time. Our tiny dog comes with us. In June we took a 3,600 mile trip to Northern California and Southern Oregon and it was fabulous.

    I live in Denver, Colorado now and have for 18 years. I was raised in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania and lived in D.C. and Maryland for almost 15 years.

    I have a degree in Russian language that I never used. I have a degree in accounting and work as a tax accountant for a hotel chain.

    Until 8-9 years ago my life was a complete mess. I drank heavily and used drugs extensively. Then I was in a motorcycle accident...

    I got my own license because I figured I could wreck my own bike just as easy as wrecking on the back of someone else's. :wink:

    I got fibromyalgia and felt *awful* for a long, long time.

    I got sober because I felt so awful. Also because I found two programs that helped. One was a nutrition program. I'm a big believer in these two programs and I spend a lot of time giving service to others who are working them.

    After I got sober I started to binge-eat. When that subsided, my diet was left looking very 'clean' -- not a lot of sugars in my food diary these days. You will *never* hear me fueling up with ice cream. That just doesn't work for my particular body.

    So the journey these last 8 1/2 years has been transformational, not always simple, and there've been detours but I learn from them, too. My weight, which skyrocketed when I was binge eating, is the last big thing left for me to work on.

    I've been lifting off and on for 15 years -- "off" a lot when my FM was at it's worst. Today, I'm almost always just grateful that I get to show up and do my best. 'Cause there was a time when I couldn't do that. I take nothing for granted now.
  • jstout365
    jstout365 Posts: 1,686 Member
    I live in Denver, Colorado now and have for 18 years. I was raised in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania and lived in D.C. and Maryland for almost 15 years.

    I lived outside of Boulder for 6 years (my parents still live in CO) and a lot of my hubby's family is from the Pittsburgh area. I also lived in Maryland for a short while.
  • chubby_checkers
    chubby_checkers Posts: 2,352 Member
    I live in Denver, Colorado now and have for 18 years. I was raised in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania and lived in D.C. and Maryland for almost 15 years.

    I lived outside of Boulder for 6 years (my parents still live in CO) and a lot of my hubby's family is from the Pittsburgh area. I also lived in Maryland for a short while.

    My dad's family is in the Pittsburgh area (Beaver Falls to be exact) and I lived in Clarion for 6 years. Also lived in the D.C. area for a short time when I was younger. Never lived in CO, but I did have relatives in Denver for a long time.
  • BikerGirlElaine
    BikerGirlElaine Posts: 1,631 Member
    I live in Denver, Colorado now and have for 18 years. I was raised in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania and lived in D.C. and Maryland for almost 15 years.

    I lived outside of Boulder for 6 years (my parents still live in CO) and a lot of my hubby's family is from the Pittsburgh area. I also lived in Maryland for a short while.

    My dad's family is in the Pittsburgh area (Beaver Falls to be exact) and I lived in Clarion for 6 years. Also lived in the D.C. area for a short time when I was younger. Never lived in CO, but I did have relatives in Denver for a long time.

    :bigsmile: :drinker: :bigsmile: :drinker: :bigsmile:
  • emjaycazz
    emjaycazz Posts: 330 Member
    Cool thread :)

    Hi, I'm Anne "Leadfoot" Lewis


    -Hobbies-Auto racing, cycling, drawing/art, and of course...lifting heavy things!

    Anne--what association/series do you race? My hubby is race director for the central region of a small-ish association(I have taken a couple of DEs).

    Okay--me:

    I am an in-house lawyer for a big company. I specialize in a very interesting but very hectic area.

    I was a cheerleader in college a VERY long time ago.

    I am a mom to a 12-year old soccer addict so we will be traveling with his team throughout the Midwest this upcoming year.

    I love photography and any sort of visual creative endeavor, but I am terrible at gardening. However, am obsessed with beets (having them for dinner tonight....mmmmm).

    I am stubborn and opinionated and sensitive....and I also married someone who is stubborn and opinionated and sensitive. But boy oh boy is he cute as hell.

    The TV is on a lot in our house. Sundays, it's like we are in England because there is either a soccer game on in the background or a pre-recorded road race. Or the BBC version of Top Gear (my son is a fan of James May).

