Keeping the faith
camblin
Posts: 38 Member
I commented to my daughter yesterday that the scale hadn't budged all week, and she started giving me a pep talk. "It will move, Mom. Don't let it get you down." But the thing is, I KNEW it would move because I log everything and track my exercise, and knew I was on track. Sure enough, this morning, the scale was down 1.6 lbs. Thankfully, at the beginning of this venture, I lost 12 lbs the first two weeks, which kept me motivated, because I'm not sure I wouldn't have given up if I had a six day stall back then. Now, I know that, if I am doing everything right, the scale will eventually move, so I don't get discouraged. It helps me get through the days when the scale not only doesn't move down, but **gasp** moves up! For folks starting out, it is easy to think that the success stories are people with a tremendous amount of willpower or hours a day to devote to exercise, and feel like giving up. But, the fact is that you don't have to go hungry or feel deprived, and you don't have to spend hours a day exercising. If you are being honest and staying within your goal, the scale will move. And it doesn't care if your calories are coming from donuts or carrots, or if your calories are burned running or taking a walk with the grandkids. I love the concept of being able to track my food and exercise on my smart phone and check it on my computer and iPad. I love having my statistics readily viewable. When the scale doesn't move for several days, it is nice to look back and see how this week compares to other weeks, and to see my progress over time. It helps keep me going. Technology has given us a powerful tool in taking control of our health. I remember trying to count calories after my second child was born, and it involved a white kitchen scale, a notebook, and a little booklet of calorie counts. Now, I can scan a bar code with my phone, my fitbit sends my exercie calories to MFP, and everything I need is right there on my phone all the time. There has simply never been an easier, more efficient way to track progress and stay on track.
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Well said! Good post!0
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Great perspective! I weigh myself several times a week just to be aware of the fluctuations--often 3-5 pds over the course of a week. I write each new low on my calendar and weigh in with trainer 2-3x/month. In 13 months I've had only one trainer weigh in where I went up, 1-2 where I was the same, and all the rest have been down down down. This weighing/monitoring strategy keeps things in perspective snd going in right direction!0 -
Great post indeed. The electronics don't control what we put in our mouths - we do.0
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Being aware is very important!0
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Wonderful post and so true. We have to accommodate the bumps in the road without panic. Just stay focused.0
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Thanks for the encouragement!0
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Brilliant post! Very motivational0
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Another way to track your progress when the scale doesn't seem to move is to begin a photo journal (before & After pics) they are a great visual tool to monitor your progress and oh so encouraging.0
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I lost my first 25 pounds pretty quickly and that was great motivation, however the next 5 pounds took 4 weeks. During that time I suffered with an injury that made working out almost impossible. I gave in to the negative self talk and probably would have quit if not for:
1. I have surrounded myself with folks who are losing weight and posting about it (online since none of my personal friends are trying)
2. I continued to log into MFP even when I refused to log how ridiculous I was eating.
3. Finally I decided to get serious about logging my food ago which made me more accountable
4. And I finally decided there must be some work around so to get back to working out.
It might be a slow process but I refuse to undo all my hard work. Even if I stay the same, I am better off than when I started this process.
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Thanks for all the posts on this thread. I was losing motivation but this has helped me gain it back along with determination.0
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I was stalled for 2 weeks. Well, up and down type of stalled. I just hung in there like so many post about, and the scale is going down again. It's hard to believe it will happen at the time. I've lost 3 1/2 pounds in a month, which is on the slow side, but is better than gaining 3 1/2 pounds!0
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When I was seeing a dietician regularly, he weighed me each time I visited. During one visit, my weight went up by a pound. I wasn't delighted. Seeing my discomfort, the dietician asked me what I would say if my daughter was upset about gaining a pound. I asked "What do you mean... before or after I stopped laughing?"
He said if I can extend such compassion to my daughter, why I cannot do so for myself? Hmmmmm....0 -
I have to remember that it doesn't happen over night.... That there are going to be imperfect days.... And that the big picture is much more important than any bad day.
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