Would you date me?
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What is 420? :huh:0
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What is 420? :huh:
pot smoker.0 -
What is 420? :huh:
pot smoker.
Ohhhh! Why dont you just say pot smoker?? lol
And I agree, its not the kind of thing you need to reveal at this stage. Well, unless you want to bag a pot smoker, rather than a b/f? I'll give you my ex's number. He's stoned most of the time.......lol0 -
What is 420? :huh:
pot smoker.
Ohhhh! Why dont you just say pot smoker?? lol
And I agree, its not the kind of thing you need to reveal at this stage. Well, unless you want to bag a pot smoker, rather than a b/f? I'll give you my ex's number. He's stoned most of the time.......lol
420 is the normal nomenclature for dating websites in the US for someone that smokes pot or is friendly too it. Usually it will say "420 friendly".0 -
I'm at work and can't access your profile. To your original question, would I contact you based on your photo: I would pique my interest enough to read your profile. Based on the excerpts of your profile that were presented by Anna and Florian, I would move on to other options.0
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Sorry but I read nothing but negativity and I didn't even finish it. Im not currently using my profile but here it is:
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=48431485
It's all about being positive! I get many dates, many messages, etc. Sure, I'm not interested in them all but I get the attention of at least 1 or 2 fellas I like.
What I have heard from the guys I've dated is how 90% of profiles are like yours. They sound negative and bitter almost. We all hve been played, we've all been dumped, we dont, however need to advertise that. Guys want a happy woman. Someone who stands out because of her attitude.
I get messages specifically just telling me how they enjoyed reading my profile. I even have a cousin whom I helped with her profile, and it worked!!
As far as players and losers are concerned, trust that you, as a woman has the ability to weed them out. I ignore a lot of messages. Either because there was no thought, no effort in it. I feel it's my job to decide whom I want to talk to or not talk to at my own discretion. I don't have to advertise it!0 -
That's it, Diana, I'm going to copy the format of your profile onto my page! I love it!0
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This profile seems like 90% of the women profiles out there (not even mentioning your POF nickname, are you looking for your "KnightInShinyArmour73"?). It's crap to be frank.
And it's too defensive:
"If you have a girlfriend/wife and are in a relationship ... DO NOT message me! Stop pretending you're single! Are there actually single men in here?"
"I will admit as well I am a very picky person when it comes to men! I like what I like and I refuse to settle. Nobody ever should! That doesn't mean you have to be a model ... it means your personality will always dictate how I see you!"
"If you don't like tattoos, we won't get along!"
"I'm 420 friendly ... that doesn't mean I do it all the time but I do on occasion so if this bothers you, we won't work out."
"I love cuddling [...] No that doesn't mean you get free massages all the time ... that's a give and take. And also if you need to be the big spoon all the time, we won't work, lol."
"Sex ... I have a very healthy appetite for it but I don't sleep with guys I'm not with. You will end up waiting for it so if you're going to ask me out in hopes you will get in my pants ..."
It's like the carrot and stick strategy at every paragraph - "I do this, but you won't have it" - sounds fun! It only works well for donkeys though, so no wonder why the men you are attracting are just that: donkeys.
Ohh my... I am assuming these are exact quotes from your profile, and if yes, this is exactly why you don't get a lot of genuine response from good men. You need to cut out the negativity for positive (we have all been played, it's a given no one needs to hear it) Also, you don't need to talk about sex, weed, single people, etc. You have your standards and your boundaries and you won't stand for less, and they will see you as a high quality women when you stand by that - in person. And people lie so why list it all.0 -
Thank you for your feedback everyone! I am going in to revamp the profile this weekend based on your suggestions. I actually did meet a nice guy ... but my luck as of late with that is not so good so fingers crossed and we'll see how this one plays out!
You're all amazing for your honesty and help! 0 -
I agree with all the comments about the profile. As for your pictures, I looked at your mfp pictures and while you are attractive in all of them, you don't look like the same person. I don't know if it is the lighting, angles or the way you tilt your head but they are all very different. I would imagine for a guy that would be confusing.0
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I agree with all the comments about the profile. As for your pictures, I looked at your mfp pictures and while you are attractive in all of them, you don't look like the same person. I don't know if it is the lighting, angles or the way you tilt your head but they are all very different. I would imagine for a guy that would be confusing.
Every guy I met has thanked me for putting up pictures that look like me so I think my pictures are a good representation of who I am.0 -
To send a message to treatmelikealady76 you MUST meet the following criteria:
Age between 27 and 43.
You must have a picture to contact this user.
Must not be looking for Other Relationship
Must not be looking for Intimate Encounter
Must not be married
Fizzle-Sticks!!!!! Cut off by two years!
LGrill27 ... you have a sweet smile! 0 -
Your profile sounds like you wanna get laid, nix the 240, nix anything referring to sex, nix anything negative, keep it simple.0
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