    I turned 40 two weeks ago. I gave myself an early gift when I decided in March to change up my routine from running and light weight reps. I had taken martial arts up until my 20s, so I found some MMA based DVD routines that I love and can do at 5:30 in the morning, then started lifting. I am having challenges with allowing myself enough time to recover, so I have to be okay with not progressing as fast.
  • cleotherio
    cleotherio Posts: 712 Member
    - My name is Sandy
    - I live in upstate NY, about 3 hours north of NYC. I love it here. I live in a great town up here.
    - I'm married and I have two kids in elementary school who are 18 months apart
    - My favorite thing to do is walk in the woods. It can either be an all day hike, a 5K trail run, or just a stroll. There's really nothing I like better.
    - I also like walking around old cemeteries.
    - I get a $2 scratch-off lotto ticket every Saturday morning. It's part of our weekend routine.
    - I was raised in a vegetarian household. I didn't try any meat at all until I was about 12. I don't think I tried fish until I was about 17. My teenage rebellion was eating meat. I'm a total omnivore now, but it's no pressure at all for me to figure out what to feed vegetarian guests.
    - I majored in English in college because it was an easy major and I just wanted to finish school. I didn't want to be a writer, a teacher or anything that major generally leads to. My biggest regret is not going back to school for something more science-y. I realize it's really not too late, but it's a big commitment to make.
    - I learned how to be an athlete when I was in college. I had been on the rowing team in high school, but I just did it because a couple of my friends did. In college I learned how to train hard and realized I could actually be really good at something.
    - I was also on the track & field team in highschool. I threw the shotput. I was 5'4" and about 120 lbs and I was better at it than most of the bigger girls. But the whole "I'm an athlete" thing didn't kick in until college.
  • jstout365
    jstout365 Posts: 1,686 Member
    The TV is on a lot in our house. Sundays, it's like we are in England because there is either a soccer game on in the background or a pre-recorded road race. Or the BBC version of Top Gear (my son is a fan of James May).

    I didn't realize Captain Slow had fans :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: I personally like the Hampster!
  • Leadfoot_Lewis
    Leadfoot_Lewis Posts: 1,623 Member

    I live in Denver, Colorado now and have for 18 years. I was raised in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania and lived in D.C. and Maryland for almost 15 years.

    Hey-I'm not too far from you! I live down in Castle Rock.
  • Leadfoot_Lewis
    Leadfoot_Lewis Posts: 1,623 Member

    Anne--what association/series do you race? My hubby is race director for the central region of a small-ish association(I have taken a couple of DEs).

    Hi!

    I race with in the Rocky Mountain Region of the NCCC (National Council of Corvette Clubs). We do mostly autocrosses with 2-3 track events a year.
  • emjaycazz
    emjaycazz Posts: 330 Member

    I didn't realize Captain Slow had fans :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: I personally like the Hampster!

    Hammond is just more aesthetically pleasing than May or Clarkson, so he gets my vote!

    Anne--if you have ever heard of NASA (National Auto Sport Association), my husband is involved with the Central Region.
  • tameko2
    tameko2 Posts: 31,634 Member
    This is a cool idea.

    I live in SoCal.

    31, childless, no plans to change that.

    2 cats

    I work in software development (not a developer, product manager/BSA) but I got my Bachelors in Political science and Psychology. I sometimes think I would like to get an MFT, at least, (marriage and family therapist - its a Masters) but I like what I do ok and it pays pretty decent, so its hard to give that up for a degree just to start all over making half what I make now. Plus my husband would kill me.

    I was never physically active as a kid, or young adult. I hated PE, I couldn't run a 3/4 mile in 11 minutes in HS even though I was not overweight or anything. Turns out it was probably partially because I don't self-regulate body temp well (I barely sweat at all - in some areas I don't sweat period, in others I sweat a bit but its not even enough to dampen a shirt).

    I gained from about 145 to 205 in 4-5 years after I got a job. Mixture of change in eating habits (my natural eating pattern is 10am and 3:30-4pm and that just doesnt' work at a 9-5 job) and no longer walking to class even though I did walk sometimes for fun. I gained so much and so fast that at one point I bought a dress that fit great and 2 weeks later it didnt' fit at all.

    I wear about the same size I did at 150 as I do now at 165. Muscles! (ok, fine, I gained weight and now I weigh 172 and everything is snug, BUT STILL)

    I used to read a LOT of books - sci-fi/fantasy/urban/paranormal stuff is my version of trash TV but I haven't been reading them much lately because .... I kind of burned through everything halfway decent.

    I hardly watch any TV at all but we do have Amazon Prime and Netflix so I recently watched all of the new Doctor Who.
  • alisaglem
    alisaglem Posts: 36 Member

    I drive an ice cream truck after a past career in banking.

