Hey, Fat Girl

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  • phoenixgirl81
    phoenixgirl81 Posts: 309 Member
    I wish I could go back and tell this to myself as I was just starting out. Oh boy did I need to hear this.

    Now, on the other side of it, having just finished a first "long race" (14km - approx 8 miles) in 1 hour 47 min 48 sec, I can say it's so true. I DO look at the runners who are just starting out with immense respect and admiration. I mentally go back there to where it all started for me and I want to go up to them and tell them they're totally rocking this course and they truly are my heroes because they are starting to believe that they are worthy...and it only gets easier once you do that.
  • likitisplit
    likitisplit Posts: 9,420 Member
    The sheer courage to start without a guarantee of success is pretty astounding
  • Raasy
    Raasy Posts: 972 Member
    I love this blog.. I actually copied and pasted the full thing in my blog when I first started my journey. And when I was going through my C25k training I went back to it often, just to remind myself that others may be judging me, but more are probably secretly cheering me on.
    Now that I am training for my half marathon, I need to make sure I read it a couple more times, this is truly inspirational
  • mmipanda
    mmipanda Posts: 351 Member
    I will try to think of this every time I want to break down in a fit of self-loathing and perceived judgement. I hate being at the gym or exercising in public because I think everyone is secretly laughing at me.
  • likitisplit
    likitisplit Posts: 9,420 Member
    Not really. Mostly they are you a year or two from now.
  • likitisplit
    likitisplit Posts: 9,420 Member
    Bump.
  • letzdothiz
    letzdothiz Posts: 41 Member
    that was beautiful!! great words to start my journey on thank you :flowerforyou:
  • jigsaw_me
    jigsaw_me Posts: 616 Member
    wow .. thanks for posting that ...
  • saratague
    saratague Posts: 49 Member
    Thanks for posting this.

    I've seen it before and it reminds me of GOOD things every time.

    I am one of the heavy girls that hates (HATES HATES HATES) working out in front of other people because I totally think they are judging me.

    When I had a gym membership I stopped going because I was the only fat person there - What I didn't realize is that people WERE judging me, but POSITIVELY.

    Like someone else said, it's nice to remember that this isn't high school anymore and that people generally are good and will commend you if you are trying to better yourself.
  • likitisplit
    likitisplit Posts: 9,420 Member
    Thanks for posting this.

    I've seen it before and it reminds me of GOOD things every time.

    I am one of the heavy girls that hates (HATES HATES HATES) working out in front of other people because I totally think they are judging me.

    When I had a gym membership I stopped going because I was the only fat person there - What I didn't realize is that people WERE judging me, but POSITIVELY.

    Like someone else said, it's nice to remember that this isn't high school anymore and that people generally are good and will commend you if you are trying to better yourself.

    Many of the people there were the fat person there at one point. It doesn't take long to not be that person.

    Some day, you'll go to the gym and you'll see this person timidly trying out the elliptical for the first time. And you'll want to run over and say "right on!!!" but you know it'll just scare them even more....
  • hoyalawya2003
    hoyalawya2003 Posts: 631 Member
    Double bump. This always makes me cry, too.

    And there is a girl at my gym that I totally want to say this to--I am so inspired that she just keeps showing up and doing her thing.
  • rebecky27
    rebecky27 Posts: 842 Member
    Back to MFP after straying away...want to start C25K again too. Does anyone have an updated link to whatever this was?
    I get a "Sorry this page you were looking for does not exist" error when trying to copy/paste URL from OP.

    Thanks!!
  • likitisplit
    likitisplit Posts: 9,420 Member
    Try it again. It just worked for me.
  • PinkNinjaLaura
    PinkNinjaLaura Posts: 3,202 Member
    That really is a tear-jerker. I was at the track at the crack of dawn just praying nobody else would be there to see me trying to run.
  • love , love , love this !!