Worst 'advice' you've ever gotten
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MsChrissyAnn
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You know the kind. Every Aunt, friend, cousin, and even random strangers know exactly what you need to do to have a baby. What's the worst of the worst you have gotten? Least favorite? How did you deal with said advice?
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Worst advice I've ever gotten is "You're so young! You have plenty of time to worry about having a baby!" I'm 21 with severe PCOS. I really don't have 'plenty of time' to worry about having a baby because getting my weight down to a safe one to carry a child takes up most of that time. I dealt with it usually by saying that they're right just to shut them up but one time someone said it, I snapped and told them I didn't because of medical conditions and that they didn't know what they were talking about. They shut up pretty quickly.0
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Ugh! I've gotten that one too... like 3yrs ago but now that I've hit the big 3-0 people are reminding me that my clock is ticking. (Eye roll here)
The worst for me is the "Just relax" no sorry Aunt Donna, you dont just relax away a disease, you go to the doc. It's is a medical thing.
My fam is also very religious so I get "All in God's time" alot too... which i know is supposed to give me comfort. Its not in my hands he'll take care of me blah blah blah... it just makes me wanna yell at him...0