    I'm jealous.
  • alisaglem
    alisaglem Posts: 36 Member
    Hi all, great idea!

    I'm Alisa. I'll be 35 in a month.

    I currently live in NYC, in Brooklyn to be more specific, and have been for the past 6 years. I moved here from Portland, OR to pursue acting. I lived in Oregon for 7 years. I was born in Belarus, former USSR, my parents immigrated to Israel when I was 12. I graduated high school in Israel and then moved to Portland, OR when I was 20. I thought I was smart to escape the service in the army. :) (maybe not so much)

    I studied Business and minored in theater. I've been dreaming of being a working actress for almost 10 years now. I graduated a 2 years acting conservatory program last year and only now am starting to pursue acting more seriously, i.e. be less afraid.

    I adopted a 3-legged Blue Heeler, long-haired Dachshund, Corgy mix when I lived in Portland with my ex. She is being loved and taken care of in Vancouver, WA by a dear friend.

    I'm single.

    I was with somebody for 7 years.

    I started SL 4 weeks ago.

    I love animals. I give dollars to homeless people on the subway despite the fact that I know I can't save them all. I cry when someone hurts an animal in a movie.

    I hate injustice and unfairness.

    I love cake, caramel, fudge. My weight has fluctuated between 138 (lowest in 10 years) to 168 (highest ever) and usually in the 140-150 range. Obviously it's not my ideal weight.

    I love museums. They inspire me. I love decorate. Want to learn to rock climb.

    Overall, I'm awesome.
  • lwoodroff
    lwoodroff Posts: 1,431 Member
    You ladies are all fascinating complex varied and beautiful. Thank you for indulging my nosiness! :)

    On the Hamster/Captain Slow/Clarkson "gentlemans vegetables" debate, if you like James May, you might want to check out some of his other tv shows, particularly 'Man Lab' :)
  • inkysmurf
    inkysmurf Posts: 168

    I love animals. I cry when someone hurts an animal in a movie.

    I hate injustice and unfairness.

    Overall, I'm awesome.

    Backatcha !

    this thread is rocking my world ladies. lwwodroff you are a superstar for this thread!! x
  • Coquette6
    Coquette6 Posts: 158 Member
    I'm 26 (well, soon to be 26), and very short at just 5'0". I'm a feminist. I'm a foodie. I'm an unabashed nerd - Doctor Who, Tolkien, anime, manga, video games, science fiction, fantasy, comics, you name it! (Except Star Wars). I'm a rider (or used to be, now I only get on a horse every few months, unfortunately). I'm halfway to being a veterinarian, currently between my second and third years of veterinary school, and I'm currently spending my summer on a research scholarship studying a new method of diagnosing bacterial infections in fish. I <3 microbes.
  • LJSmith1989
    LJSmith1989 Posts: 650
    A bad *kitten* with a crochet hook
  • kay_der
    kay_der Posts: 24
    Loving learning more about you awesome ladies!

    I am Kayla, 35 years old.

    Married for 10, with 3 little kids (5 years to 9 months). The last 5 years have been the longest of my life, mostly due to being awake for so much of them. :smile:

    I never was overweight until I learned how to cook for myself. And boy, I love food and I make it good.

    I struggle a bit with healthy choices. I can make myself exercise even if I am not in the mood, and I never regret it. But if I force myself to not eat that chocolate chip cookie, I am mourning it for days after. Seriously, days!

    I am a medical writer, so I read a lot of scientific literature and understand just enough to be a danger to myself.

    I am a DIY nut. My husband sweetly indulges the spillover into his life.
  • kitkat4141
    kitkat4141 Posts: 379 Member
    I was resisting but here goes.

    I am obsessive/compulsive about things I love to do. For the last three years my obsession has been my health, namely nutrition and exercise.

    Other obsessions are heirloom sewing, knitting/crocheting, food, and my family.

    I am the original couch potato and never exercised or played sports. I was a bookworm my entire life and going to the public library was the highlight of my life for many years. The Internet has replaced the library and I'm on the web way too many hours per day.

    I am married to my childhood sweetheart. We met in the 4th grade and it has been love/hate ever since, LOL. We are celebrating our 36th wedding anniversary on July 8th.

    I have three children in their 30's, and 3 granddaughters aged 12 y/o, 11 y/o, and 5 months. I am 56 but feel healthier and stronger than when I was 26.

