I keep things very basic. Olive oil soap I get from a local company (Lavender Moon Herbs), Tate's shampoo and conditioner (Amazon), and Everyday Coconut lotion that I use for everything, even my face. If I get really dry I use coconut oil or raw shea butter on the dry patches. Biggest thing for me is sticking to diet that doesn't include allergens. If I eat anything I have issues with I see it in my skin.

I'm minimalistic. I don't wash my face with anything but water and only once per day usually (gasp!). I have terrific skin for my age. I use a natural coconut shampoo on the rest of my body but plan to try just vinegar and baking soda on my hair because a friend of mine with similar baby-fine hair like mine swears by it.

I don't use any cleansers, creams, etc on my face because they make my skin dry out or break out. If I have a pimple that is bad I sometimes use tea tree oil. Also, for an occasional refresher I will blot with witch hazel - maybe once per month.

I don't really do makeup or the heavy products. I make my everyday/usual stuff.

I make my own shampoo with castille soap and coconut milk (this recipe - http://wellnessmama.com/3701/natural-shampoo/), and wash with it a couple of times a week (in between, I just rinse with water).

I make my own soap that we use in the shower. Doing it this way, I can control everything that goes into it, where I get everything from, and how drying/moisturizing the soap is (and it's soap, not detergent).

I generally just use water for my face, but do the oil cleansing method sometimes, and will do an occasional honey or sugar scrub. The honey is just honey applied to my face and let sit for a while, then rinsed off (a good moisturizing/softening treatment). The sugar scrub is sugar and an oil (the batch I have now is olive oil, but just about any will do) for a nourishing exfoliant.

If you're having issues even with water, you might want to look into getting your water tested and make sure there's not something in it that you might be reacting to. Additionally, you might want to review what you've been eating and see if there's something that is making you more prone to such reactions (dairy, nightshades, etc). Some probiotics might help, too (balance gut flora, crowd out parasitic strains that might be adding stress to your system, etc).

I use unrefined shea butter as a body moisturizer throughout the year and a 1:1 mixture of avocado and apricot kernel oil on my face. My skin has really benefited from this routine.