    I am addicted to spinning classes and weight lifting. I'm doing both until I die.

    Hubby and I don't take vacations anymore. We take action packed adventures that require us to MOVE our bodies. I always need a vacation from my vacations.

    I don't like to lie and I'm bad at it anyway. Doesn't make me a very popular person because I can be very blunt.

    Love big band (think Tommy Dorsey) and classic rock music. I listen to the Pink Floyd station on Pandora a lot.

    My best quality is that I am trustworthy. My worst, well I'll have to get back to you on that, LOL.
  • kirabob
    kirabob Posts: 481 Member
    It is so much fun to learn about all of you! For my fellow sci-fi/ urban mystery folks, I am reading a relatively new book called The Passage by Justin Cronin, and it is very good- the first book I've read in a long time all the war through (3 year old makes it impossible to read in with anything approaching concentration).

    Coquette- I used to be a competitive steeplechase rider, way way back. I still love to ride, and don't get to do it often enough. I also heart microbes, and have built several art installations investigating microbes from an aesthetic perspective.

    Biker - I loved hearing from someone who lifts with FM. Both my aunt and her partner have FM, and I keep encouraging them to find a movement they would love, but they are pretty stuck in their ways!

    Cc- my mom and dad both grew up in Springfield, and my grandparents all lived there until they passed. The aunts mentioned above still live in Clifton- so I know your neck of the woods pretty well!

    And to several of you- I am also a knitter/crocheted. I taught myself by mastering Irish lace crochet because I didn't know any better. Talk about trial by fire! Don't do much needlework in the summer - too busy with the vegetable garden and my never ending refinements to e chicken run/coop.
  • chubby_checkers
    chubby_checkers Posts: 2,352 Member
    It is so much fun to learn about all of you! For my fellow sci-fi/ urban mystery folks, I am reading a relatively new book called The Passage by Justin Cronin, and it is very good- the first book I've read in a long time all the war through (3 year old makes it impossible to read in with anything approaching concentration).

    This is on my "to-read" list. I've gotten a few chapters in, but am having a hard time really getting into it. I've heard good things, though!
    Cc- my mom and dad both grew up in Springfield, and my grandparents all lived there until they passed. The aunts mentioned above still live in Clifton- so I know your neck of the woods pretty well!

    My parents are in New Carlisle. I'm not as familiar with Springfield, but I worked at the Kroger on N. Bechtle one summer.

    I haven't been to Clifton in awhile. We used to go walk around the gorge on weekends.
  • emjaycazz
    emjaycazz Posts: 330 Member
    If you like James May, you might want to check out some of his other tv shows, particularly 'Man Lab' :)

    We have Man Lab set up as a DVR series recording! :flowerforyou:
  • roxylola
    roxylola Posts: 540 Member
    My name is Emma. I live in Manchester UK. I am separated from a husband and living with a man who is the love of my life. I have 2 dogs, a beagle and a springer who I do not get nearly enough time with. My SO has a shih tsu too. In a 2 bed terrace that can all get quite exciting :laugh:

    I was a riding instructor for 6 years which I loved. Did not love the pay so much so I am now working in a call centre office. There are worse jobs and there are better paid jobs but on the whole it is not bad for what it is. I no longer have a horse although I did for almost 10 years.

    I have a motorbike which I use pretty much daily for a commute and often for fun. I dance, took up modern jive a few years ago and I love social dancing.

    And when I get chance I love to work out. :wink:
  • lwoodroff
    lwoodroff Posts: 1,431 Member
    ooh I met my husband jiving! sadly don't get a chance to go any more.. :(
  • roxylola
    roxylola Posts: 540 Member
    That is how we met - although I did start going with my soon to be ex husband :blushing:
  • chunkmunk
    chunkmunk Posts: 221 Member
    What a great thread! I'm jumping in, even though I've been lazy on the message boards lately.

    -I just turned 40 and live in Nebraska.
    -I'm a lawyer and have been married to my amazing husband, also a lawyer, for almost 15 years.
    -We have three kids.
    My youngest is 5 and has a very rare genetic disorder and is unable to walk or talk. We had no idea she was going to come to us this way and the months after her birth were very difficult. I love her more than I ever imagined possible. She is my inspiration to stay strong and healthy.
    -I've always been an athlete, but put on about 20 pounds after having 3 kids in 6 years.
    -I LOVE lifting, and am in the best shape of my life right now.
    -I love to read, especially old British detective novels. Agatha Christie, Ngaio Marsh, and Dorothy Sayers are my faves.
    -I pierced my navel on my 40th birthday. Craziest things I've ever done. :laugh:
    -I love all of you ladies and find each and every one of you inspiring!!!!:flowerforyou:
  • msharp23
    msharp23 Posts: 14
    I'm in love with this thread and every one of you ladies!!

    I'm very new to this group (please feel free to add me-I need some likeminded friends!) and figure this is an excellent way to introduce myself-

    I'm Melissa, age 35.

    I grew up in Oklahoma, but have lived in Missouri for about 12 or so years.

    I'm a teacher (middle school Gifted) and I absolutely love every single minute of my work day.

    I have two boys-ages 6 & almost 9 and am married to an incredible man (he's also my lifting partner).

    I love outdoorsy stuff-camping, fishing, hiking, kayaking, etc. I also love, love, love indoor climbing. I'm an excellent sports fan but horrendous player. Movies and music are my nirvana-I like quirky, indie stuff mostly, but a good movie/album is a good movie/album, so I'm pretty open to everything.

    My guilty pleasure is watching anything on Bravo. It's mostly garbage, but oh how I love it.

    And of course I love food. Particularly ice cream and pizza.

    I'm a extrovert, probably to a fault. I open up to anyone and everyone and I'm not always sure that's a good thing...



    My fat story:

    I was always pudgy growing up. I realize now that I wasn't nearly as chubby as I saw myself and wish that I go back and give that girl some more confidence. I was a jerk in high school because of my own insecurities (a "mean girl"). I lost tons of weight after college (anyone remember Metabolife?). Of course, I gained it all back and then had my boys...gained even more.

    Fast forward to the last couple of years and I've lost somewhere close to 40-50 pounds. About half of that was off and on with WW and then a friend told me about MFP (which led to the other 20+ pounds off).

    I've spent the last 9 months or so obsessively reading the boards and thanks to the Road Map threads and now you ladies, I finally feel like I'm in total control of my own health and body. I'm obsessed with lifting! I've never been obsessed with anything so good for me!


    Anyway, I love this thread and can't wait to "meet" more of you!
  • kirabob
    kirabob Posts: 481 Member


    My parents are in New Carlisle. I'm not as familiar with Springfield, but I worked at the Kroger on N. Bechtle one summer.

    I haven't been to Clifton in awhile. We used to go walk around the gorge on weekends.

    My dad's parents lived in New Carlisle, on Spence Road! My aunts run the Herbs and Lace Bed and Breakfast in Clifton - the Gorge is pretty fantastic!
  • chubby_checkers
    chubby_checkers Posts: 2,352 Member


    My parents are in New Carlisle. I'm not as familiar with Springfield, but I worked at the Kroger on N. Bechtle one summer.

    I haven't been to Clifton in awhile. We used to go walk around the gorge on weekends.

    My dad's parents lived in New Carlisle, on Spence Road! My aunts run the Herbs and Lace Bed and Breakfast in Clifton - the Gorge is pretty fantastic!

    That's crazy! My parents are on Sigler. Such a small world.
  • marybowldseddington
    marybowldseddington Posts: 71 Member
    I am Mary.

    Currently age 40. I grew up in Northern KY but recently moved to South central KY by Mammoth cave. I am married to my high school sweetheart...it will be 24 years Dec 23! We have eight children ages 24,21,18,15,10,7,4 and 16 months. Five girls and three boys. We also just bought our first home in Dec 2012 that sits on 7 acres. We share the land with three horses, one cow that we hope to breed next year, three dogs..weiner, basset hound and mexican hairless. We also have one furry cat and one hairless cat.

    I have a degree in History. My favorite types of history to study are African American and Military history. I just started a Masters in Teaching specializing in Special Education. I only sub right now until I get a little further in the program. Working full time plus school full time with a family as large as mine would be too much to take on at one time.

    I enjoy going to antique stores and thrift shops. My families best friends are Amish. Our kids play up at their house and vice versa...just no TV or computers out of respect for their religion/way of life. They have taught us so much about gardening and how to become more self sufficient.

    I go to the gym for Stronglifts with my hubby. It is a way for us to spend time together. In addition I like to take weight classes or Zumba at the YMCA.

    Oh yeah.. I am also Mormon and will be teaching a seminary class every morning for high school kids before school starting at 6am and ending at 6:50. My fifteen year old will be in the class I am teaching. This is my first year teaching but her second year doing the class.